My friend is very jealous, lately I don't know what to do, I had to delete Facebook, delete my Skype from the computer, I changed my phone card and all this so that there is no unnecessary drama. He is so superficial that it all comes down to sex, that if someone calls me, then we are lovers. And in the interest of truth, I'm studying to be an engineer and I don't want the percentage of women to be relatively small than that of men, and there's no way a colleague can't call me for an exam, for example, but that's not because I'm his mistress. I must have no other friends. We have been together for 2 years and sometimes I can't wait to explain everything. I hide the fact that I went out for coffee with my ex-boyfriend because it's an exaggeration. I know there's nothing, but I can't feel like I'm in possession forever. We love each other for sure, but I suffocate sometimes.
1 sexual_essence answered
His is not love, but dependence and fear of being left alone. There is a huge difference between love and what your friend feels. Love is equal to freedom, and everyone needs contact with other people. It is not normal to demand from the other person that he does not have this freedom and that his world revolves only around you. In time you will wonder how to escape from it, so now sit down and talk and clarify the situation. Tell him that at least work and study will require you to connect with other people, and they will also be useful to you. If he does not accept it, this is a sufficient argument not to maintain this relationship, because in time your situation will not be enviable at all. Doriana