I will absolutely not allow myself to pay a man's bills, regardless of the circumstances. I think he uses you, don't let him! No one who respects himself and the woman next to him will allow his bills to be paid. Keep your money girl and have respect for yourself. What is this breadwinner for you, in the future besides him you should feed your children as well. Run until it's too late!
Behave well with your family, with you, to enchant you. It's all a game. And, no, it's not simplicity, it's a serious problem. If he is not embarrassed that you only pay, then he does not respect you at all. And what kind of man will leave the girl to feed and support him? Just imagine a future family with this person - how will you live, how will you eat? This is his way of thinking and bullshit, nothing more.
Next time, pay your share and leave early and don't pay anything, don't deal with jerks.
What a hate girl, he's with you because you're good to him. Even if he has money, he knows he doesn't need to spend on you because you showed him you're okay with paying for everything. It will lead to "I have no money this month, will you fix your bill" when you live together. I agree that there are ups and downs in every relationship and one of the parties will not have a job, but I am talking about this case.
You don't have to feel guilty. It's definitely not ok to let you pay for it ... and you shouldn't let things go on like this.
In my opinion, at this stage you do not need to initiate a special conversation. I would personally try to clarify things for him in a specific situation.
For example: you are in a restaurant, the bill comes. You calculate your half, you tell him: mine is how much you are and you hand him the bill to calculate his part. If you took tickets online, when you see each other you tell him directly, here is your ticket, it is euros 10 (for example).
Don't let him hang on to you at all, because he's obviously not uncomfortable at all.
You may be in a bad financial situation right now without knowing it. Don't answer me automatically that it's not because we men are ashamed of it and sometimes hide it from the women we care about.
Or he may be strangely polite and may not even know that his behavior is strange and unusual. Hint 1-2 more times and then talk to him, but softly, it must be an easily vulnerable topic.
The man has no money, and I have been in this situation, it is very unpleasant. Give him time to start work he will pay. And before you do anything, first talk about the problem, with dialogue miracles happen.
She is not petty and mercantile at all. This would also make a bad impression on me at the beginning of the relationship and it will not be OK for me to pay all the time. I would not date such a man.
Are you okay to be with such a slipper, What if you have kids and are waiting for you!
Runaway from such, you are blinded by love, but remember - it is for a while, then it is respect, and if it is like that, it will disappear.
You are not petty, you just came across a man-holder. I don't know how you ever managed to love someone who uses you openly. This is not a matter of upbringing, habit or anything else, but a symptom of something much deeper - pure and simple, the person does not care about you. His behavior is more than glaring, it's up to you to accept such things. It's better to end the relationship before it deepens and it's too late. Because the simplicity is to tolerate a user, not to have requirements.
Don't ask why he is with you if he doesn't really love you, etc. These are unnecessary questions to which you will not learn the correct answer, but it certainly has nothing to do with love, respect, and understanding, things that should be an integral part of any healthy relationship.
Either you endure it and don't grumble when you can't do without it, or you leave it and find a man who pays for restaurants, cinemas, etc. There is no other option.
When we were boyfriends, my husband usually paid for it, other times we collected pennies for a bottle of cheap wine and some cheese to share, sometimes I gave him the money under the table to pay. But no one calculated how much he gave, we were glad to be together. And now we don't have mine and yours. I am, as they say, with "rare fingers" and he manages with money as more reasonable, without depriving me of anything I want.
To your question - when he asks you to pay something, tell him that you don't have money at the moment. Or that you will only pay half. It's neither embarrassing nor embarrassing to talk about money at all, don't you want to have a relationship? Life also includes everyday life, it is not only love and sublime things. And learn to talk are all with each other, not behind your back.
It's not petty. He uses you. Go with his stones on his head and stop paying for his company. A big brat. I was just angry, honestly. Don't be naive, use them.
This is not normal behavior for a man. I wouldn't deal with one.
It is good to have equality in terms of finances. One draws today, the other tomorrow. This is a gesture and it is fair.
And make you go buy popcorn? Laugh...
