Hi! I met him a year ago (life). You made a good impression on me at the beginning. It wasn't long before I fell hard. He was kind, thoughtful, cavalier. We were flirting for a while, but nothing happened. Basically, I'm showing desire, but he's backing off. I pass, he's getting closer. In the end, we had a fight and stopped all contact. It's been a few months. During the Christmas holidays, we heard again on my initiative. We continued to communicate online. He was kind and thoughtful again at first. I was very happy. We agreed to see each other in March (we are from different cities, I have a business trip to his). The worrying thing is that the old cycle repeats itself. As nice as he was, gradually he lost his desire and began to annoy me. This is happening. I try to be careful, to predispose it, to put in my own right, to speak kind words, and to make gestures. As a result, he gets annoyed, behaves arrogantly, criticizes my personality, insults me (supposedly a joke). I couldn't stand it, so I put it to him. This, with the rude and disrespectful attitude and this, with the lack of sufficient interest. It's not a very good option, but I couldn't stand it. He said he didn't care, in short. I get the impression that at the beginning of our acquaintance, this man was in fact attracted to me, but eventually permanently lost desire, interest, and categorically stopped respecting me! Don't get me wrong. I know what I have to do - close this page and smile again, no matter what it or won't follow on the other side. Is love associated with endless compromises with me and attempts to earn someone's attention? From these attempts, I have come to the point where the gentleman sees a bunch of negatives in my personality and is blind to all that is good about me. I'd like to read some other side reasoning, though. It often happens in my life that the ones I give out the most, they are the most arrogant tossed me.
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