Have You Overcome Your Great Love?

   My friend is the same with me, I don't stop thinking about her every day, and we haven't been together for 8 months. and I left her, she loved me very much and I loved her very much, but our relationship had no future and I still dare to say no, there is just a good reason and I know that it is better for the two of us not to be together, for one our future children, etc. It hurts a lot, I grit my teeth, I cry from time to time because we were kindred spirits, and nowadays it's hard to find one. After her, you simply did not find the soulmate who would make you forget her. Sometimes, damn it, I think that only once in our lives such love happens ... No matter how difficult it is, I recommend you not to go back, a long time has passed, he hardly loves you, your love is a read book, so in this line of thought-Have you read the same book more than once? Yes, I read! E, was the end the same? I hope you understand what I mean.

   This does not mean anything with the advice, I give ones that, unfortunately, I cannot follow on my own sometimes. Otherwise, this for the next life, do not wait, no one can guarantee you this opportunity: DD. But you can definitely guarantee that you won't regret it in time, because when you formally separated, you obviously don't feel that way. Of course, if you want, make yourself strong where you least need it.

   Hello, I can hardly give advice, because I do not have a serious relationship at the moment, I even shared my last situation here a few months ago, BUT I want to tell you from experience that I experienced exactly the same thing with my former great love. With us, things happened a little differently - he joined me on Facebook, and from there only as friends. I asked for advice and help of some kind in other respects. Afterwards we saw each other, purely friendly, then we slept a few times. And at the moment we do not know each other. The reason is not important. It is important firstly - that you are absolutely right - once you broke up, there was a reason. And secondly - I want to tell you that for almost 4 years I compared each one with her, I think about her almost constantly, no matter how I forbade myself. But at the moment I feel free, it doesn't weigh on me, I don't feel anything special about her. Yes, although, again we don't see and hear each other, I have friendly emotions left, but that's it. What I want to tell you is that there is no point in harassing yourself like that. It literally doesn't make sense, because you may not see, metaphorically, the girl who is for you. It has been, it has been. You are different people, and be sure that the emotions will be different. Somewhere I read or heard some words that are very true - you do not miss the person, but the way you felt with him. Someone somewhere will make you feel much better. Otherwise, you are right that they now prefer to demolish instead of build! The success of M33 which are very true - you do not miss the person, but the way you felt with him. Someone somewhere will make you feel much better. Otherwise, you are right that they now prefer to demolish instead of build! The success of M33 which are very true - you do not miss the person, but the way you felt with him. Someone somewhere will make you feel much better. Otherwise, you are right that they now prefer to demolish instead of build! The success of M33

   I haven't found it yet m23

   Hello Friend. Yes, I started with the fact that she was not "my great love". I just loved her. We were together for almost 8 years. A little over a year passed when she decided she didn't want us together anymore. She thought she would be happy with someone else. Despite the pain and anger I felt (because I accepted it as a betrayal), I still feel that I miss ...

   There is nothing that man cannot overcome but his own death. I don't know who said it and if I'm quoting correctly, but he's brutally right. Well, I overcame her great love, yes. I remember from time to time, but that's all. It's like a pleasant memory that you know won't happen again, but you still had it and it makes you feel good. Some things are not meant to happen or live to the end, and I have personally learned not to make a drama out of it. You said it yourself - this is life. I'll tell you just one thing. The fact that it has not happened to anyone else after it does not automatically mean that it does not exist anywhere in the world. I'm talking about the girl with whom you will feel in harmony with yourself, without unnecessary dramas, over-emotions that rather burden you unnecessarily, divisions and gatherings, too much thinking and analysis, sacrifices, etc. It's just that everything will happen naturally and you'll build something together, albeit without a lot of fireworks. Believe me, this is love. But you will understand it at a later stage.

