He Is Not Happy

   Are you afraid to ask yourself and answer a question? Friends or loved ones? Such a person meets once in 100,000. With your appearance and past, he knows he can lose you. If you continue in this way / discos, pubs, etc./ you will definitely lose it. Especially if you go out without him. Think about what you really want. Tossing until the age of 35-40 on the chalgoteks and from churka to churaka until no one looks at you at the end or to indulge in the only loved one who, despite everything, has voted for you and given his love to you. She answered herself and then fought tooth and nail for her decision. It will not fall from the sky. You have to try.

   You both have mistakes. So, in a given situation, there is never only one culprit. The mistake with him is that he doesn't tell you openly, about the problems, for example. In my opinion, if you really care about one person and want to be one, sharing and trust is very important. I understand it to some extent, because I am also a person who does not like to burden others or seek help, I do not share, but I do not have a friend for this reason, I mean I do not want to commit myself because I do not feel ready to share with another and trust him. I find it difficult to admit people. But I still realize that it matters. You may neglect it too much, but you have felt it. I understand you and you, because I also have a social circle and I like to have fun. In my opinion, even if you have a friend, you can't sit at home all the time. The bad is, that you are from two different worlds as if you have many differences - you are more extroverted and he is more closed. I don't think that serious commitment means sitting at home all day, not having a social circle. I know many married couples, including my parents, who are not glued to each other. My father goes out with friends from time to time, my mother is not angry. She does not want to go to banquets with him, he goes alone and goes home. She also works in another city and a few days are away from each other, but either she comes home or he goes to her. They told me that it was even better for them not to be glued to each other. Separately my friend's parents - they are both together, but they both love to have fun, to party and that's great. I know another couple like that, married again - the woman has a huge social circle, she is very beautiful, she puts on make-up, dresses well, abe, doll, plays in the theater, separately and does some activity in the municipality. Sometimes I only see her with her friends, I saw her walking outside alone, I only saw her with her husband, her husband and their friendly company. They travel together, separately, anyway. It's just perfect for me. Trust and respect are very important, but this only exists in adults. Only with passion and love nothing happens. In my opinion, if you really want to succeed, you need a serious conversation. If I break up with you now, I don't think he's that keen on getting things done. You still invite him, he doesn't want to come with you. With a serious conversation, I think you could fit in better, but you need to be open. For example, some mode - when to see your friends separately, when to be together, etc. It's very bad not to share. I do not think, that you even have to manipulate yourself for your past. From personal experience I know that a person who is 18-19-20 knows nothing and such manifestations for me are more like a child's squat and after a while it passes. Even then, you hadn't met the man you deserved. In any case, it is definitely better at 19-20-21 to try different people, to have fun, than after 30, when you already have a husband and children, and then to remember that you have to catch up and break up your family. .

   I'm 35, I'm not complaining that I don't have friends, I don't miss them! And they are unlikely to support my hobbies - when there are concerts, ceremonies, etc., I go with my camera to shoot them! Since most people prefer to crash into a foxhound, I prefer to respect the work of everyone who organizes this event! Otherwise, the Municipality of Varna takes over the organization of the events in our city and that is why they are free and accessible to everyone! My other hobby is recording interesting shows, concerts and movies on TV! And thanks to the fact that I don't have any company that interferes with my hobbies, I do everything without any restrictions! And not exactly when I leave for the concert, for someone to call me and let's go to a pub and waste my time talking nonsense! I just don't like wasting my time, especially when I know there's something important, and I want to shoot it, everything else is in the background! Otherwise, I know a few neighborhood boys, even from children, but they have been married for a long time and work, which is why they are not looking for me or me!

   The important thing is to look in one direction. How do you imagine the future, do you have common plans? He's a student, are you? Do you have a desire for development, do you do something about it? There is also the moment when people start to develop in different directions. I guess, but for example you think mainly about entertainment, and he - about his development in the future. Think and talk. This conversation does not have to end, it can simply initiate a positive change in both.

   Tell him that he can trust you completely and ask him more often what to do for him to be happy according to his ideas !!!