Hello. I am a 16 year old girl. In short, my father and mother treat me terribly. At one point they behave well and then suddenly they start shouting and insulting me and blaming me for everything. My mother has been having nervous breakdowns for as long as I can remember, but at least she's making an effort. It burns a hell of a lot faster and is super easy to hit by anything. He was always like that and he always shouted at me, and until recently I didn't realize at all that this was not normal, because they both always shouted at me and I, as I was used to it from a young age, thought it was normal until 2 years ago. In principle, it is difficult for me to close my mouth in such situations, I always try to defend myself, but maybe this is the problem ... When he starts to tell me “Don't call me, who are you thinking about? "I tell him" And I have an opinion, who are you thinking of telling me not to call? ”Or something of the sort. And then they go to tell me how bad a child I am, how I just answer. Emmy, if you were good parents, maybe I wouldn't answer you ... And that's part of my character. Do you think it's better to ignore it or continue like this? And in general, they crush my self-esteem and depress me. But otherwise they loved me a lot, etc. And on top of all that, my father just keeps telling me that I hate him and complains to my mother and intrigues. And they quarrel all the time, because my father is bad and with my mother, I don't know why she tolerates him. I'm tired of all this, what can I do ?? It is clear that I will move out, but how can I last another 3 years? Do you think it's better to ignore it or continue like this? And in general, they crush my self-esteem and depress me. But otherwise they loved me a lot, etc. And on top of all that, my father just keeps telling me that I hate him and complains to my mother and intrigues. And they quarrel all the time, because my father is bad and with my mother, I don't know why she tolerates him. I'm tired of all this, what can I do ?? It is clear that I will move out, but how can I last another 3 years? Do you think it's better to ignore it or continue like this? And in general, they crush my self-esteem and depress me. But otherwise they loved me a lot, etc. And on top of all that, my father just keeps telling me that I hate him and complains to my mother and intrigues. And they quarrel all the time, because my father is bad and with my mother, I don't know why she tolerates him. I'm tired of all this, what can I do ?? It is clear that I will move out, but how can I last another 3 years?
1 wadideglafc answered
As you are very independent and knowledgeable, come out, make your money and be free! But it's easier with Daddy wears, Mommy kneads and then you have an "opinion". At 16, you can work and raise money. She had an opinion ... who knows what you tell them. It's a good thing they're not farting, although maybe they should have ..