   I am the author: Thank you very much for №3 & №6! I found many true and touching things you said. I hope this topic helps others who are asking the same question and asking for advice. Ah, the formula for "forgetting" ... do you have one? A pill, a drink? I'm kidding, of course, but inwardly I want my question to be serious. Did you find the cure for not thinking at least? Focus on something else or someone else? To make sure that you do not have a point of contact and when you pass a road or feel a similar feeling not to connect it immediately with the person? With the memory that makes you think of the person. I think I have a little more to overcome. It's a perfect fact - I know, but those things I felt ... believe me are the best things I've ever experienced in my whole life. And I'm not exaggerating at all - it's the truth. I also know that all my life I will regret that it didn't work out, but I wanted it so badly. Somehow, if we had separated naturally or for some very serious reason, I would have accepted it. If she'd cheated on me ... anything, to make it easier for me. But it so happened that we just stopped writing and hearing for a day ... two ... a week ... a month ... years. From time to time, when I get drunk, I remember to write to her and she always ends up naughty. She is a different person, and I still live in past memories ... such wonderful memories that tears well up in my eyes as I write this message. Thanks again! I will be happy to read other things you want to share, and others that I just read and refrain from writing. Write, share :) this will help others in my situation, and they seem to be ... quite a lot. Everyone has been through this. Have fun on the upcoming holidays! Love each other and all the best!

   No. We last saw each other 2 years ago. We haven't been together in 4 years. I think of him every day. It does not pass and does not pass. I don't have the courage to call him and ask him what the hell happened. Maybe it's better. His feelings must have cooled long ago. Mine are not.

   This with the familiar things has no pill to forget, except time .. The other moment is inside you. You have to impose yourself, you have to make a habit of turning your head, shaking your head and transferring the moment. Otherwise it will be slower. Give another chance, to someone who gives you a chance. Focus on other things in life, create and pursue short-term goals. Take care of yourself !!! At some point there will be one that you will want to try ... you will not forget the other, but with this one you will really want things to happen. And you will relax, at least to some extent. And now be careful :) because I will no longer give you a reason that I got oily: D M33

   For me, I can say that I overcame her, even though we have never been together. I was a third year student and we met in the summer while working in a hotel by the sea. More precisely, we were colleagues. However, our relationship, as they say, was impossible. We were from two totally different worlds. I was a poor student who barely had the money to pay for his apartment, and she came from a wealthy family, with an even wealthier friend with whom they were just buying an apartment to live in. Honestly, at first he didn't make any impression on me, but he was so nice to me that in a month or so I was in love. I knew perfectly well that I had no chance, but it was just that everything was stronger than me. I felt very bad because I saw her every day and there was nothing I could do.

She also saw perfectly well that I had nothing to do with her surroundings. The season was over and I somehow wanted to at least stop seeing her, even though I was torn inside. However, she kept looking for me, which hurt me even more. So it was time for the next season, but I was both graduating and I wanted to concentrate on my state exams, and I didn't want to hurt myself anymore. She, of course, made me work together again. I didn't agree and we didn't hear from each other for a long time. Some time after my exams passed, I even remember the date almost exactly (September 22-23, 2005), I couldn't stand it and I texted her. She replied that she was no longer working because she was pregnant on October 22, 2005. (and I remember that) is getting married. Although it was more than expected, I felt very sick. I haven't cried for any other girl before or since. I have never dreamed of any other girl except her. It took me 3 years from the moment of our acquaintance to overcome it. For these 3 years I thought about her not every day, but literally every moment. However, I imposed an iron rule on myself - no contact with her, on any occasion, and I followed it.

One day I just woke up and I was kind of relieved. Then everything very quickly disappeared completely. Then I decided to talk to her out of pure curiosity, we even saw each other. She told me that she was not happy in her marriage and other such things. After about 2 years we met again for a coffee. She already had a lover, who later became her husband. He even invited me to spend a weekend together, but there was no thrill in me for a long time, even though I was free. Then I realized how well God knows what and when to give us or not to give us and that what he gives us is always the best for us. I realized that I would not be happy with this woman. We just have different interests, different backgrounds, different lifestyles. Materially, with God's help, I quickly made up for it after graduation, but that didn't change our differences. Otherwise, by no means can I say that he is a bad person or anything like that. On the contrary, she is super nice, she is not bloated, earthy, etc. I had heard before how such pain remained for a lifetime, etc., but this is not the case with me. It passed me by completely. Not for a moment did I think, when I was about to divorce, to try. I am thankful to God that things did not work out, not because of her, but because I would live a life that is not mine and even in a city I do not like. Materially, with God's help, I quickly made up for it after graduation, but that didn't change our differences. Otherwise, by no means can I say that he is a bad person or anything like that. On the contrary, she is super nice, she is not bloated, earthy, etc.

