Hello! I am an 18 year old girl and I need advice. I hope some boy will answer me, because all the advice I get from girls for now does not help. For several months I have been looking at one of the boys in our company with "other" eyes. Until now, we have always been friends, not even very close, but lately we go out more often in a narrower circle. In most cases, it's me, him and a couple (my best friend and his best friend). If they see us from the sides, they will think that we are in a double meeting, but this is not the case at all. He's changed lately, he's not the same guy he was when we met years ago. He has become more mature, moderate, much more fun and, I'm not mistaken, much nicer and more masculine. He is also romantic and has said several times that he wants a relationship in which to make romantic, kind gestures to his girlfriend. The problem is, I don't know if it ever occurs to him to think of me that way. I noticed some changes in his behavior towards me - he laughs at my jokes, compliments me, sometimes defends me in front of a company mansion, recently even hugs me when he talks to me, looks me in the eyes all the time, which sometimes slightly I get nervous because I feel electricity (or imagine). But his mood is very changeable and he can listen to me carefully for one minute and pretend I don't exist the next. Because we are not very close when we are alone, we do not have much to say to each other, but I want to change that. I'm afraid that if I take the first step, he will push me away. And since we are in one company, then it will be awkward for everyone. So my plan is to show him I'm interested, but not to be too intrusive, to present myself in the best light and make him want me. But ... I don't know how this happens, I don't want to be accepted as someone who is too funny or too sensitive, I don't want to pretend to be super smart or heavy, but when I'm around him I can't behave quite naturally. Despite everything, we have a lot in common and we have a very similar view of life, but we also differ in many ways, so that we are interesting together and learn things from each other. Do you have any tricks (body language, any special cues, clothing, voodoo spells: D)? How do I get him to look over things through my eyes? I don't want to be taken for someone who is too funny or too sensitive, I don't want to pretend to be super smart or heavy, but when I'm around him I can't behave quite naturally. Despite everything, we have a lot in common and we have a very similar view of life, but we also differ in many ways, so that we are interesting together and learn things from each other. Do you have any tricks (body language, any special cues, clothing, voodoo spells: D)? How do I get him to look over things through my eyes? I don't want to be taken for someone who is too funny or too sensitive, I don't want to pretend to be super smart or heavy, but when I'm around him I can't behave quite naturally. Despite everything, we have a lot in common and we have a very similar view of life, but we also differ in many ways, so that we are interesting together and learn things from each other. Do you have any tricks (body language, any special cues, clothing, voodoo spells: D)? How do I get him to look over things through my eyes? so that we have fun together and learn things from each other. Do you have any tricks (body language, any special cues, clothing, voodoo spells: D)? How do I get him to look over things through my eyes? so that we have fun together and learn things from each other. Do you have any tricks (body language, any special cues, clothing, voodoo spells: D)? How do I get him to look over things through my eyes?
1 oceanrosetti answered
Hi :) I'm a boy and I hope to help you as much as I can. However, keep in mind that every boy is different, respectively likes and notices different things in a girl. In general, the most important thing is to maintain balance in your relationship. Don't dig too deep into things, don't think about them, always leave a little intrigue. In no case do not admit to him directly about your feelings, you have to keep him under constant pressure. I say that because at the moment I am in this situation with a girl and I know how my heart beats as I saw: D. It will probably happen to him as well. But the goal is to get his attention first. Smile! But not violently, but sincerely. Don't agree with everything he says, you can sometimes pick on him in a friendly way, joking about something with him. The goal is for him to both like you and know that you will not give in to him easily. Otherwise you will become uninteresting. Find common topics to talk about. Even the biggest stupidity you can think of. The important thing is to always have something to say to yourself. From the small things come the big ones. Everything turns very easily, as long as you hit the topics of conversation. Do not rush anywhere, if there is something between you, sooner or later it will happen, so do not press him boy, it is very annoying and can run away. In general, there are many tricks and tactics to attract someone's attention, yet in love everything is allowed. And most importantly - be yourself! If you like it the way you are, you won't have any problems. If you start playing roles to please him, forget it, there are a lot of licking wounds afterwards. You are a woman and you have to act like one, let him flatter you, you have to pull to take his mind. And one piece of advice about appearance - hair! Take great care of her, this is one of the things we adore the most, except for the so-called heavy artillery: D Good luck !!! :)))