I just want to tell because I'm happy. I was 17, she was almost 15. Summer 2016. In front of their block there is a football field with grass. We kicked every night. She and 2 other girls were standing on the benches by the playground. One night we sat with them. We chatted and became friends. From chat to chat every day, in the winter I had already become close to her and I was in love. Let's just say I'm a Cancer and she's a Scorpio. I talked to her about everything. I chatted about baby, duck and so on. but never live. When I went to kiss her, she pulled away. I never spurred her. It is difficult to relax. I also admitted that I was in love with her, and she told me that I was very dear and loved me, but only as a friend (brother). I did not give up. 3-4 months later she caught a friend. They were together for 2 months, he was jealous of me, I kept proving to her that I wanted her more than anything. They broke up. I thought he would give me a chance. But not. She didn't want a relationship. We were like brother and sister again. We fought, we blocked, but we always got better. And we quarreled because I sometimes got angry that he didn't give me a chance. A year and a half later, a Petko appeared. She seemed to fall in love with him. He turned out to be a whore. And nothing happened to him. I tirelessly waited for my chance. I went to Sofia to study. I kept writing to her, and I always looked for her when I came home. We went out for coffee again as brother and sister. I couldn't be angry with her anymore - how could I be angry that I wasn't attracted to her? I didn't come home on purpose so I wouldn't see her. But we wrote to each other every day and called each other. And so time passed. I also had 2-3 unsuccessful attempts to contact Sofia. Until April 21st. I returned to my hometown. I wrote and we went out. On the way out, I went to kiss her and she attacked me. I was shocked. I was happy, but I didn't even expect it. He said he loved me and wanted us to be more than friends. The next day he came to us and we made love. Not just sex. It was something beautiful. I was in my hometown for 2 weeks. Now I am in Sofia again. She said that these were the best 2 weeks of her life. And now we are together. 3 years later, albeit from a distance. I still love her, I'm still in love.
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Conclusion: even if you are in the friendly zone, if you wait 3 years and it doesn't show up, you have a chance :)