I had heard before how such pain remained for a lifetime, etc., but this is not the case with me. It passed me by completely. Not for a moment did I think, when I was about to divorce, to try. I am thankful to God that things did not work out, not because of her, but because I would live a life that is not mine and even in a city that I do not like. Materially, with God's help, I quickly made up for it after graduation, but that didn't change our differences. Otherwise, by no means can I say that he is a bad person or anything like that. On the contrary, she is super nice, she is not bloated, earthy, etc. I had heard before how such pain remained for a lifetime, etc., but this is not the case with me. It passed me by completely. Not for a moment did I think, when I was about to divorce, to try. I am thankful to God that things did not work out, not because of her, but because I would live a life that is not mine and even in a city I do not like. but not so with me. It passed me by completely. Not for a moment did I think, when I was about to divorce, to try. I am thankful to God that things did not work out, not because of her, but because I would live a life that is not mine and even in a city I do not like. but not so with me. It passed me by completely. Not for a moment did I think, when I was about to divorce, to try. I am thankful to God that things did not work out, not because of her, but because I would live a life that is not mine and even in a city that I do not like.

   It will pass but another time! Every person who has experienced this feeling has the memory of the great one. I have talked to people who are more than 55 years old, and they have told me that despite the family life, grandchildren even have it but remember it, and with a very detailed explanation of situations and experiences! It all depends on you, but I tell you, go ahead and just keep your beautiful memories to warm your heart after years, when life engulfs you and everything around you has changed beyond recognition! I had it too, it was like in a movie, bro, but alas, our life turned cruelly and now, after a few women after it and many years, I still remember the thrill, but until then, I smile and I'm glad that I experienced exactly this thrill that makes people to move mountains and keep going! Who knows, you may meet the person behind the corner who will make you change your life!

   Well, I've been with my first love for 5 years now. I'm 22, she's 39. It's just that everything is going well for us and we are for each other.

   I was going to write to you about how, exactly how long I overcame it and how I had to experience all the pain at a time in my life when common sense and specifically clear and pure thought needed me daily and extremely much - nor did I have opportunity to get drunk or others. similar, or nothing, but when I saw that you are one of the people who use 'miss' I gave up. It's as if I feel like you're about to get angry with women. And still be black and guilty. Well ... I'll tell you that once the feeling passes, and at some point it will pass, now I don't know, maybe in 5 months or 5 years it will pass, you will just understand-feel that this was not the big one you love, but just a super strong obsession. And it will make you feel better. And only without hatred for women and without such 'miss' and others. similar words. I also agree that if two people separated, then it should have happened and I will add - it was for the good of both, whatever the reason. And the fact that you say that some girl wanted to break up with you in a week ... well - better in a week than in years, or to pretend to be perfect, and behind your back to do it with an uncle, for example, think about it. So respect that she chose to destroy something early, even before it was built, or even worse, to take root, than to stay with you, how much she is not alone and in the meantime to look for someone more mobile . There are many such people - they are still in serious relationships and give effort to build, do not have to be safe, while secretly, but actively looking for something better .. whatever the reason. And the fact that you say that some girl wanted to break up with you in a week ... well - better in a week than in years, or to pretend to be perfect, and behind your back to do it with an uncle, for example, think about it. So respect that she chose to destroy something early, even before it was built, or even worse, to take root, than to stay with you, how much she is not alone and in the meantime to look for someone more mobile . There are many such people - they are still in serious relationships and give effort to build, do not have to be safe, while secretly, but actively looking for something better .. whatever the reason. And the fact that you say that some girl wanted to break up with you in a week ... well - better in a week than in years, or to pretend to be perfect, and behind your back to do it with an uncle, for example, think about it. So respect that she chose to destroy something early, even before it was built, or even worse, to take root, than to stay with you, how much she is not alone and in the meantime to look for someone more mobile . There are many such people - they are still in serious relationships and give effort to build, do not have to be safe, while secretly, but actively looking for something better .. and behind your back to do it, for example, with an uncle, think about it. So respect that she chose to destroy something early, even before it was built, or even worse, to take root, than to stay with you, how much she is not alone and in the meantime to look for someone more mobile . There are many such people - they are still in serious relationships and give effort to build, do not have to be safe, while secretly, but actively looking for something better .. and behind your back to do it, for example, with an uncle, think about it. So respect that she chose to destroy something early, even before it was built, or even worse, to take root, than to stay with you, how much she is not alone and in the meantime to look for someone more mobile . There are many such people - they are still in a serious relationship and give effort to build, do not have to be safe, while secretly, but actively looking for something better ..

