As a person who has been studying psychology for a long time, I can give you some advice: * Ignore the fact that he is your girlfriend's brother. That doesn't change anything. №4 is absolutely right - the situation may even get worse, your girlfriend may love you with true friendly love and overwhelm you with attention and concern, but ... would she accept you in the role of "my brother's boyfriend"? Even if you are terribly close, don't tell her, much less ask her to help you. She will feel awkward if she has to stand between the hammer and the anvil. Hence two possible cases - 1. Her brother may not like you, EVEN if he shows sincere sympathy for you. (for reference - some time ago I was sure that a boy fell for me, but it turned out that "he treated everyone like that and was in love with a man"?!, so it turned out the other way around). Then your girlfriend will wonder how to calm you down, it will be an awkward situation and she will feel guilty and there will be no culprits. You cannot command love. 2. Her brother may fall for you. Then your girlfriend will feel like a second violin, because your time (in the best and compromise version) will now be divided into two - for "love" and for the girlfriend. She may become nervous and internally jealous, even if she is from her own brother. 3. Suppose you walk and break. Will you stay friends with her brother? And the fact that you are in the same class? Will it be heard around the school and are you interested in what others are saying? And his sister - will you continue your previous friendship with her? Answer these questions, it's important. If you don't care about the opinions of others, you're ridiculed and insulted, you know how to maintain self-control and control yourself well, no matter what happens, you will not be in a losing position. If you really like it and feel that things are really, really serious - act. Change your hairstyle, change your look - lose weight, gain weight (if you need to feel more beautiful. If you love yourself, people will love you.) Learn how to make up without overdoing it (I'm not saying this by accident) ). Learn which places you visit and "accidentally" end up there. Several times. You can say that one of his hobbies is interesting to you (study them without realizing that you are asking about his life, Bell.! - don't ask his sister! He will understand! You can only insert some question unnoticed in a conversation , nothing more). Most importantly - smile more, be cheerful and say with your presence: " I am friendly. I like you ", not -" I'm lonely. I need you. You are a godsend for me, without you I will die, etc. "You know what you will do from now on, it's from me :) Good luck whatever you decide :) Angel
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Mila and I are following a boy who is a cousin of my best friend, she knows, but he falls in love with another classmate of mine, it's pretty nasty and you just have to either find some way to forget him or impress him not like make me crazy about him!