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He Has Terrible Sex, He Is Lazy.

By lana_del_bae June 27, 2020 27 answers Last updated June 27, 2020
Hello, 25 years old. I have been married for three years. My husband and I have been together since 4. When I had sex for the first time, it was with him. It was nice at first, as far as I can tell, because I haven't been with other men. He caressed me, touched me, we kiss me everywhere. If it matters, I'm neither fat nor ugly, even if it sounds immodest, at work, my colleagues are constantly complimenting and courting me, and in fact, I think I'm happy. For a long time, maybe three years of sex with my husband, it can not even be called sex, is a tragedy. We lie down, for example, and he takes it out and directly takes off my pants a bit, puts it on five, six times and goes to bed to give him a blowjob, he likes to cum on my face and blow, it seems that he likes it, but he is lazy for sex, and I don't even drive it. I recently had an experience, if I may call it that with an acquaintance, it was just pushing and kissing and I stopped there because I didn't want to do anything else. I felt very wanted, I can still feel his hands on me incredibly. My husband does not have a mistress, this is obvious to me, he does not even look, and always avoids going out without me. He claims that he loves me a lot and always kisses me, hugs me, but in sex everything is very different. He doesn't know he's the only man I've slept with. When we did, I just didn't tell him I was a virgin. I want to experience this incredible feeling, to indulge in desire, but it doesn't work. At the same time, he told me that if I slept with someone else, everything would end between us.

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largeforms answered · June 27, 2020
I wonder how he didn't understand that you are a virgin: D
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nicevenice answered · June 27, 2020
Sex is not just about blowjobs and such nonsense. And where are you ? Somewhere back? Drop it or don't pay attention to it and then let's see it. Basi, hey, your selfish and selfish .. Who are these men, yes.
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victor415 answered · June 27, 2020
Why don't you talk? And you didn't sleep with someone else, but you pushed yourself?
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kattydirty144 answered · June 28, 2020
He doesn't have to understand. The most obvious time for cheating is on Monday, 11 a.m., so take a day off and you're done, you'll enjoy it and the memory will keep you warm all winter :)
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laneboy13 answered · June 28, 2020
Does rust and a woman leave ... Another one that wants someone to give her a license for infidelity.
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9090pope answered · June 28, 2020
You say he's having terrible sex, so what if it's all over between you? And once you're pressed, sooner or later you'll do the rest. And with what intelligence did you marry the first one you slept with? I was just amazed. Talk to him frankly, if things don't work out, get rid of him - because in the end the bottom one will come out and you, the one to blame for everything.
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lickandlick answered · June 29, 2020
So how come he doesn't know he's the only man you've slept with? So since you were a virgin when you did it for the first time, didn't you shed blood ??? How many times can a cherry burst? You got married very early. You tend to cheat on him. Talk to him about sex and what's going on in your life. Including the fact that they take you down, and you want to feel the sting of him. There is no other way,
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konnyeandjessie_ answered · June 29, 2020
I still can't understand you women? You prefer to cheat, but continue to live in a terrible marriage. There is no logic? What keeps you with this man? You don't write if you have children? I see no reason to live together.
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mercedes_goddess answered · June 29, 2020
Same problem but I'm a man my wife doesn't want to hear about sex I'm 29 she's 24 .... Or she wants me to finish in 2 minutes ... If I have a woman like you every day every minute, I'll drive her crazy
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hottop7678 answered · June 30, 2020
Everything between you is ALREADY over. And not just because of him. But whoever has plums in his mouth and can't talk about the problems will have a divorce later.
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maryberry18 answered · June 30, 2020
To №7! At 11 o'clock it is also dangerous, it is during working hours, or the boss will find out or someone else. It is safest during lunch, everyone thinks only of mambo, and you get a Macedonian sausage instead of mambo. Success!
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bakedlikecupcakes answered · June 30, 2020
Number 12, and I'm with my husband, we're 25 years old, he's still tired of sex, and I want so badly to be able to meet you;)
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sabrinamina44 answered · July 01, 2020
For decades, women have been pulling for sex - now you will stay dry!
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sohrnycoguy answered · July 01, 2020
What, nature wants hers. He who has not consumed before marriage, does it after it. And in this work gathers routine and wisdom as in any other. You are ready for infidelity, but it is normal, you are a living person, and life passes. Only do it with reason, and with a person who suits you ...
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miah_17 answered · July 01, 2020
Because he is a breeder and provides a standard. Hammers provide emotion. That is why he is with him and his horns will sprout to the sky.