I would dump it, especially when you say it doesn't work. You really don't know what it can grow into.
Runaway from bullies, lazy people, and alcoholics/drug addicts!
You don't sound petty at all.
This is an attitude. And it is the main thing. It is key.
I can't imagine having a wife and not making her feel like one. Even with some popcorn if needed.
Now, if a woman insists on paying this or that, or it is fifty-fifty, because her beliefs are like that, then she can pay as well.
These are red flags in the beginning, that's all I'll say. In a deep relationship, it can grow into something problematic.
Talk to him, straight to "Why do I have to pay for everything?" and see what he will answer. You can make your conclusion after that.
Terrible horror is such a tight man.
I would ask him directly why he does not pay.
I'm 20 and you're probably older than me, but I can say that I was in the same situation when I went out with my ex-boyfriend. Most of the time I paid for everything (or rather my parents because they supported me). He worked unlike me, but when he got paid, he wasted his money on nonsense for 3 days. And the rest of the time, if it weren't for me, he wouldn't be able to buy 1 doner. Then I thought it was very stupid, that I felt bad, I thought I was nasty to think about money and so on. However, I realized that our people earn the money they give me, I tried not to spend too much, and on the other hand, my boyfriend did not bother to drag me to restaurants and I pay everything. In this situation, I felt very bad, just like you say - as if I were the man in the relationship. I felt like I wasn't good enough, that's why I'm in this situation. I watched my girlfriends pay their boyfriends, I'm not saying that's right, but to pay only the girl for me is extremely humiliating. It should be humiliating for a man, but for some it is very convenient even. The stupidest thing was that I didn't tell anyone then. It happened that we went out in company and before that I gave him money to make it look like he was paying the bill, that he was uncomfortable, but that I was actually paying, he was not uncomfortable. Run away, this is not the man for you! You may think you're nasty, but you're not - you're just a woman who respects herself. It's not even about the money you spend, it's about how much self-esteem is crushed by such relationships, how you change the way you look at yourself when you're with such a person. I tell you from experience. A truly decent man would not allow his girlfriend to pay him everything. Everyone can be in a difficult situation, but if it is always up to you to pay, you will feel that this person just does not care and only uses you. These things are always felt, no matter how much you want to, you have to listen to your intuition. It also happened to my current friend that I paid him when he didn't have money, but his attitude was completely different - then he always wanted to return them to me, and I naturally refused, not to mention that it was obvious how much he is inconvenient, provided that in principle he pays me almost everything. Even if you have feelings when you feel inside that this person is not for you, that he puts you in a humiliating position for yourself, it is best to quickly end this relationship. Listen to your intuition and success!
However, when it comes to two or three payments a month, and given the fact that he does not work and has no income, I do not think who knows what. See what happens when he returns to work, and if he continues to do so, you can hint to him. If he makes some thin bills that he paid in the first months, and now you have to pay, and you paid 4-5 bills and you are already annoyed ... What can I say, if you keep the person next to you there are no such things to make a big impression on you. After all, people go to a cafe or restaurant to see each other and be together, to have a good time. If then everyone regrets how much money he gave it is pointlessly simple. In short, if you are with a person you really like and have a good time with, there is no way to think about these things, even to post a topic here.
Drop it.
My friend and I have been together for 9 years, we have been living together for 6 years, and he is still embarrassed if I go to pay.
It's nice to be 50/50.
This one of yours uses you.
Get that leech out early.
Enough of the nonsense like "he's all I want, but ...". Obviously not. And it is not normal for a man to behave like a woman and a user. I would consider it normal to share the accounts or only if you are married to use money from your total budget, in which everyone can contribute as much as they earn. But to pay the bills of a boyfriend, that even a husband, and he toss his money .. well, I'm sorry, but this is not a man. Are you sure he's not gay? Your mistake is that you keep wondering if you are not selfish, given that he is selfish, he even somehow managed to blame you while you pay his bills.
