Hello! I am a 16 year old girl. and like most people here I want advice. I like a boy of almost 5 years, but he did not pay any attention to me. I suffered a lot for him. Years have passed, I have changed and somehow I am no longer indifferent to him, he is even jealous of my boyfriends, but something still prevents us from being together. For two years, he is the reason I broke up with almost every one of my friends, telling me that we will be together and I always connect with him here. I am in the same situation now. I have a friend who I know really likes me and would never make fun of my feelings for me. I like him too, but no matter how hard I try to forget the other, I can't. Every time I see him, even for a few seconds, I think my old feelings for him come back. When he found out I had a friend again, he told me to betray him, that he likes me very much and wants us to go. However, my current one does not deserve to be abandoned, because I am everything to him. From so many relationships, he's the only boy I trust, I know I can count on him, and if we break up I'll break his heart, and he doesn't deserve it because he cares about me so much. Please tell me how to proceed.
1 codyc123 answered
Don't do the trick and be with your friend. I have been in the same situation and I can tell you that the other always wants you when he can't have you, and if he has the opportunity to ruin your relationship with another - HE WILL NOT HESITATE! Be with the other boy and give yourself completely to this relationship. It makes sense in the face of long-awaited attention.