Hi, I don't know if this is the right category for my story, but since I'm a 16 year old girl I decided to write here. Many people are jealous and you have probably all heard the expression that happiness loves silence. I like to share with friends when I'm happy and often, if something goes wrong, my mother says it's because I share too much and my friends are jealous. What do you think about it Is it possible for a true friend to envy? Is it bad to share my happiness? Thanks in advance!
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Hello! Yes, from an old mother you are right. Nowadays, many people are jealous. I used to share a lot with friends. However, over time, I realized that many of my friends are just like that. At the moment I have exactly one very close friend who has repeatedly proved to me over the years that she is not envious and does not wish me harm. Only with her (outside the family) I share both good and bad. I'm not telling you not to share at all, but just be very careful when you share, because people (especially teenagers) are mean and envious.
Um, yes, it is possible! Don't share everything and I was like you!
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It is not exactly envy, but tactlessness on your part, which causes negative reactions. Not everyone feels happy at all times. Why do you depress them by bragging about your happiness? On the other hand, after a while your enthusiasm subsides and at the first negative thing you can very easily imagine that the jealousy was to blame. Keep your happiness to yourself, it is right and only in your head and almost no one else will feel it the way you feel it.
The title of the topic is CORRECT - Really happiness loves silence. It's not about superstition or evil, envious people, it's just that fate interferes with the long-awaited happiness. I say it in the first person, the more you share and rejoice, the more you move away from what is wanted and desired. "Grandma for beauty's sake" - A wise and true tale that makes us think. Behind every evil are not the people, but the higher forces that teach you a lesson that you were once bad at. Yes, there is envy in people, but in this case they are not involved. (Blind Vaisha)
Don't listen to nonsense, just be happy and show it everywhere, for example I am happy when someone I know or even a stranger is happy I am not envious and malicious and it charges and motivates me, be yourself and don't care, positive people always they succeed and are leaders, the losers remain like that and it eats them from the inside, so be above them, if the happiness of others irritates them, then they have no right to their own happiness, it's their fuck :)