You are not petty and selfish at all, do not blame yourself. And I would be uncomfortable, not because of the money, but because it shows attitude. And yes, it is humiliating. In your place, I would raise the issue directly. If he shouts and reacts extreme, get out of his way. Don't let it be used.
It's not right to send you to pick popcorn. Why didn't he go without plaster on his legs? And for the money, obviously not. It is being prepared that it will be the same in the future.
This with good behavior may be due to the payment on your part.
Girl, are you okay, what dude turned your head so much. I had an acquaintance where the friend and lived in them ate drank the quota she brought and made, no bills he paid. She poked and stuffed her money in her pocket, and she naively fed the bear. Sorry but I don't know mercantile or not. A MAN is the head of the family. He has to feed his family, take care of your comfort. I would not let anyone eat my money, he loved you. Love does not feed, his respect is the mother, if he respects you and values you enough, he would not allow you to feel awkward. Ask him out well if he is no longer absorbed in the connection.
This is a total user. I was disgusted reading. If he really doesn't have money, at least he'll say sorry, I don't have it at the moment, can you pay and I'll draw another time. When there is no money, he will not go out to the movies, he will take you to the park or to a place where no money is spent. However, this one is most brazenly waiting for you, because he saw you as naive and kind. Run away. There is nothing more disgusting than a male user.
Number 23, isn't this nickname some pathetic attempt to be original? Bratan's wife ... something dumber ...
Anyway, on the subject - I had such a friend. When we went for coffee, I drank orange juice for EURO 1.20 once a week. One day he told me not to be a bank?!?!?! After about half a year we broke up. His selfishness grew on many other levels and became intolerable. 10 years have passed, he is still alone, he is almost an old bachelor ... beware !!!
All his good behavior is because you allow it and you take care of the finances. If you made it a problem, see how he would behave differently and accuse you of making an elephant out of a fly. But because you are silent and give money, he is kind, meek and kind. By behaving well with everyone, you tell yourself that you hit a good boy, that he respects you, appreciates you, and you ignore the bad thing - that you only pay. Pure manipulation and drowsiness. This is a tactic on his part, nothing more.
A normal man will be uncomfortable, will want to share, will offer options. You will feel that he thinks about these things, that he realizes.
He likes that you bear the costs and don't make it a problem. If he really respects you, he won't behave like that. The problem here is not the lack of work because of the current situation, it is the way of thinking of this individual. This is not love, it is use. Either you are talking or the outcome is clear. It may not weigh on you now, but in a long-term relationship with you and your family, the fact that you only pay will not remain a secret for long.
I don't know why so many women are afraid to communicate with the man next to them about something that worries them in his behavior or relationship. You sit and talk. This is the connection-communication. Anyone can kiss you, etc.
Not only did you buy the tickets, but he also sent you for popcorn to buy and bring them to him while he sat like a queen with courtiers. and he expected that you would take .. And he was embarrassed to ask people to buy this and he pretended that he felt at the last moment already in the cinema when only you could hear him .. If now because of his quarantine it is difficult it happens that you should support each other when you are together, but if this attitude continues to wait for you and is not uncomfortable .. People before me are right, I will not repeat myself, but I am of the same opinion :)
I'm 20 years old; I was in exactly the same situation with my ex-boyfriend. Extremely user-friendly, financially squeezing and directly impudent.
Such clearly have a strategy; first they touch the ground - for me he started with the supposedly innocent desire to pay him chocolates, donuts, until he grew into payments in various cafes, restaurants and tossing what he would like to give him for his birthday, for example, supposedly by accident.
Our relationship lasted only 2 months (and that was a lot for me) until I regained consciousness. I managed to look around and notice the couples around me. While my friends received another rose, a box of candies or masculine and adequate behavior, I received another request from him for a supposedly small gift, etc. At the same time, the individual boasted how much money he had saved in his bank account in front of relatives and friends.
I got nothing from him, he allowed himself to harass me, to insult me. The glass overflowed one day after his next rude remarks to me.
Beware of such! Absolute jerks.
They caught the biggest garbage and then put labels on the men.
