I'm obsessed with this woman, the tip was when I dreamed of her last night. I feel like I'm obsessed with her, I feel like I'm constantly thinking about her and I'm tormented, and she doesn't even notice me for sure. We live in a block under which there are offices. A blonde woman works there, I think she is Russian or Ukrainian and she is really very beautiful. Abe, when you look at her, there is a seductive face that few men would not notice. I am ordinary, neither ugly nor beautiful. Maybe what I like about myself and others are my eyes. Large and expressive. Maybe I'm just proud of them. We have been living in the block for almost three years. I hadn't noticed her at first, but anyway. The point is, my man is looking at her. I made scandals of him and maybe I also contributed to his behavior and I further exalted her and praised him in his eyes. I already keep my tongue behind my teeth, the last time I noticed I didn't tell him anything, but he felt it. I waited for him to fall asleep and cried. Did I pass Well no. I hate it because she's prettier and it's normal for him to like her. Yes, but she stares at him, obviously she likes him too. Am I redundant? He loves me, I know that, but I feel it is a danger. I want him to understand how I feel, but I don't like anyone else and I don't look at her very much. It may seem silly to you, but it's started to bother me my whole life. I understand there are random women along the way, but this one works just below us. I just don't want to go out with him, I'm still on thorns and watching and I pray that we don't go anywhere together just to not see how they look at each other. We're not talking about a long look, you get me. Help, I don't have time and money for a psychologist, give me advice on what to do, how to stop feeling like that? when I noticed I didn't tell him anything, but he felt it. I waited for him to fall asleep and cried. Did I pass? Well no. I hate it because she's prettier and it's normal for him to like her. Yes, but she stares at him, obviously she likes him too. Am I redundant? He loves me, I know that, but I feel it is a danger. I want him to understand how I feel, but I don't like anyone else and I don't look at her very much. It may seem silly to you, but it's started to bother me my whole life. I understand there are random women along the way, but this one works just below us. I just don't want to go out with him, I'm still on thorns and watching and I pray that we don't go anywhere together just to not see how they look at each other. We're not talking about a long look, you get me. Help, I don't have time and money for a psychologist, give me advice on what to do, how to stop feeling like that? when I noticed I didn't tell him anything, but he felt it. I waited for him to fall asleep and cried. Did I pass? Well no. I hate it because she's prettier and it's normal for him to like her. Yes, but she stares at him, obviously she likes him too. Am I redundant? He loves me, I know that, but I feel it is a danger. I want him to understand how I feel, but I don't like anyone else and I don't look at her very much. It may seem silly to you, but it's started to bother me my whole life. I understand there are random women along the way, but this one works just below us. I just don't want to go out with him, I'm still on thorns and watching and I pray that we don't go anywhere together just to not see how they look at each other. We're not talking about a long look, you get me. Help, I don't have time and money for a psychologist, give me advice on what to do, how to stop feeling like that? but he felt. I waited for him to fall asleep and cried. Did I pass? Well no. I hate it because she's prettier and it's normal for him to like her. Yes, but she stares at him, obviously she likes him too. Am I redundant? He loves me, I know that, but I feel it is a danger. I want him to understand how I feel, but I don't like anyone else and I don't look at her very much. It may seem silly to you, but it's started to bother me my whole life. I understand there are random women along the way, but this one works just below us. I just don't want to go out with him, I'm still on thorns and watching and I pray that we don't go anywhere together just to not see how they look at each other. We're not talking about a long look, you get me. Help, I don't have time and money for a psychologist, give me advice on what to do, how to stop feeling like that? but he felt. I waited for him to fall asleep and cried. Did I pass? Well no. I hate it because she's prettier and it's normal for him to like her. Yes, but she stares at him, obviously she likes him too. Am I redundant? He loves me, I know that, but I feel it is a danger. I want him to understand how I feel, but I don't like anyone else and I don't look at her very much. It may seem silly to you, but it's started to bother me my whole life. I understand there are random women along the way, but this one works just below us. I just don't want to go out with him, I'm still on thorns and watching and I pray that we don't go anywhere together just to not see how they look at each other. We're not talking about a