I became friends with this guy, we went out, we got to know each other, and after six months one night, he kissed me. The next time we went out again, he's back between our mutual friends, he comes up to me and kisses me in front of them. I felt very uncomfortable because I don't know what to say when they ask me. So one day I decided to ask him what was going on between us and if we were in a relationship. He told me he loved me, but he didn't want to get involved. I accepted it and started treating him like a friend again. One night, he saw me in the company of a new boy, and he went crazy. He came to us and kissed me in front of everyone. I was wrong, what does he want? Is he jealous? What am I supposed to do? I like him, but why is he reacting like that? Valentine's Day is coming, and I don't think he's going to do anything about it, at the same time he's annoyed if I show attention to someone else.
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engine1980 answered · June 10, 2020
You either eat your bone or you give it to someone else. Decide if you like him, and if so, tell him you'il be with him if you commit, if you're not going to be with someone else, normal. He can't "not want to get involved", but to be jealous. the spoiled. If you don't like him, just tell him to stop kissing you.
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johnhung777 answered · June 10, 2020
From the author: Thank you, that's right. And yesterday on Valentine's Day, he uploaded a picture of how lonely he is and that he doesn't have a girlfriend to celebrate with. It was very offensive to me.
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violetweekendts answered · June 10, 2020
Author, don't tolerate such a half-hour and your deb*l attitude towards yourself!
Call him and clear up your relationship now! And if he doesn't want a serious relationship, and he keeps kissing you and embarrassing you in public, the best thing you can do is slap him in front of everyone before he's touched you! AND ASK HIM HOW HE LETS HIMSELF KISS YOU???
There's no option where he's not ready for a relationship, but he's going to have to kiss you in front of friends!!!
Don't let him play with you, even if you want him to be a girlfriend!!!
You put yourself in a position where everyone will look at you with a laugh, and in the future, don't be surprised that you're being blinded by men who want to use you!
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xclyandbonx answered · June 10, 2020
Well, tell him that you're making a bad impression on how almost female dramatically he behaves, that he's supposedly lonely for attention and "regret," and he's not really lonely at all, and he doesn't want to commit. In other words, the whole fiasco is for the purpose of staying in this intermediate state, where they pay attention to it because of the parade and "lonely" photos, and at the same time flirts with anyone and muses if it stops paying attention only to him. He's a real muffin. It's just that I insult the guy you like, but it really does make the impression that he lives for the drama and the attention. You're right to be offensive, and I don't think he has any serious intentions. I guess he'd rather like him and run after him. Don't. This tactic may now be he discovering it, but it's been known for a long time - you're sorry, you're ironic, you're looking to provoke the girl's maternal instinct to take care of you, help you and work. It really works, and it's your first time with him. Keep that in mind- that's how they'il try to work you hard.
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maisiebabyyy answered · June 10, 2020
Today I came across an article about men, which mentions signs that indicate that he does not really love you and has no serious intentions. I'm going to copy directly the part of the text that answers your question.
5. Wants to fight for your attention, but nothing more
What happens: He only shows interest when other men woo you and ruin every opportunity to have a relationship with another person.
What do you think it means: "He's jealous. He's finally realized that other men are interested in me, which means that from now on things will be different and he will value me. "
What it really means: He likes the thrill of the race, and you lift his self-esteem. He's not interested in a serious relationship.