They were like that. And you're a whore. Mercantile whores.
Either you care about money or you fuck well. Otherwise, in general, man is seen as an animal and as a resource, nothing more.
And that number 1 would never pay a man. Bray, it means only he should pay, and you should be ready, and God forbid you to have to pay anything, you can't shout ... otherwise, I'm not like that and I'm not mercantile, am I ...
Okay, people, let's say there's no money. He will live according to the rug, if he has dignity. Walk in the park, free activities with the boyfriend. He won't ask for popcorn at the movies. I call this a sense of dignity. I will not forget a friend years ago, she complained non-stop, there will be no money, but in the cafes she is always first with us. We tried to get it. Her complaints about money were endless. We even bought her food from them several times because we trusted her, she knew a friend in need. And what happened in the end? It turned out that she had collected a considerable sum and left a little quietly for Germany, abruptly forgetting her friends from yesterday, rejoicing at a departure to the airport, and baking her bread very well, so to speak. Once she did not refuse to go for coffee, did not stop complaining, in the end it turned out that there were more than those who drank it. It reminds me a lot of your friend. Don't get me wrong, I haven't, and it's been really drastic at some point in my life. But once I didn't ask, I refused to go out when I didn't have one, without giving a reason.
Is he a man at all? His wife constantly pays his bills and the movies, etc. Terribly ugly, I understand he is unemployed, without a penny, of course it is normal to help, but constantly !? This is super frivolous! Have a serious conversation and if you don't hear what you want, just lose it, such men are not material for a serious relationship. Tomorrow he will buy you a flower and ask for his money because that happened to me too hahahaha
Little by little the poor man, evil vipers released poison here and it became hell for the boy. hahaha
Tomorrow the world may end, but bills are being made here.
So, after all, your whole life revolves around money and accounting.
So one has no right to have financial difficulties, but must ruin oneself to prove that one can buy things that in time no one will remember.
What guarantee do you have that if you drop it you will find a better one for you.
Spend your money so you will be equal and there will be no reason to ask you and you will know whether he uses you or not.
Otherwise, I respect women who openly say that they are looking for a man with money.
This is right, dignified, and fair. Thus, the cool, decent, and intelligent men will see the muddy puddles in the distance and will pass them without getting dirty in the mud.
35, enough with these guys! They became men aged 25-30 and were boys! When there are financial difficulties, a person eats at home, not in restaurants at someone else's expense. Not to mention what kind of "man" he sends his lady to buy him popcorn. There really is a boy here who wants his mother to buy him something. And why does the author have to spend her money to be on par with him, and not, for example, for him to make money like her?
The probability of finding a better one if he leaves it is 50%, if he stays with him - exactly 0.
And it is not the mercantile who pays the bills out of his own pocket, but the one who wants someone else to pay for it.
I wonder if some of the commenters are really so shockingly blind that they interfere with comments such as accounting, etc. for the author. Enough nonsense, if someone's behavior is mercantile, it's her boyfriend's. It is not a question of financial difficulties, but of overall use, and his good behavior is nothing more than elementary subterfuge. Anyone blind or sympathetic to this type is unfortunate.
Either you try it, even though it's just a little weird, or it's just super tight. The second for me is a disease. You say that was not the case in the beginning. When things changed. Maybe he just ran out of money right now.
35, but if it were the other way around - if their sexes had been exchanged, you would have said that the woman is a user. Well, that's exactly her friend-user. Nobody likes such people, neither for friends nor for acquaintances, let alone for a partner
35 do not encourage her to stay with the parasite. Dear author, either talk to him or leave him ... What kind of man is this? You are wonderful, you deserve something much better in my opinion: * Ah, men who do not want to behave like gentlemen are simpletons. This is in my opinion.
A little personal experience:
In the fall of 2017, I started university. There I met a boy who I didn't notice at first, but he started writing to me on Facebook, then I noticed him and sank hard. This month is October. He had a birthday on November 20, I saw it in his profile, and I asked him directly what gift he wanted to buy him, because I still didn't know what he liked, what he needed, and so on.