long look, you get me. Help, I don't have time and money for a psychologist, give me advice on what to do, how to stop feeling like that? I hate it because she's prettier and it's normal for him to like her. Yes, but she stares at him, obviously she likes him too. Am I redundant? He loves me, I know that, but I feel it is a danger. I want him to understand how I feel, but I don't like anyone else and I don't look at her very much. It may seem silly to you, but it's started to bother me my whole life. I understand there are random women along the way, but this one works just below us. I just don't want to go out with him, I'm still on thorns and watching and I pray that we don't go anywhere together just to not see how they look at each other. We're not talking about a long look, you understand me. Help, I don't have time and money for a psychologist, give me advice on what to do, how to stop feeling like that? I hate it because she's prettier and it's normal for him to like her. Yes, but she stares at him, obviously she likes him too. Am I redundant? He loves me, I know that, but I feel it is a danger. I want him to understand how I feel, but I don't like anyone else and I don't look at her very much. It may seem silly to you, but it's started to bother me my whole life. I understand there are random women along the way, but this one works right below us. I just don't want to go out with him, I'm still on thorns and watching and I pray that we don't go anywhere together just to not see how they look at each other. We're not talking about a long look, you get me. Help, I don't have time and money for a psychologist, give me advice on what to do, how to stop feeling like that? Am I redundant? He loves me, I know that, but I feel it is a danger. I want him to understand how I feel, but I don't like anyone else and I don't look at her very much. It may seem silly to you, but it's started to bother me my whole life. I understand there are random women along the way, but this one works just below us. I just don't want to go out with him, I'm still on thorns and watching and I pray that we don't go anywhere together just to not see how they look at each other. We're not talking about a long look, you understand. Help, I don't have time and money for a psychologist, give me advice on what to do, how to stop feeling like that? Am I redundant? He loves me, I know that, but I feel it is a danger. I want him to understand how I feel, but I don't like anyone else and I don't look at her very much. It may seem silly to you, but it's started to bother me my whole life. I understand there are random women along the way, but this one works right below us. I just don't want to go out with him, I'm still on thorns and watching and I pray that we don't go anywhere together just to not see how they look at each other. We're not talking about a long look, you get me. Help, I don't have time and money for a psychologist, give me advice on what to do, how to stop feeling like that? I understand there are random women along the way, but this one works just below us. I just don't want to go out with him, I'm still on thorns and watching and I pray that we don't go anywhere together just to not see how they look at each other. We're not talking about a long look, you get me. Help, I don't have time and money for a psychologist, give me advice on what to do, how to stop feeling like that? I understand there are random women along the way, but this one works right below us. I just don't want to go out with him, I'm still on thorns and watching and I pray that we don't go anywhere together just to not see how they look at each other. We're not talking about a long look, you get me. Help, I don't have time and money for a psychologist, give me advice on what to do, how to stop feeling like that?
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You are still a young girl and you think that you will sleep with him all your life and you will never get bored. I don't understand if you like it, don't you want it sexually, why don't you have fun and strain yourself. Life is short enough to bother with such things. The problem is that you are not self-confident and not that she is very incredibly beautiful and a bit of a salary.
I am a man and I know. The eyes go by themselves, but it does not mean that the heart follows them. Automatic and unconscious is very common. Be weak. Talk to your partner and tell him that you are very bothered by the situation that you are complex because of her and it is difficult for you. Open up to him if you trust him completely and are emotionally close enough. Realize in front of yourself that you will not be the best, you will not be the smartest, you will not be the best. And that's totally okay. Accept it and be proud of what you are and what you have. Rejoice that despite these things, you have a person next to you who is sure that he loves you and chooses you. That you have someone and every night you fall asleep next to him and wake up next to him. That you are his and he is yours, despite your disadvantages. And that's enough. Or at least it should be. Those for whom it is ... are happy.
