My husband and I met on the Internet. We have been behind for 3 years now and we have a one-year-old child. I have always been tormented by the thought of his past and his exes. When it came to, he always avoided the topic. He only told me about one of his relationships and the topic ends, but I don't believe him. His opinion is that the past is past and to stay there. However, as a typical woman, I am not satisfied with this answer. Some time ago I asked for his Facebook password. He told me. For about a week I read what I could and realized that he had relationships with married older women with children. I was very upset. He probably doesn't want to say that. Otherwise, since we've been together, I'm sure she's just with me and no flirting. I try to calm down from the disappointment for him. We are important NOW. And he told me that, but my empty curiosity "ate my ears." I'm probably more conservative and I don't approve of this kind of relationship, even if it was only for sex. But for one I was left with the impression that there were feelings. I don't know if I should tell him that I spied on him and understand, or if I can swallow and move on. Now I look at him with different eyes. In principle, I know that many men like more mature women, but the fact that they were married and with children came to me more. About the author
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Spend more time with your child instead of doing nonsense. The man told you it was in the past, and you saw for yourself that these things are only from his past, so stop your sick curiosity if you don't want to lose your husband. And of course you don't even think about telling him what you did. If he finds out, he will never trust you again and things between you will most likely change in a bad direction.