At the beginning he said he didn't want anything, but I insisted and he shared that he needed EURO 80 for two winter tires. The next day I sent him the money. Then he started asking for money for this or that. Not directly, he said something like "They leave me EURO 30 next to my salary, which is in 2 weeks, what will I do?" ... "They took my speeding license, the fine is EURO 300, and I don't have that much." In the end, his most disgusting lie was that he was in the hospital and they operated on him and he needed EURO 200. And for all these things I sent him the amounts in question. I was not rich, I have never been, but I live super economically. For 4 months, in each one, I gave him about a third of my salary. He claimed that he would return my money, but I did not receive a penny. I pushed a total of EURO 900 for this disgusting, lying, male whore. March 2018, after another request for money and my first refusal, became angry and did not look for me anymore. He never once asked how I was, he never said "thank you" for all the money. It was as if he felt I owed him.
I always doubted him, but I was very sorry to dump him. I thought, "Well, if he doesn't lie to me?", "He doesn't look like one." "How can I leave a person in need?" ... How naive I was, alas.
Concerning yours, the breath of a male whore, as strong as that of "mine." Even if he doesn't have money, it's rude to want to take him to restaurants, cinemas and pay him everything, to buy him popcorn, strollers, chocolates, etc. He is mega insolent. If someone was decent, he would sit at home them instead of straining you. Run! Immediately! Don't be stupid like me before! I was an extremely good person and I am still, but vigilant. Take an example from my story and you will thank yourself in time.
I'm 35 - did you see what you did, you sprayed and my comment with dirt you are not ashamed haha.
The author left the parasite immediately and increased her chance by 50% for the better!
Why not look for a foreigner - they are the biggest males, no matter that their hands are in the ass and most do not know where to get a screwdriver.
The important thing is that he will be financially secure and you will eat free popcorn and food for life. 25%
Avoid the unfortunate boys spoiled, poor, lazy, penniless, etc. 25%
So you are now 100% and you are almost ready with the better choice.
So are you satisfied now?
PP. I'm just asking you not to catch a nigger like any other Bulgarian scum, because you will become -100%
Come on, success.
I am a woman of 23 years. Until 2 years ago I was with a colleague from the university. He is 16 years older than me. When we met, he said that he did not work because he was laid off by the company and that is why he enrolled to study. His family has a lot more money than mine - they have 2 houses, an apartment, and I live in rent. Over time, this breadwinner and I lived together in my rented apartment, I worked 14h 2/2 while I worked, he stayed warm at home and watched movies, I shop, I cook, I buy him clothes and shoes that he still not, and at the same time one line did not sit down to read and in the exams I earned more than him, and I did not have this free time !!!! It took me 2 years to realize what kind of plow I live with and I drove it away and the 39-year-old boy went to his mother and sister to live. Otherwise, the roar on my shoulder "dear, I love you very much", otherwise I did not start working at all as a normal person. I deprived myself of clothes, shoes, food, cosmetics, etc., so that the boy could be at home at the age of 39 !!!! This person treats me well, but really to use me. I could save my money and do something for myself instead of feeding such a drone. Girl, he treats you like that because you please him. Divide your account or just say frankly that you can't afford everything, you're not married or anything. If he starts acting angry and offended, dump him! You need someone to support you, not wait for you to feed him. At the moment you are comfortable with him paying for his entertainment and if that stops we will see if he will be so kind. Good luck.
The problem is not insignificant and I ask the author to read my experience, because I ignored the red flags that Bratan is talking about, and this brought me to a situation that I do not wish on anyone. Let me emphasize: I am still crazy about my husband. But he is still almost entirely dependent on me.
Yes, it all started with our meetings in cafes. I don't know how it happened, but I still paid. He was in financial difficulties then and I always found an excuse to save him from the awkward situation of spending his last pennies on coffee and ice cream. But he did not try. When the bill came, he looked out the window as if it didn't affect him.
