He Doesn't Want Us To Go Anywhere.

Well, ten years apart, why do you ask at all. It's going to get even more dramatic. They're going to start ailments... It just comes a stage in life where a person has less energy, the job is the same or more, and at the end of the day you just want to lie down and look at one point.

Hi, I'm 35 from Varna! I'm about to graduate. work I will present in March 2019! That's why I'm not working yet! My hobby is-attending events and concerts with free entry! We're capturing everything with a camera! The events are -ceremonies, concerts of various performers, outdoor cinema screenings - in the summer the concerts are held on the famous stage "Raconcina" in the Sea Garden, and next to "FC-Varna" was the screening of the film "Directions", organized by the traveling "Summer Cinema with BNT 1", I managed to shake hands with Dragomir Draganov, and every visitor was entitled to a pack of popcorn, I managed to meet with Snezhana Georgiev, former employee in Radio " , now works as an organizer! And 01. 11 there was a folklore concert in "DKS-Varna", "Congress hall", I managed to shoot everything, but the first two performances impressed me the most! The boys played their first bagpipe performances-"Where are you faithful, you, love folk? " and "Wind, Balkan moan"! That's what i'm spending my time on! And the hall was almost full, I was able to sit next to the team that was sounding the concert, the important thing was to keep everything in the frame! You probably want to go to free concerts, ceremonies and movie screenings too! And your husband is adamant! Well then the move alone, he doesn't want to go, I also go alone, I don't want to go to some fox and miss the interesting! And the audience is mostly of adults and not so young people! And here I feel like in my own waters- no drunks, drug addicts or criminals, as there are in clubs and other risky places! I don't like to stick myself in the wolf's mouth!

You can have a serious conversation with him on this topic. There was something like this going on in my family: my mother wanted to go somewhere and my dad would stay home. Both sides have compromised and there have never been any scandals. If he doesn't want to compromise sometimes, and for you, rest is important (quite understandably, if you work a lot) you have to decide for yourself what's more valuable to you - the relationship with him or the rest. You can always go on holiday alone, but with a loved one it's another :) Sit down and discuss it as big people, so as not to strain yourself with scandals and quarrels. Good luck :)

Like where you want to go in the park, at a restaurant on a field trip. He should be mindful of the scandals. And my husband doesn't like it very much, but chat pat we go out, now we're with a kid and we're tired at night. I also love to go on excursions, and I'd feel bad if I didn't want to. I don't see a future...

He's homemaker. I think there are two options. 1. Go out with girlfriends 2. If you can't go out, split up.

Maybe he just wants peace of mind - to go home, eat, watch TV, or click on the computer some things to relax him. My friend had a period like this when he was at work and had a loan problem. He was nervous, I made him go even for a walk, he didn't want to.. He didn't want us to go anywhere but them to stay. And then I found out that he was nervous and tense about the money. Maybe your guy has some problems that are bothering him, and I don't know what you mean by going out. If it is for pubs and gatherings, he may have had enough and there may be no desire for such turbulent events, but to indulge in the home comfort. Just ask him and talk to him, I think that's the best solution.

When you fill your heads that the age difference matters, everyone chorally says it didn't matter!? Yes, but no, it matters, and here's the proof the author shows! He's already 40, he's lived, and now he wants to sit down with a young girl and cuddle in the family nest. But the young girl is like a young wine, his blood boils, he wants to drop his energy among people, he wants to party, he wants to party, all things that are already squealing at the guy (even if he is, money), then the end comes!

Go out with friends.

We can't change other people, we can only learn to understand them and find the necessary compromises for the sake of connection. If your boyfriend doesn't want to go out, go out alone or with girlfriends. He won't be lazy every day for your man, at some point he'll have a mood and ask you to go for a walk or a place.

Things, author, are not going to get better, and it's going to get worse. I'm the only one who knew it! I was all alone. Alone in the theater. Alone on friends' anniversaries. Alone at a concert. Alone at a reception. Alone at the premiere of her book. Alone to visit a married couple. He once did not even come to his own birthday, which I had organized at the villa and to which his own relatives were invited. Every summer we would go for two weeks on vacation, which time he would spend in front of the laptop in the hotel room, and I was 10 hours alone on the beach. Well... I couldn't just stand it. I left him. With my second husband - to date he is also 40 years old - things are completely different. We're the Mara Public. Who plays us, and we're on the line. Summer we travel at every opportunity, organize picnics, fishing, welcome guests almost every weekend or we go around our friends' villas. In the winter, as early as Sunday evening, my husband asks me, "What is the cultural program of the week that I do not make any more commitments? " Almost at night with company we are at a theater, concert, exhibition, cinema, and then the restaurant is mandatory to discuss the event. I have no memory in the last five years of having a week where we just come home from work. However, I want to tell you that this intensity of social life is also tiring. There are days when I just want to sit with a glass of wine in front of the TV. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, We have opera tickets, my husband bought them a month ago! That's how we drive it. From one extreme to the other. It's only a matter of time before you knock the door on.

To number 11! I'm the Varnenets who mentioned myself above! When I settle down, I'll go again, i'il take pictures again, in the summer it's done, but it's just up to the person! It wasn't his favorite hobby, not that I'm not like him, but knowing there's going to be something, I'm going to go and take a picture of him, that's all! And I don't have that much money to buy opera tickets, theaters-all are from 50 leva up! And that's what the rich do, because as you describe your current man, it turns out he's right in this group! And there are people who have nothing to put on their table and buy medicines, and it's not up to them to go anywhere, at a high price! But your first man didn't do the right thing in any of the cases! To leave you alone on the beach and not go to your birthday- that's a mess! He's been mocking you! You sacrificed your free time to make him happy, and he's like a wedding without a groom! It's just how it comes out! And now at least you're happy!

N. 11, I don't see much happiness in being crazy from an event.... especially if you don't want to go? This hepperty is just murderous, and I'd even say complex, some self-proving... It's only a matter of time before your husband goes to a concert and doesn't come back... with you. And giving yourself half your salary for frank nonsense (like most concerts and staging now) is also a lot of nonsense. But i guess the number is being chased... It's your business. To the author I will say - you are very different. There's no way he's yet to change. Go out with friends, relatives. The other option is that. There's no third one!

I don't think the problem is that your husband is 40 years old. My friend is 30 years old, I'm 28, and I have him with my problem. He almost never organizes anything outside the house, I'm the initiative, and when I suggest that we go outside and do something, there's a long discussion and a big off-the-shoulder and a lot of frustration on his part. Otherwise, we really go out afterwards, but by the time we get out it's a big fight- it's like making it work. Every time I try to explain to him that I wish he was more proactive, he tells me "where do you want to go so much? " "I'm not your clown to entertain you all the time" and some sort of like that- as if I'm demanding too much of it. We've been living together for a few years and we've both been working, he's a little bit more than me, but that's no excuse- we're not 70 years old after all. Apart from this, there are no friends in the city we live in, only some classmates in another city, with whom it is visible from rain to wind. And when he's with them, it's the last time he's given away. Otherwise, it doesn't stop me from going out alone with my friends, but I want to do things together. I don't know what the solution is anymore. Except to go out on my own and accept that she's not going to have fun out there with him. To add, I have activities outside of our relationship that don't involve staying at home, and he really likes to click games on my computer. I let him play and go out and do my stuff, but in reality we just sleep and eat together, the rest is individually.

A man in his 30s could be dead mentally than 40, 50 years old. It's just next to a man. Get a lover to see how fast you're going to fly, you're going to be shining, you're going to be happy, and you're not going to wait for the sloth.