I have been living with a man for 10 years, now we are both 48 years old, during that time we had only one sex. He told me he was hurt by previous relationships and didn't want us to have sex. I agreed and so far he has not given me reason to doubt him, I even thought about some disease and that he did not want to see a doctor. He started working in a company as a truck driver. An acquaintance of ours was here on vacation and invited us as guests, but he had also invited a prostitute. She is paid to seduce men, but such a striptease turned on my husband that suddenly impotence forgot him and he went to make jokes with her, showing how aroused he was. I felt out of place and didn't know how to react, I just flinched, looked dumbfounded, and thought about how many prostitutes there are on the roads of Europe and what my path is to my family or out of it. He was trying to make sure that if he wanted to be with her, there was nothing I could do to him. I feel killed, played and insecure, I don't want to take revenge on him with infidelity, but I think about how to survive him when we see each other again how to behave. You can't with me and you can with prostitutes.
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Well the answer is obvious. You just have to start acting like a prostitute. Sometimes you have to experiment. This brings back the thrill and diversifies the intimate life. Go bold, be a bitch.
I just wonder how you can spend so much time with one person without having sex.
It's not very stupid, you lost the best years of your life for the one who is ready to turn his back on his family and his wife to have sex with a prostitute, I'm sorry YOU'RE OVERWHELMED ...
After you don't sleep together, do you understand each other at all?
And isn't it likely that he has a sexually transmitted disease and doesn't want to infect you?
Well, I think you should get it out of your life. You just naively allowed yourself to get this far. In general, don't let yourself feel like a doormat that this one has turned you into. Run away - this is my opinion, the rest is up to you.
To me, he is selfish ... he just wants to be happy.
What has happened is humiliating. Probably in life outside of sex he is a different person from the one he introduces himself to you.
Mother, only once did my boyfriend and I do more
Well, you put up with this pedal, because men are still proud, selfish, even if they can't lift it, and we fools put up with it. Which man and how much he would tolerate if his wife did not give him MEL
The spore is named SPIN.
G29: It can be anything. But you're also a pretty hollow watering can ... Your spelling is lame, and there must be a bunch of other things next to it. Get rid of the dude and get educated before you turn the next one, that with so many spelling and punctuation errors you can repel anyone ...
Oh, I also missed the author's thought due to mistakes - it can't be confused with y, etc. - it says striptease and not streptis - you are downright tragic - how much you had in Bulgaria. language-3 li. Well, check your stuff before you post it. And only 1 time sex in 10 years - just unbelievable. What are you with him for then? And he may have some stress and not be able to relax at the thought that he will have sex, but then go to a psychiatrist or sexologist. In such company he relaxed and drank a little safely and the learned movements of the prostitute made him forget about his shortcoming.
Abe people, this is a topic from 3 years ago ....