We lived together. He informed me that he was repaying a loan and at this stage he could not participate with money in the household. I took on extra work to support both of us. What's more, in order to solve the problem radically, I used some connections and found a high-paying job for my friend, in his specialty. In the meantime, we repaid the loan.
So after 7 years, in which I was everything, we represented the following view. I was torn apart again, while he, who earns at least twice as much as me, was still looking out the window when the electricity, water and heating bills came. The repairs were organized and financed by me (we live in my apartment and yes, maybe this is normal - to take care of my own property). I bought him a car - decent, not ultra expensive, but still - a car. I paid for vacations and trips. I greeted his friends and relatives with rich sofras. I kept taking care of his clothes. I bought food, home supplies, cosmetics and everything. I bought birthday presents for his relatives. And gifts for himself. He became picky: he didn't use any perfume other than Etro's "Shaal Nur" (EURO280, if you can find it at all), his watch had to be what it was, and without sunglasses for EURO 200 he just couldn't to drive ... And these claims were made by a man who, when we met, had a pair of casual and a pair of "formal" jeans, and for his brother's wedding he borrowed shoes from the neighbors because he didn't have any.
Then my lover proposed to me. I accepted. Then I received the first gift from him - a silver ring with a glass. Another year passed. I call myself: we are now officially a couple, it's time to realize and if not to take care of the family, then at least to participate in some way. Yes, but no!
To date, the situation is as follows. We are about to have a wedding where everything is ready, but the ritual cannot take place now, in quarantine. Everything for the celebration - the clothes for the two of us, the gift for the godparents, the restaurant, small expenses such as invitations, dresses for the bridesmaids, photographer's fee, catering for after the signing, etc. I paid. I even paid the 23 euros, which is the state fees for medical certificates, rent of a hall for civil marriage and so on. And now we are in a waiting position to be allowed to celebrate.
You will ask me where I get so much money? Well with a man like that, I just learned to make them, that's it! Is that how I plan to drive it? - You will also ask. And I will answer: I continue to believe that already when he is my husband, this man will realize that he has commitments; that there are some bad people who send you pieces of paper with numbers about what you used every month and someone has to go and deposit the amount on those pieces of paper.
This is the situation with me. I hope, author, that you understand what lies ahead of you, so that you can judge whether you are ready to meet him. And I will only say to you: I endure and cope with all this, just because I love my future husband very, very much.
How do you find them, such "men" were people ... my husband and for a second will not think of going out somewhere and I to pay, carry bags, go buy something like your popcorn or pass me thin with cheap gifts. I do not recognize such petty thugs and village numbers! Have self-esteem and drop it in a second! The first months of the relationship are the best, because the man tries not only to win you but also to keep you. Mine does not come home without a flower or chocolate, he always behaves gallantly and politely with me and my family, because he knows that I will beat his jester the second he takes me for sure. We have been together for 2 years and for every holiday he shows me the necessary attention, takes me on vacations, buys me everything I like if he has the opportunity to give me money. You need such men !!! This is the type of man for family and home. Male builder. You have an ordinary user who will quickly switch to his next victim when you start denying him. Advice to all ladies with similar problems - if you see and feel that one person does not respect you 100%, so be it. Do not look for a second opinion, but run with 200. We have one life and time is not enough. Especially for such users. If he doesn't have money, he won't take you to a restaurant ... shame. He will not have electricity, water and diapers tomorrow. He will tell you to take your children by bus because there is no money for a car, etc., etc. Always look at yourself and your comfort. Look for a man who will give kindness and love for you and take a bite out of his mouth, because just as he takes care of you, he will take care of your children!
№44, and if he doesn't realize after the wedding, will you wait for your child to be born? Then, will you wait for the second one? Don't you have dignity?
If he hasn't realized it yet, he won't change another 100 chances to give it. That you yourself feed his behavior. Knock your foot and say that if he wants something to happen, he has to pay it and you will see exactly how much he cares for you beyond being his piggy bank.
