Hello, I have read all 48 opinions on the topic and I find a total of at least 40 of them. I'm not married, but I've had a boyfriend for almost two years now. I am 21, my friend is 22. We both live and study abroad. We met there. We attend the same university, we are together every day when we are not at lectures, we get along great, but for some time now, a year has passed since our sexual relations began to dilute more and more. While at first we did it 3-4 times a week, watched porn together and everything was great, suddenly he started lying down next to me, hugging me and ... falling asleep ... I didn't take him seriously until the sex stopped completely to happen. I talked to him, no use. His answer is always that everything is fine, no matter what I say and what arguments I make to him. As I told you at the beginning, we both study abroad. During the holidays we part (we live in different cities in Bulgaria, quite far away). We never see each other during this time, but we write to each other every day. And he tells me every day how much he misses me, how he wants us to do it, where, how much, he even made me undress in front of the camera because he couldn't stand it. So it was last summer. When we met again in September, everything seemed to be back to square one, we had sex twice a day ... but it only lasted two weeks. Then everything stopped again. He had sex once a month ... and now he hasn't touched me in two months. It turns out that every time we are separated, he dies of desire for me, then a week we do not stop doing it. But when more time passes and everything stops again. I tried to talk again, but the only thing what happened was that he left without saying a word to me. We do not live together, we are both in dormitories, in different neighborhoods, but he wants to come to sleep with us every night, to be together, although here, where we live, it is generally forbidden for another person to sleep in your room (in a room we are one person, without roommates). He never wants to sleep alone, although if he has another or no longer wants to be with me, he can always tell me that there are lectures in the morning or something. At first I really thought there was another one and took all the first steps to find out if that was the case. But I didn't find anything, not where I know how to look. Not to mention that he gave me his Facebook password voluntarily, without me asking for it, and sometimes he forgets his phone at home. I've looked at it all, my text messages, calls, directories, photos, there's nothing to tell me, that maybe there is another. There is no second mobile phone, I'm sure of that, and to forget the phone when someone else can call it, I doubt it. I can't follow him because we have a lot of acquaintances who can see me, neighbors I know would tell him right away. Finally, about a month ago, a friend saw him leave the pharmacy. I asked him what he was doing there, he said he went to buy condoms because he saw we didn't have any. I was happy, I thought everything would be fine. Alas, these burrs remain with them, not open since then. I wondered if he had bought more that I didn't know about. But alas, I can not understand. I want to know the truth, I want to know if there is another, or he has just lost his sexual interest in me. This is something I do not want to put up with. And to leave him just because he doesn't sleep with me ... I don't know what to do anymore. I want him every day, and it doesn't stop just because he doesn't want me ... I hope I haven't bothered you with my long explanations. Thank you for listening to me.
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AFTER YOU TALKED, DIDN'T HE EXPLAIN TO YOU WHY HE IS BEHAVING THIS?