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eukin answered · July 01, 2020
As always. First it starts with the fact that the man does not get up and then you see colleagues appear, acquaintances .. The only push was that she wasn't like that. But I'm not that kind of woman. Abe, tell her that you fuck with others, so you don't see two. She got married 20 years later and roars. Is anyone to blame? You fuck with different, but in a typically feminine way you shift the blame to the men. Napoleon said it: All women are whores, except my mother, but let's not forget that she is also a woman. I say: The woman is not yours, it is your turn.
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milanatwice answered · July 02, 2020
It is not clear what the author wants .... advice ... decision ... permission ... license or justification. Experiencing the incredible feeling of merging is a matter for two. If there is no second one is wanted .... someone dies like that without finding it ... and sex for many people is not in the first place .... the big thing is Love ... And it is inexplicable
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andrea_braixen answered · July 02, 2020
I'm 25 years old too, G. Your husband doesn't try anything, he looks to get what he wants and he doesn't care about you. I call such men selfish. The only way is to tell him that what he gives you is not enough. And there is no room for insults or the like. Ask him a counter-question - if you don't give him blowjobs or do what he likes, whether he won't feel neglected, and how much sex he will like. I can't stand them, or they start trying, or bye. If I take care of them, then she needs me.
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cherryisback1 answered · July 02, 2020
Nobody made you hold on to the first person you met. You were obviously desperate. If you had a little experience with sex, you would know it was bad from the start. Even before sex, I orient myself, only by the behavior, and even then I try to see what it's about. Over time, sex doesn't get any better, and it's not up to you. It's just that he's inexperienced too, and he's also bad in bed. By the way, kisses are your kisses and this is not sex. Apparently your notions of cool sex have been based on movies so far. If you had some really good sex, you'd see what we were talking about. You are not really doing anything with your husband at the moment. 5-6 inserted is not sex, it's a beating of numbers.
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xprincesspeachesx answered · July 03, 2020
All I will say is that to me you are a whore. She was pushing with another and you liked it ... As someone upstairs said two, you don't look, fuck you. She has a husband, and she went to push the first person she met. You have already cheated and your husband does not deserve such a whore as you, safe from you. Fuck whoever you want, the man doesn't deserve to put horns on him, which will most likely continue to grow. Garbage, you're the same.
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natesbigdick answered · July 03, 2020
You need two for sex. If he's terrible, they're both to blame. But when the magic disappears, there is nothing left unless it is somewhere outside. Tell yourself, go ahead, that's the function of the result! Why not indulge in ? So you still love your husband and not everything is lost :)
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evacolombia answered · July 03, 2020
Everyone likes to be liked. I do not see a future together, you are too young, do not rush with the children. With each marriage, sex changes, there is passion only in the beginning. It's only a matter of time before you sleep with someone else.
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kinpa406 answered · July 04, 2020
Very rudely, lest men be faithful to one, not look and desire another. As such, catch your husband ... When men get a woman and forget about her, they have already won her over, they don't have to push and try. Many marriages fall apart quickly when it is decided that the battle is won.
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zipvicki answered · July 04, 2020
What happened to women's pretensions and derogatory expressions about sex such as "one naked sex" and the like with pulling and "he wants ONLY sex". Apparently, leaning the knife against the bone, sex suddenly becomes the most important thing and everything else goes into the background. Good sex is NOT a given, if you want good sex, then you put it as a priority FOR OTHER THINGS and not to watch other things, to complicate the process and then to complain about the lack of good sex.
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alcupwn answered · July 04, 2020
Leave the man to you, he didn't want to, but if you behave like a k ... how can he want to. The Serbs and he must have felt the man, calm down !! You have a lot of suitors, attack them one by one, I hope you get enough
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zinalink42420 answered · July 04, 2020
You hurried to call her a whore. My advice is to dump it until you have children, which then becomes difficult. As a young woman, I exalted myself in love and did not pay attention to sex. Sex was NOT in the first place. Yes, but after 20 years of marriage you understand that it is also important. Because the years go by. We are not getting younger. I have been thinking about cheating for 20 years. I was an exemplary mother and wife. But now I realized that I had missed a lot of things in life, and the years passed. So if something is wrong, just dump it. He will not change, nor will my husband, after countless conversations.
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swfl_fun answered · July 05, 2020
You are married and he doesn't know that he is your first, you lie to him about being faithful to him and you don't tell him about your problems in sex? ... What is this connection? Without sincerity, without trust ... I don't understand ... If you want to save your marriage, you have a lot of work to do, and if you wait for things to fix themselves, you will end up with a divorce.