So ... I haven't seen her live, we've been writing to each other for several months. I'll see you soon, I don't know when, and 3-4 days ago she said something to me that "we don't write to each other like before" I asked her why and she said "well, you used to write to me more, but now things have calmed down". Accordingly, I started writing more often. For these 3-4 days only, I wrote 1st and she always answers right. However, he does not answer me like people, but constantly with "yes", "no" and such unambiguous answers that end each topic. For example, I ask her, I ask her how she is, she says well and you, and I say that I am ok and so on ... 3-4-5 minutes she says nothing. I ask "what's going on", she calls me I think I'm sick. And I call her because you don't dress in this rain, for example, she shouts "it's not from that ..." and she stopped writing again, and I finally told her, we'll hear from each other tomorrow, she didn't say goodbye to me . (btu I put emoticons and I don't say things exactly that way so you don't think we're talking like that :)). And now what should I do, here she told me to pay more attention to her, I turned to her and she immediately withdrew Now what am I supposed to pull? What if he doesn't write to me?
1 etecnic answered
Dude, you haven't learned the important lesson about girls. They are hungry for attention. And when they lose it, they try their best to bring it back. You pulled right away the first time. She sensed it and decided to remind you of herself by telling you not to write like you used to. You bit and played the old game again, in which you are the loser. She has a big ego again because someone is paying attention to her. And you just had to let her look for you. For example, when she told you that you do not write as before, that now you write less often, you had to answer her that you are busy and do not have much time. Believe me, she would constantly seek your attention if there was something more serious about you. The other option is that he would dump you and stop writing to you. Which is better than playing you off. As soon as she writes to you briefly and uniformly, stop writing to her. Live your life and she will call again and you will see. The hunger for attention knows no bounds. Then give it easier and slower.