   No. My case is even more unpleasant because it is about unrequited love. I loved her and I still love her, but she has no feelings. It will soon be two years since I learned the painful truth. We haven't heard from each other in a year and a half. We do not maintain any contacts, I even deleted my Facebook, just so as not to intrude on her. I am a 21 year old man. Honestly, I don't believe I will ever love another woman so much and so altruistically. Even if it is very possible for me to be left alone for the rest of my life, and even if I am not left alone, my family will be "forcibly" patched up rather than united by great and great love. It's sad. But it's the truth. We have to accept it, even when we don't like it.

   No. We broke up 16 years ago. I still remember him. It doesn't hurt so much anymore. But I realize that I have lost my soulmate. I am married, I love my husband, but I have never achieved that spiritual connection or sexual harmony with him as with my great love. In the first years after the separation, I often dreamed that we had gathered and I woke up unearthly happy. But alas, this will never happen.

   Find me the right topic, at the right time ... Almost all the comments touched me in one way or another, because they are very close to my emotional state / Two years and 11 days have passed since my separation from my great love. It is not forgotten, it is not overcome, and the feelings at times subside, then they strike me again and this has been going on for a long time ... I tried with other women - nothing in common! I made a cruel mistake to leave her, our separation was impulsive, neither of us had thought of one while we were together :( I was very hurt by some things (not betrayals and infidelities), then when I left her she was broken, started immediately after me a relationship with another, just to survive.And now I still think she is with him, but apparently it seems rain unhappy ... I tried to bring her back, but it did not work, he could not forgive me for a long time ,, and after he did, I was almost a corpse, not like a man of sleepless nights, thinking, suffering, cigarettes, alcohol, and when I had a gap and a breakthrough in our contact - then I was impatient and lost her again. The bad thing is that I had other loves before - but nothing in common, and the worst thing is that I don't believe I will meet my SECOND soulmate again, because this girl was and is my soulmate ... Anyone who says that it will pass, that you will meet another true, greater love, etc., I do not think that he has filled the capacity of his heart and consciousness with true love - it fills the limit of love for you, and then empties it. Sorry, my hard drive is full, I have no room for others .. alcohol and when I had a gap and a breakthrough in our contact - then I was impatient and lost it again. The bad thing is that I had other loves before - but nothing in common, and the worst thing is that I don't believe I will meet my SECOND soulmate again, because this girl was and is my soulmate ... Anyone who says that it will pass, that you will meet another true, greater love, etc., I do not think that he has filled the capacity of his heart and consciousness with true love - it fills the limit of love for you, and then empties it. Sorry, my hard drive is full, I have no room for others .. alcohol and when I had a gap and a breakthrough in our contact - then I was impatient and lost it again. The bad thing is that I had other loves before - but nothing in common, and the worst thing is that I don't believe I will meet my SECOND soulmate again, because this girl was and is my soulmate ... Anyone who says that it will pass, that you will meet another true, greater love, etc., I do not think that he has filled the capacity of his heart and consciousness with true love - it fills the limit of love for you, and then empties it. Sorry, my hard drive is full, I have no room for others .. I don't think he has filled the capacity of his heart and mind with true love - it fills the limit of your love and then empties it. Sorry, my hard drive is full, I have no room for others .. I don't think he has filled the capacity of his heart and mind with true love - it fills the limit of your love and then empties it. Sorry, my hard drive is full, I have no room for others ..

