I've given myself a chance to be in a relationship (even a friendly one) with someone I don't like, ... but rather - I know we're not for each other because we have a lot of differences. Or I have been in a relationship with someone to help that person, with no intention of having a relationship (I am a sociable person, but I prefer to be alone). People, especially those who feel given a chance - overdo it and become impudent, so - I would not give a chance to people who are not 'my type'.
Interestingly, you and your example are for users, at first glance, but knowing for yourself ... I would say about those people that they used me and my good attitude, but if we ask them, they would say that I let them down, which is not true, they're just trying to blame them so you don't dump them.
There is no point in wasting your time.
Break up with her. You're just wasting each other's time right now.
Not exactly. I was with a man I was in love with and loved madly, but in the process of getting to know him I realized that he has many qualities that I hate. We were like a dog and a cat, we could do anything for the good of the other, but our differences were countless and we could literally quarrel for no reason. Somehow we didn't like each other as people, but we accepted each other completely and protected each other. We have never tried to change the other, the whole story is crazy. We irritated each other, but we were not irritated by habits, but by certain topics. Such opposites cannot exist, and it is strange that we spent three years together. I guess if we knew everything that set us apart from the beginning, we wouldn't have started a relationship at all. But there was love, acceptance and thrill ... you can't be with a person with whom these things don't exist, it's a kind of lie. You will find irritating traits and habits in everyone, the important thing is to want this person, to accept him and to have something pleasant for you in him. If this woman is not pleasant to you and irritates you more than she attracts you, then there is no point in wasting her time.
If you don't like her, you certainly won't have a family with her. You will dump it again, it is better now instead of after months/years.
No I am not. For the simple reason that I would not tolerate such a relationship. In fact, for a person, and for anything else - if I don't like it, it must not be in my life. One should not live one's life enduring someone or something, in my opinion.
And also that with the use and exploitation of the other person is really nasty.
I know such people and I don't understand how they can be with someone they don't really like. In my observations, it is usually important for such people to be in a relationship at all costs and to perceive the idea that a person is unattached as something shameful and even abnormal. Also, for many of them it is just advantageous to have a person next to them to do things for them, to be their company at home, and as I mentioned - to be able to lead in front of the society with the status of a bound person.
And people like me define them as capricious, selfish and other epithets that I can't think of right now and I'm tired of thinking about remembering them in order to provoke me towards their way of life and thinking.
But in the end, you are a free will person and you can do whatever you want.
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