Grab The Moment, But Don't Get Involved In An Extramarital Affair

The Story

Hi, I decided to draw a few lines considering the many topics of extramarital affairs. I emphasize that this is a personal opinion and I do not impose it as a criterion. I just share it because everyone is different. So, it all ended between us a year and a half ago. We mutually agreed to end all contact and never hear or see each other again. What we can save from our marriages and not only for ourselves and our children, but also for our husbands. We were both from different cities. Three years of extramarital affair. What are the reasons for both sides to reach this situation at the moment does not matter. We liked each other, but we didn't see each other together. Many times we tried to stop, but we failed. And here was our mistake, we had to show more will. We were discreet, but we never thought we could blow up. Just the euphoria, the wave engulfs you and you stop thinking. On the contrary, you want the story to have no end, although in most cases, for one reason or another, the end is inevitable. The first year my mistress's husband found out about us. Not only did he understand, but he also studied who I was. Why did it last Because of the children. He loved them, he wanted them to grow up with him. He was sure he wouldn't win them over in a divorce. A close relative of his wife worked in the judiciary and that predetermined things. He gritted his teeth and pretended to eat no onions or smell onions. However, he got drunk one day and shared it with some detailed in front of the godson. He to the godmother, and she to my mistress. Nasty very nasty. When we met to discuss the problem, we decided to stop. The weight fell mostly on her. He shouted at me, I couldn't look my husband in the eye. Just thinking that every time he knew where I was and what I was doing, I felt bad. We broke up permanently, without feedback. I was not interested in how the relationship with my husband developed. I have given my word. She didn't look for me either. I'm trying to patch up my marriage, and it's slow, though. You just need a strong will and a lot of effort, but also understanding from the other side. In many cases, we lack the nerve to be more persistent and delicate in our relationship with the partner next to us. Infidelity has been and will be, the reasons are different. It is obvious that infidelity is already part of our daily lives. And I do not write this with pride, but as a sad statement. My idea is, if cohabitation is impossible, just catch the moment and stop everything at the most sublime moment for you. This way the pleasure and the memory will remain sweeter and forever. You will not feel emptiness. It's bad though if there are injured people on the other side. Finally, do the impossible to mend your relationship with your spouse. I wish you health M 45

Last Updated
November 05, 2020
Author:
True_Lifee