It's probably going to sound awfully stupid, but I hope you' il give me some advice on how to get into this situation. I work in an office of a shipping company abroad, where my friend is the boss of the landfill itself. Don't think he hired me or anything like that- we became boyfriends at work. We have a maximum of 10 women in the entire landfill, of which most are typical German women, who are not so supportive and often overweight. I can't say I'm some super-big beauty, but I can say I always try to look good. So, as you can imagine, there are a lot of men around me. I often get compliments from them, which is normal, and I don't take it as a flirtation or anything like that. But there's a colleague who finds a reason to come to the office every day and try to take me down a little or a lot. Every time I see him, I worry a hell of a lot about his presence, because he openly takes me down, and there are other people in the office who listen to everything. My friend and I only maintain collegiate relationships at work, because I don't want my colleagues to think I'm privileged. For this reason, my colleagues in the office do not know about our relationship or only suspect something. I'm worried that they might be "joking" with my friend that my colleague is hitting on me, and I don't want to have any problems with my boyfriend, as well as the colleague real with one of his bosses. I spoke to the man who was hitting me down and explained to him in the first sight that he and I have mates, and I don't think it's appropriate to take me down openly. But I feel like he's even more obsessed with me. I don't know how, but he found my personal phone number, started writing to me in watts ap about how much my butt was round, and that I was prettier than his wife, even allowed himself to send a picture of his sex member and all that crap. Naturally, I blocked his phone and blocked it on all social networks. Once, when we were listening in one of the hallways, he even allowed himself to touch my butt. I immediately yelled at him that I was going to complain to the boss that he was sexually harassing me, but he was just looking at me and grinning in my face. I don't know what to do - I don't want to cause him any trouble, as he's one of the best employees, and I don't want my friend to do it dirty, but he doesn't understand it either! Please give me an idea of how to push him away and finally understand that I am not interested in him because I no longer know what to do!
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