Hi, I write to you because I need the enmity of the side people. I hope those who do not intentions to answer the topic do not bother to write unnecessarily! I've been with my friend for four years. About a year ago, a girl told me how he had been pushing her to tell her how much she loved me but still invited her to hide somewhere in private (they were in a pub). The problem is that he denies, and the question stands between hers and his word. The girl in question is quite healing, saying she had a habit of making up such stories to attract people's attention. On the other hand, my friend denies this to be true. It has happened to lie to me (not for a third person). He has always been firmly opposed to cheating! This case is supposed to be forgotten, but this bottomless street is not giving me any peace on time. Do you think this incident is probably the fruit of her fantasies, or did it really happen?
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soft_soph answered · May 27, 2020
Of course he's going to deny it. Maybe it was crush and something happened.
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shy_maary_ answered · May 27, 2020
Oh, my God, how lame.
Yes, maybe this girl can make up some kind of provocation.
Yes, maybe they made out.
What's that?
Are we going to cut veins or raise fights?
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marymarg answered · May 27, 2020
I don't think anything happened, and you have to trust your partner more. You say he lied to you before, but never for a 3rd person. This is already an argument that nothing has happened, and on top of that you know that the girl in question is some kind of a light scheming, which runs such things to the left and to the right, to harass the friends of the boys, for whom she lies and feels strong and powerful in this way. Waste...
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sxymelonsbbw answered · May 27, 2020
But the fact that it was Eddie, what do you think the boyfriend might be right about, too? If there is something to be understood sooner or later is understood. I don't know if she likes it and tries to grill you, rather I think your guy is clean. Otherwise, as in number two, it's dumb writing? Think of something better. Stop downcutting People's problems. It's lame for you, but it's a bummer, you know?
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proman718 answered · May 27, 2020
If he didn't get pregnant, I don't see what the problem is if he slept with someone else. The important thing is that he's with you now and he loves you. Even Kirk Douglas slept with other women during his marriage, but he loved his wife and she loved him and they were all together. His wife at the funeral said her marriage was great and their son confirmed it.
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oxxme answered · May 28, 2020
And if it really happened, what's the big deal? This has already become fashionable, even women brag about their numbers. If he hasn't changed his relationship with you, why have you been digging through the past? You're really going to make him do it because you're going to bore him with your distrust!
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benny2217 answered · May 28, 2020
It's normal to be a natural, even more normal to deny it.
I also had one such boyfriend, swore how much he loved me, and at the same time as I was gone, he went to the press and to cheat on girls.
As advice, I can give you, not to attack him, but rather to be on the lookout and take a good care of him, collect his circus and goodbye.
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dave1964m answered · May 28, 2020
What we think doesn't matter. Maybe it's true, maybe not. Since everyone is innocent until proven guilty, and no one can prove that he cheated, your friend is innocent. If you have no other reason to worry, you better forget the story, everyone can say whatever they want. However, partners need to trust each other
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belle_jlou answered · May 29, 2020
I'm going to question you this way:
Who do you believe in, the scheming or the person you've been with in a relationship for four years?
Not that your friend will immediately run to reveal your infidelity, if any, but that's no reason to trust a woman who regularly invents stories. You can study a little history, try to get to a date, a precise day, witnesses and so on, but here we are now bordering on insanity and risking becoming paranoid. Be careful, have one in mind, but don't go ahead.