Yes, he is addicted. Porn wouldn't be a problem if it didn't hurt your sex. There are several reasons why people watch porn: 1. They like the feeling it gives and the "release" afterwards. One kind of release the tension this way. 2. Variety - many and all kinds of actresses, plots, poses, blah-blah. There the woman is yours, available and ready to do everything for you. 3. They often have fantasies that they can't fulfill with their partner for some reason. All this can be found in adult movies. 4. The real world is complex, full of problems and unforeseen situations. Porn is clear and predictable, no one knows what surprises. 5. It's easier. This is my friend's excuse - no worries, expectations and worries. You just open the site and you're ready. 6. The presence of Madonna-whore complex. Generally speaking, this is the inability to get aroused by your official partner while going crazy over every cool stranger. Such men divide women into two: holy mothers and lower whores. They want to humiliate and have sex with light and lewd women until they can imagine it with their pure and unsullied girlfriends. Of those suffering from this complex, Freud says, "Where there is love, there is no desire, and where there is desire, there is no love." If anyone is interested, there is more in Wikipedia. In simple terms, we just say you're bored, but maybe it's more complicated than that. 7. Our way of life. We want everything to happen quickly, to happen now. We do not have the patience and desire to deal with complicated things like sex with a real person. All this together, and the habit he has obviously developed with frequent viewership, lead to the problem, which you have. You're not guilty, you're not crazy or anything. The dude is sick. There's not much you can do unless he wants to help himself. If you want, try to raise the issue, but as you were told above, expect scandals, quarrels, accusations, because no one wants to admit that they are addicted and subject to something. Many people don't even realize it. It will be the same with another woman, maybe if she is some super twisted and perverted bacchanal, his attention will last longer, but after a while he will return to porn. I managed to make progress with my friend, but we never had problems in sex, he did not suffer from porn. But his image of women was quite offensive, he made very stupid comments, and he had rather strange fantasies with random girls on the street. He asked himself to help, he thought to himself and with joint efforts we managed to consolidate the situation. It is far from ideal, but better than before. If you care a lot about your man - try to talk to him carefully, without nerves and accusations. If that doesn't work, run with 200.
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Your boyfriend is addicted to porn. The sensations of masturbation and sex are different and that's why he doesn't want to have sex with you. Bad work! You can try to talk, but it will hardly have an effect. He will most likely explode and start accusing you of being crazy, that all men are like that, and so on.