Hi, I'm a girl. I have a relationship with a boy I like very much, but he doesn't feel anything for me, in a word, only sex. But he's still with me even that way, I know you're going to tell me not to stay with him, that he's just using me, but I'm aware of that. I have resigned myself and am waiting for a miracle. / But my problem is that he is very rude in sex. It starts gently at first, but then it's pretty rough. I like it more rudely, but it's too much. And during a sex breath, I can't help but tell him to stop. I want to be with him, but I don't want him to hurt, what should I do?
1 valentinorighi answered
He is rude because he does not sleep for you, or for your feelings, or whether you manage to catch your breath! He will never love you. You better look for happiness elsewhere, so you just waste your time and you can miss true love. At best, he will find true love and throw you away like a useless dirty rag. You will gain nothing from this relationship, but you will lose a lot, even your self-esteem. I even think that the reason for this masochism of yours lies in the tram in your childhood. You may have been physically, mentally or sexually abused by a loved one or relative. If so, it will be difficult for you to leave it, because you subconsciously like this masochism. If my guess is correct, I recommend a psychologist, because that way you won't get anywhere. And when you come to, it will be too late and it will hurt much more than now. Tighten up and take each other in your arms, everyone is a child only of their own deeds, girl.