Aha, it has happened to me many times! I'm worse than you! Even if there is no threat, whenever he comes out, I have one thing in mind! I remember my grandmother telling me: "A man should know you from the waist down, but what is going on in your head not to know" Just imagine what the grandfathers called the men! :) The truth is that there will always be more beautiful than us, and better! But my grandmother also said, "Even if you feel there is another, strive to be better than her to keep your family!" Well, yes, but how to compete, for example, with women who are more beautiful, for example, let's be clear about kindness, but the male eye is insatiable! Whether it is better or not does not matter to the eye, it is clear! That's why some men, after long-term infidelities, return to their wives with subspecies of queues, when someone chased them away! It even impresses me that he looks at beautiful women, well dressed, for example at a traffic light, and if he is blonde even more! Well, if she's pretty, she looks at her a little longer, if she's blonde, for example, even more so. So it seems that he must immediately see her in the face, only to see her for a very short time whether she is a crocodile or not, as his friend puts it, and if she is a crocodile, he immediately unconsciously looks away! I noticed that! But here, he has to look! They will always do it, whether we like it or not, most do it unconsciously! Because he knows that I'm uncomfortable, sometimes he sees girls coming from above, and they're pretty, or he starts talking to me and looking at me, or he stops and points at me, just to look like he's staring at he hasn't seen me, but I know he's doing it because they're on the other side and because he knows it's something which he obviously can't control takes that he points to a car where I don't even know about cars and inside I find it funny! Do not think about it! The strategy here is, at least I think so, just when you go with yours through the one where it works, always look laughing, and walk with your head held high, whether you're holding hands! I've done such a thing, I often say a short joke or a joke, just before the moment and it works! If you see the one with the bowed head, gloomy, it will make her turn her tail even more! Otherwise, I "love" them so much, because we all know the saying about the bitch, which if she doesn't turn her tail, the dog won't follow her! Boldly forward! is just when you go with yours through the one where it works, always look laughing, and walk with your head held high, whether you are holding hands! I've done such a thing, I often say a short joke or a joke, just before the moment and it works! If you see the one with the bowed head, gloomy, it will make her turn her tail even more! Otherwise, I "love" them so much because we all know the saying about the bitch, which if she does not turn her tail, the dog will not follow her! Boldly forward! is just when you go with yours through the one where it works, always look laughing, and walk with your head held high, whether you are holding hands! I've done such a thing, I often say a short joke or a joke, just before the moment and it works! If you see the one with the bowed head, gloomy, it will make her turn her tail even more! Otherwise, I "love" them so much because we all know the saying about the bitch, which if she does not turn her tail, the dog will not follow her! Boldly forward!
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There is a saying here, if you don't like yourself, no one will like you. You say yourself that she was better, but take more care of yourself and you will become. Otherwise, it is normal for a man to look at a woman, it is human, but the point is to just look
Well, that's how complexes are. Let's get some more ugly or even ugly monkey / very often began to meet /, because they were supposed to be more modest, they will not want anything, no one will want them, and they will crawl just to stay with this man. And finally, what's going on ... The complexes can't stand it and want the good, and at the same time the modest ugliness turns out to be not so modest and if they tighten, they tighten the noose around the neck. Men and women, stop trying to keep going a meter and keep making thin calculations, you will still be pathetic and fucked up for the rest of your life. An idiot has been hiding like a mouse with an ugly gypsy for two years now and has no contact with people, and the gypsy is happy that he has a boyfriend and a nice Bulgarian, what if they hide him as a leper, and that he is constantly lurking and squeezing his neck so he wouldn't run away. And is this your great happy love? !! ж23
Hello dear! I know what's wrong with you and I certainly won't start accusing you of lack of self-confidence, unlike 90% of the commenting villains. Anyway ... in my opinion the solution to your problem is the following ... start paying more attention to yourself, ie hairstyle, manicure, new clothes - the typical women's things. Make your husband want you, be a slut! Sexy lingerie, an unexpected blowjob, diversify your sex life and he will not have time to think about other women, believe me!
I also look at beautiful women, just because he does it doesn't mean he'll change you with her. It is full of beautiful people.
A dog that does not know how to bark, brings the wolf to the herd, there is such a saying. Who would like you to praise her in front of him and sharpen his attention? Now you will eat yourself out of jealousy. And I had one, he cheated on me with various divorces, most of them older than him, one was a terrible ugliness, an old girl, almost his mother's age, there was a Russian woman. And then he came back to me, as if nothing had happened. However, when he saw me talking to someone who was sending me away one night, he lost his temper. From experience I tell you - there is no way to stop him, if he decides to be with her. You may not even understand. But once he starts staring at others, and you're bothering, it's not worth it, dump him.
Calm down, Author. Most men look at beautiful women. A lot of worries, so yours has little chance of harm. It would be worse if you liked an ugly one.
And I fully understand you, all women are jealous, but not all admit it. Some men above have rightly mentioned that they are by nature onlookers. It is unpleasant, and very much, regardless of whether you are clumsy, beautiful, etc., and you see your husband staring .. I would also advise you not to show your jealousy, and always look cheerful and smiling, passing by woman, and among others like her.
Thanks to everyone who left me a comment. You made me at least calm down a little and realize that he wasn't the only one doing it. Maybe I should work on myself and my perceptions of myself and not compare myself to other women. I wish you good health!