   Hello, dude. Before I answer your question, I will tell you that I am glad that there are still people like me who really feel and really love. Yes, I experienced my great love, with which I was 2 times, the first time 7 months, the second year and a half. It was really love at first sight. The relationship was wonderful both times, until she started cheating on me and I caught her. And he did it extremely skillfully. Let me tell you something about love. When you love so much that you can't do without this woman, you begin to forget yourself. Even though you do it for her, you don't feel like she's starting to get on your head and fuck all the love. You often add qualities and idealize, but the real situation is completely different, you just can't see it yet. Overcoming after the end, however, left me a completely different person. Where for good, where for not so good I am no longer the same, because I will tell you that the price you pay to feel love is huge. And there is no money, no houses, and nothing material to fill that void. The pain is huge and you won't lie, brother, it stays with you. Eventually the pain disappears, but a void and pragmatism comes. You try to live in a regime for yourself, because that's all you have left. And in principle, this is the best cure and the smartest thing you can do. My advice is to be a man, brother, and accept what happened as happened. There is nothing you can do, I have even tried the impossible. Live your life and who knows, tomorrow you can meet your new love. But be careful. Love is a double-edged sword. As you are on top, so you Lithuanian very quickly. and nothing material to fill that void. The pain is huge and you won't lie, brother, it stays with you. Eventually the pain disappears, but a void and pragmatism comes. You try to live in a regime for yourself, because that's all you have left. And in principle, this is the best cure and the smartest thing you can do. My advice is to be a man, brother, and accept what happened as happened. There is nothing you can do, I have even tried the impossible. Live your life and who knows, tomorrow you can meet your new love. But be careful. Love is a double-edged sword. As you are on top, so you Lithuanian very quickly. and nothing material to fill that void. The pain is huge and you won't lie, brother, it stays with you. Eventually the pain disappears, but a void and pragmatism comes. You try to live in a regime for yourself, because that's all you have left. And in principle, this is the best cure and the smartest thing you can do. My advice is to be a man, brother, and accept what happened as happened. There is nothing you can do, I have even tried the impossible. Live your life and who knows, tomorrow you can meet your new love. But be careful. Love is a double-edged sword. As you are on top, so you Lithuanian very quickly. And in principle, this is the best cure and the smartest thing you can do. My advice is to be a man, brother, and accept what happened as happened. There is nothing you can do, I have even tried the impossible. Live your life and who knows, tomorrow you can meet your new love. But be careful. Love is a double-edged sword. As you are on top, so you Lithuanian very quickly. And in principle, this is the best cure and the smartest thing you can do. My advice is to be a man, brother, and accept what happened as happened. There is nothing you can do, I have even tried the impossible. Live your life and who knows, tomorrow you can meet your new love. But be careful. Love is a double-edged sword. As you are on top, so you Lithuanian very quickly.

   Big, big, no matter how big a love is. As much as Zlatka to Blago-jissa? Enough idiots! Do you find a chick who will throw you in the orchestra with vision and sex appeal and there will be a new great love;)

   To number 8 Write to him !!! Find him, call him - whatever. Don't make my mistake, I wanted to do the same as you, but I didn't have the courage and now I deeply regret every day of God. He found a way through a mutual friend or acquaintance

   I'm a woman, I won't go into details when I was 18. I had a relationship, it wasn't very serious. I had to go abroad for a short time, and on my return I learned that the boy had found another. He was my age, he was a little immature, but he was very cute. I inquired and realized that things were serious, of course I did not intervene, I moved on. I had a relationship and married someone else, we have been a happy family with three children for twelve years. The boy from before also married the girl in question and they are together. The problem is that I still wonder if I shouldn't have fought for him, if we would have been happy together? We have common acquaintances and sometimes we meet, I noticed that he looks at me strangely. He wrote to me some time ago that he really cared about me and wanted to see me. I met, we talked, we just told each other the things that remained in time. It turned out that he had heard rumors about me, that I was with someone else during my stay abroad, there was just a misunderstanding between us and we broke up. We did nothing but talk, our paths parted, he went abroad with his family. It is very strange for months and years you know nothing about a person and he does not leave your mind. Either I dream about it sometimes or something reminds me of it. So my opinion is that there are people and feelings that you can't overcome and forget. My husband is very good, three years older than me he looks much better and much more respected and successful than my ex in question, but there is a place in me from which he can not erase it. If I only hear his name and my stomach turns as if I am 18 again, this is the pure truth, there are people who remain a thrill for a lifetime. that I was with another during my stay abroad, there was just a misunderstanding between us and we parted ways. We did nothing but talk, our paths parted, he went abroad with his family. It is very strange for months and years you know nothing about a person and he does not leave your mind.

