Hello. I'm a student. At 21. For several months I have been living with a man who is 13 years older than me. He has a child who lives with his mother. The problem is that as always in the beginning everything is great, then only things change a little. He comes nervous from work and gets even more nervous from me at least and starts to blame me for something, refuses to talk to me, in the evening when I want to hug me, refuses "it was so convenient for him", to leave him a little, that he strained at work. If I had stopped doing circuses because he couldn't stand me, I would have left. That was last night. This makes me very sad. It wasn't like that before. I'm not an early riser, but I woke up at 7 this morning. I don't know how to react ... you don't want to see me.
1 amelia_jhonson answered
Girl, take matters into your own hands. There is no point in wasting your best years with someone who obviously doesn't love you. One day, when you turn 25, for example, and start thinking seriously about your own children, you will get angry about why you wasted your years like that. Instead of being sad - explain to him that you are not happy with his behavior, that you can't stand him like that and that if he wants to be with you - he will have to respect you. And one more thing - although I am a man of 30, my personal opinion is that a relationship with such a big difference of people in the 20s and 30s is not promising. So again - do not waste your time.