My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year, she has been living with me for as long. The situation required him to be more precise: he ran away from his ex because he was harassing her, she cheated on him with me, he understood and it became scary. I understand that an individual like him can hardly be forgotten, but to call me by his name bothered me a little. I watched her in the evening and somehow, I don't know, I obviously pushed her harder. She pushed me away and called me by her ex's name. He was quite embarrassed, upset, it was a bad situation. I didn't make scandals, I even calmed her down all night and we talked, but she didn't tell me why she called me that. He doesn't have any connection with that guy, it's weird that it just happens ... and it's not very pleasant. I don't know if there's any reason to worry after being separated for so long. Are there any feelings for him, I don't know why it happened. I may take it too seriously, it may not have happened that much, but it worries me personally. She won't tell me anything, I asked her directly once, but she gets nervous and doesn't tell me anything. It's weird, I don't want to press her and act like a maniac, but I don't think the incident is to be underestimated.
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Surely with your behavior? reminded him subconsciously. My mother-in-law, for example, often calls my husband by her grandson's name because she gave birth over the age of 40 and both (son and grandson) have a similar lifestyle, age, behavior and so on ... I think these are subconscious processes. Your friend is sorry about this, another time she will think before she speaks. Calm down - no feelings for him, but don't be a group to her anymore ...