Either I dream about it sometimes or something reminds me of it. So my opinion is that there are people and feelings that you can't overcome and forget. My husband is very good, three years older than me he looks much better and much more respected and successful than my ex in question, but there is a place in me from which he can not erase it. If I only hear his name and my stomach turns as if I am 18 again, this is the pure truth, there are people who remain a thrill for a lifetime. that I was with another during my stay abroad, there was just a misunderstanding between us and we parted ways. We did nothing but talk, our paths parted, he went abroad with his family. It is very strange for months and years you know nothing about a person and he does not leave your mind. Either I dream about it sometimes or something reminds me of it. So my opinion is that there are people and feelings that you can't overcome and forget. My husband is very good, three years older than me he looks much better and much more respected and successful than my ex in question, but there is a place in me from which he can not erase it. If I only hear his name and my stomach turns as if I am 18 again, this is the pure truth, there are people who remain a thrill for a lifetime. there was just a misunderstanding between us and we parted ways. We did nothing but talk, our paths parted, he went abroad with his family. It is very strange for months and years you know nothing about a person and he does not leave your mind. Either I dream about it sometimes or something reminds me of it. So my opinion is that there are people and feelings that you can't overcome and forget. My husband is very good, three years older than me he looks much better and much more respected and successful than my ex in question, but there is a place in me from which he can not erase it. If I only hear his name and my stomach turns as if I am 18 again, this is the pure truth, there are people who remain a thrill for a lifetime. there was just a misunderstanding between us and we parted ways.

We did nothing but talk, our paths parted, he went abroad with his family. It is very strange for months and years you know nothing about a person and he does not leave your mind. Either I dream about it sometimes or something reminds me of it. So my opinion is that there are people and feelings that you can't overcome and forget. My husband is very good, three years older than me he looks much better and much more respected and successful than my ex in question, but there is a place in me from which he can not erase it. If I only hear his name and my stomach turns as if I am 18 again, this is the pure truth, there are people who remain a thrill for a lifetime. our paths parted he went abroad with his family. It is very strange for months and years you know nothing about a person and he does not leave your mind. Either I dream about it sometimes or something reminds me of it. So my opinion is that there are people and feelings that you can't overcome and forget. My husband is very good, three years older than me he looks much better and much more respected and successful than my ex in question, but there is a place in me from which he can not erase it. If I only hear his name and my stomach turns as if I am 18 again, this is the pure truth, there are people who remain a thrill for a lifetime. our paths parted he went abroad with his family. It is very strange for months and years you know nothing about a person and he does not leave your mind. Either I dream about it sometimes or something reminds me of it. So my opinion is that there are people and feelings that you can't overcome and forget. My husband is very good, three years older than me, he looks much better and much more respected and successful than my ex in question, but there is a place in me from which he cannot erase. If I only hear his name and my stomach turns as if I am 18 again, this is the pure truth, there are people who remain a thrill for a lifetime. that there are people and feelings that you cannot overcome and forget. My husband is very good, three years older than me he looks much better and much more respected and successful than my ex in question, but there is a place in me from which he can not erase it. If I only hear his name and my stomach turns as if I am 18 again, this is the pure truth, there are people who remain a thrill for a lifetime. that there are people and feelings that you cannot overcome and forget. My husband is very good, three years older than me he looks much better and much more respected and successful than my ex in question, but there is a place in me from which he can not erase it. If I only hear his name and my stomach turns as if I am 18 again, this is the pure truth, there are people who remain a thrill for a lifetime.