He Or Ours!

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Hello! I would like to ask you to give me some advice if you can! I doubt whether to go with him or not! I am 18 and he is 22. My parents are against us. So are his parents! They don't give me freedom at all (meaning when I want to go out to be let go or sleep with a friend) they check my phone constantly they want an explanation where I am and who I am with if they don't like the person I'm going out with they forbid them to start shouting without listening to me . Separately, I am always told that I will not succeed in anything. I have a boy who is my best friend as a brother. And they keep telling me that he's perfect, that he'll succeed and I won't. Now I told them that I would like to move out and study at a university that I will pay for the accommodation, I only wanted them to cover the costs of higher education because they are 3000 per year and I will not be able to do it alone. And they categorically said that if I went out to stay, I would pay for it and get better. And I can't stand here nor is there an understanding there are constant orders. I have an 8-year-old sister who obliges me to look after her. And that way I can't go out because I look at my sister like she's my child. And I don't think so. I've been watching her since she was 3 years old! And they told me that if I went with him, I would just forget that I had parents. On the other hand, we had quarrels with him and infidelities some time ago ... But now it seems that he has changed ... I am happy, safe and protected with him, he always supports me. This is my story in a very short way! So my question is. Is it a good idea to go live with him and leave us alone? I have an 8-year-old sister who obliges me to look after her. And that way I can't go out because I look at my sister like she's my child. And I don't think so. I've been watching her since she was 3 years old! And they told me that if I went with him, I would just forget that I had parents. On the other hand, we had quarrels with him and infidelities some time ago ... But now it seems that he has changed ... I am happy, safe and protected with him, he always supports me. This is my story in a very short way! So my question is. Is it a good idea to go live with him and leave us alone? I have an 8-year-old sister who obliges me to look after her. And that way I can't go out because I look at my sister like she's my child. And I don't think so. I've been watching her since she was 3 years old! And they told me that if I went with him, I would just forget that I had parents. On the other hand, we had quarrels with him and infidelities some time ago ... But now it seems that he has changed ... I am happy, safe and protected with him, he always supports me. This is my story in a very short way! So my question is. Is it a good idea to go live with him and leave us alone? On the other hand, we had quarrels with him and infidelities some time ago ... But now it seems that he has changed ... I am happy, safe and protected with him, he always supports me. This is my story in a very short way! So my question is. Is it a good idea to go live with him and leave us alone? On the other hand, we had quarrels with him and infidelities some time ago ... But now it seems that he has changed ... I am happy, safe and protected with him, he always supports me. This is my story in a very short way! So my question is. Is it a good idea to go live with him and leave us alone?

Last Updated
September 20, 2020
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