Hello. I'm a girl of 16 and the boy I like is 25. We've known each other for a year, we've been dating for about 9/10 months. He behaves like a complete womanizer when we go out. He looks at and takes off the girls, not caring if I look at him or not. When we are with them, he behaves as if I am the only one and compliments me, looks at me, sucks me if he has the opportunity. Write to me, call me. He and I are good friends, though. We have a lot in common and memories, we went out in common company, we have fun. He is very smart and ambitious. I didn't tell him about my feelings because I thought I was too ugly and small in his eyes. He certainly knew how I felt, I never tried to hide it. Although I see that he is a downloader, I really think that I am very much in love with him. I think about him every day, my heart beats when I'm around him. I keep telling myself that he can change. I have the feeling that I will not be able to be with someone else if he is not with him. I've never loved anyone so much before. I dream of him, I look at him in a photo and I wonder when we will finally be together.
Most recently, when I was with them, the conversation started and we said to each other who wants what. He told me that he found me very attractive and wanted us to be friends with privileges (just to have sex, without a serious relationship). I told him I preferred a serious relationship, but he just shook his head. I told him I would think about it, but inside I know the answer is NO. I feel like I'm some whore who will just satisfy his sexual desires, no matter how much I want to deny him. He will have the right to do whatever he wants and dump me when he gets bored, which does not suit me at all as an option. He does not want to lose his freedom, but I am not ready to compromise with my body. I still somehow hope that something can happen between us. He considers me beautiful and we are good friends, which means that my character also enjoys it. I wonder if we can find a common option so that we both feel good and something more happens in time. I don't think I can stop liking him. I really have high hopes that he will, sooner or later, be inclined to have a more serious relationship with me. Do you have similar stories/experiences.
What did you do? How did you feel? What would you advise me to do in my case? I will be happy to read your comments. which means that my character also enjoys it. I wonder if we can find a common option so that we both feel good and something more happens in time. I don't think I can stop liking him. I really have high hopes that he will, sooner or later, be inclined to have a more serious relationship with me.
Do you have similar stories/experiences? What did you do? How did you feel? What would you advise me to do in my case? I will be happy to read your comments. which means that my character also enjoys it. I wonder if we can find a common option so that we both feel good and something more happens in time. I don't think I can stop liking him. I really have high hopes that he will, sooner or later, be inclined to have a more serious relationship with me. Do you have similar stories/experiences.
What did you do? How did you feel? What would you advise me to do in my case? I will be happy to read your comments. What did you do? How did you feel? What would you advise me to do in my case? I will be happy to read your comments. What did you do? How did you feel? What would you advise me to do in my case? I will be happy to read your comments.
1 tdee19 answered
He will pass you by and will either use you for a sex toy or for once and bye. And your feelings will still be strong. Don't, girl, I'm sure you're not ugly, don't underestimate yourself. Let him look elsewhere for the squat. Not worth it.