This wedding will be the biggest nonsense of your life, but you women are typically like that. Because you have invested years and efforts in this regard and you continue to lose more, hoping that you will be appreciated. This movie doesn't exist, especially since yours doesn't care about you at all.
44, how do you love such men ?! Even just half of what you read would send any normal person 3,000 km away. These are men of the handle type, and you are the men and the mothers.
Have a little dignity! They didn't create you, you didn't study your parents to feed someone just because you love them! If he loves you, he will not put you in that position! Understand it.
Drink coffee from the machines, in the cafes it is three times more expensive - for this money, I will take a few coffees, but now because of the quarantine and the coffee machines are excluded! I'm talking in general - 50-60 cents per person, espresso I think was 50 cents, chocolate - 60! You sit on a bench and you're done! Or one of you makes coffee, puts it in a thermos, will carry cups and a ready-made solution can always be found, as long as one has ideas! I'm 37, a single man, but when I have a boyfriend, I'll offer her my ideas, maybe you go to visit and so-leave the cafes and restaurants-it's three times more expensive there-I also do the bill, because money is easy are spent, but difficult to earn!
After all, no one obliges you to tolerate your husbands.
No one is forcing you, but from what has been written it is clear that you cannot do without men.
The optimal option is rarely possible. After all, we live in "modern and cosmopolitan" times, that's what everyone wanted!
44 you are to blame yourself, or rather you are afraid that you will not find another who will love you perhaps.
And here you will not solve your problems and your comments are a drop in the ocean. The future is uncertain, isn't it. Not vision scares some yes.
My advice is learn to live alone without men, but it's not quite like that, is it?
Loneliness is not for everyone!
There should also be someone to fill your crotch, making you itchy.
Here I read a disgusting story recently with a loud name:
"My Nigerian"
A young Bulgarian woman, describing herself as very attractive and sexy, enduring and buying food for 3 years for Neger and "his primitive friends who were dying of hunger".
In return, she received regular obsessive fucking in her words: addicted to his black penis and endless animal sex.
The story ends after the ink dumps it, like some pathetic garbage in order to find a new white garbage from which to gain citizenship and new sponsorship.
So, dear, we can conclude that you are far from the most fucked up, you are even a scammer.
However, life will become more and more difficult and complicated. Many of the men are kicking their asses abroad, forced by hunger, poverty and unemployment here. Most of them will probably never start families because there are not enough women around them and they will peel and ugly prematurely, serving foreign masters and over time will be crushed, rotten and unattractive to women. Most of the wealthy men, some of my acquaintances in Bulgaria do not want to hear about family. Now there is a great misery and unemployment active contagion, which will probably not end for years. Everyone will be forced to save themselves individually in an even more unequal struggle for survival.
Imagine now after 5 years. how will it be, if you have any, such thoughts and vision for the future.
I wrote this just to throw an extra ray of light into the sea of mediocrity.
It is clear, your men are not a commodity, I would never put myself in this miserable situation. This behavior will become more widespread, dictated by high unemployment and especially large imbalances in pay between different professional fields.
I think those good times with the head of the family are long gone. Their systematic destruction was carelessly overslept.
Replaced by new ideals and rosy promises of a modern future of freedoms and democracy, which you notice does not deny the possibility of a woman being the head of the family (of course, rather cohabitation) and considered completely normal for a woman to fully support her husband! Years ago, if this was unacceptable and unnatural, today such moral barriers do not exist.
You are now angry at a doctrine that has been mounted with the approval, consent and nepotism of all of you.
The reason for your current situation and apathy of your husbands is rooted much deeper than what you stated. It's not just about individual shortcomings, as you suggest here.
The negatives and the evil in a society, if it remains so, are reflected everywhere at all and the consequences, as you will see for yourself, are already visible.
You are not guilty of anything, there is something wrong with your friend. Go and talk to him, let EVERYONE pay his own bill. It's not normal for a man to wait for his wife to pay, he just looks ugly ... and speaks ill of the man. Try to talk to him gently, and if he doesn't take a word, separate, because in time you may have to carry every burden, instead of him it is difficult to live with cramped people.
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