"Good" Girlfriends!

I want to touch on relationships between people and especially women's friendships. And is it there at all or is it all hypocrisy and interest. A few years ago I met a girl at university and it so happened that we became friends and started going out to share. We both went abroad to study and generally made a very nice women's company. We had fun, we helped each other. In general, I did not believe that such a thing could happen between women. She shared a lot of personal things with me, I with her, I helped her too. Overall, I felt like my closest friend. Time divided us, I went to one place, she to another. But we kept in touch and heard each other. We didn't fight, we didn't divide men or anything. At one point, she caught up with a colleague of mine from university and went to live abroad. And it has changed dramatically since then. She avoids communication with me, every time she comes to Bulgaria, she literally lies to me that she wanted to see me, but she always climbs something that prevents her. I don't bother her, I don't write to her often on Facebook, but when she comes to Bulgaria and writes that I want to see her. She agrees, we arrange a meeting and in the end she always invents some kind of management not to come. How can everything be so hypocritical, to say at least outright that it can't be so much. I'm not the type of person who envies or wants services all the time, I just wanted to see her and talk to her because she reminds me of good times from my student years. But it has changed so much that it is disgusting. I recently moved to the same city from which she is in Bulgaria, to live and work by chance in the same neighborhood where she lives. Det is called in a few blocks we are. She returned in 2 weeks and could not find 1 hour. And in the face she is so hypocritical that I feel sick. The paradox is that it doesn't happen to me for the first time with girlfriends, but in most cases after a while they always think of me when they need something and they start looking for me .... In general, I notice the last few years that people have become more closed, more cautious, more cowardly, even if it is no longer like a time to talk live, but only through the Internet, social media and others. Every day thousands of people do PR on Facebook and polish their egos there, but for the last few years I have stopped doing it. I use it only to communicate with people who cannot be reached in any other way, but not as a toilet for my emotional emotions or an archive of my personal life. And I seem to notice a change in one of my "friends," who are diligent users. If you stop demonstrating your personal faith in life in social media, does it mean that you cease to exist. Because it seems to be so for some people.