It's probably going to sound awfully stupid, but I hope you' il give me some advice on how to get into this situation. I work in an office of a shipping company abroad, where my friend is the boss of the landfill itself. Don't think he hired me or anything like that- we became boyfriends at work. We have a maximum of 10 women in the entire landfill, of which most are typical German women, who are not so supportive and often overweight. I can't say I'm some super-big beauty, but I can say I always try to look good. So, as you can imagine, there are a lot of men around me. I often get compliments from them, which is normal, and I don't take it as a flirtation or anything like that. But there's a colleague who finds a reason to come to the office every day and try to take me down a little or a lot. Every time I see him, I worry a hell of a lot about his presence, because he openly takes me down, and there are other people in the office who listen to everything. My friend and I only maintain collegiate relationships at work, because I don't want my colleagues to think I'm privileged. For this reason, my colleagues in the office do not know about our relationship or only suspect something. I'm worried that they might be "joking" with my friend that my colleague is hitting on me, and I don't want to have any problems with my boyfriend, as well as the colleague real with one of his bosses. I spoke to the man who was hitting me down and explained to him in the first sight that he and I have mates, and I don't think it's appropriate to take me down openly. But I feel like he's even more obsessed with me. I don't know how, but he found my personal phone number, started writing to me in watts ap about how much my butt was round, and that I was prettier than his wife, even allowed himself to send a picture of his sex member and all that crap. Naturally, I blocked his phone and blocked it on all social networks. Once, when we were listening in one of the hallways, he even allowed himself to touch my butt. I immediately yelled at him that I was going to complain to the boss that he was sexually harassing me, but he was just looking at me and grinning in my face. I don't know what to do - I don't want to cause him any trouble, as he's one of the best employees, and I don't want my friend to do it dirty, but he doesn't understand it either! Please give me an idea of how to push him away and finally understand that I am not interested in him because I no longer know what to do!
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nicolsalas answered · June 08, 2020
I'il just tell you, everyone at your job knows you're dealing with your boss. Including that annoying guy you're writing about. Those who fix them, the boss, everyone knows about them, be sure. It's your fault, I'm sure. Once you're a boyfriend, it's clear how much money you're worth. Tell the boss about this pesky guy if you're in such a big trouble. Word men don't understand. And pay attention to your way of dressing.
Downed angel
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sasha__sex answered · June 08, 2020
Then in the case book you file a written note with an incoming number and in it intelligently and without offense describing what happened. Now everything looks at me with respect and everything goes right.
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pammbigass answered · June 08, 2020
Option 1: You tell your friend. It's better than for a third person to make up a story and become a problem. Wait for him somewhere and have a chat. These guys are hitting on defenseless women thinking there's no one to protect them.
Option 2: Unblock it, keep everything it sends and go to management to complain. It's a great thing, especially overseas, it's already taken more seriously.
In no way do you let him do what he wants, it's extremely important to expose him, because it will continue not only with you, but with other women. Such invaders should be crushed like cockroaches, not hide and fear.
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sofiarayne answered · June 08, 2020
You missed the moment. If you'd put one in his face after he touched you, it would have been great. Go, file a complaint, and you're done.
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breyshellsexy answered · June 08, 2020
It's the author's fault- what kind of company is that you're constantly hitting on... Don't you work?
If you're still there, you're not a more serious place...
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grummalo answered · June 08, 2020
Do you still have the chats and the pictures? If so, you go with them to human resources, and then to his wife. The problem is solved.
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xxsbrunette answered · June 09, 2020
Are you sure you live in Germany, is the story fictional or do you work for Turkish-Albanian employers?
Unlike Bulgaria in Germany, the police come if you complain about the slightest thing. Now with a printout of a photo and text, directly to the employer and the police and to the police tomorrow he is not at work. Just for a slight hint and an employee was thrown out of work, with you such a thing, something does not tie. Secondly, there are a lot of nice women in Germany, and there are a lot of nice Germans, given the many mixed marriages for generations, are you sure that you are really judging the situation, how you behave and dress. Who lives long in Germany knows what to do in the workplace and how to behave. Such frivolities no one tolerates, this is not Bulgaria. Distance always there is, imposed by the working discipline and the many nationalities.
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yungnnnreadeee answered · June 09, 2020
Buy yourself a teaser or at least a spray, once you show it to him ready to go, and he won't dare even get close to you!
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skarlet_hot_ answered · June 09, 2020
I don't want to read that kind of balgochi, but from what I understand, your friend is also your colleague's boss. What's the problem with the boss getting him out of the office?
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emilyfaye answered · June 10, 2020
And the adventure at work never stays hidden. And in your question, I'm going to threaten in your place that I'm going to tell his wife I understand he's married.
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sophiejohnsonn answered · June 10, 2020
You're the man, you let him in, you can stop him. The question is, are you going to choose your comfort, or the other one? Me, if you ask this suitor, he's not interested in your comfort. I don't know.
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showfuckhot2xx answered · June 10, 2020
In Germany, men do not do so, even in Bulgaria and in the workplace. I think you're exaggerating. No one saw you groping your butt in the hallway, or in the office, someone heard what he was saying, and there were other employees. The most amazing thing is that you found your personal phone and sent you a picture of your penis. Hey, you've been a fantastic fan, wonder, man. Number one's right.
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annabellus answered · June 11, 2020
Everyone knows you're having a fight with the boss, and from what I understand, you didn't post your relationship to your colleagues. The guy thought you could be Mara.
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conan1 answered · June 11, 2020
From the author: Thank you to everyone who has given me advice! I don't dress provocatively because we all wear company uniforms, it's just that men get into movies when a woman is nice to them. For not "turning" one on him, when I was touched, it was my fault- I was shocked and didn't react adequately. Otherwise, after I wrote the story here, I shared with my friend and, as I assumed, the "suitor" was punished and probably soon he will be fired. I didn't mean for this to happen, but at least I'il be calm.
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tat2tatas answered · June 12, 2020
He's naked! Did you have to become Mara general to learn to complain when you really need it!
It really sounds a bit fictional, because in Germany people are flying around. Even in Bulgaria, some offices are already being sued for sexual harassment... I'm sure this guy wouldn't have been the best worker ever.