Hello! I start right on the topic. My son is 21 years old, his father and I have been divorced for 11 years. I have an older son, but he is in Germany. My son and daughter-in-law (my eldest son's wife) are currently living. The little one works in a service station, from a very young age he is very keen on cars. But he also inherited his father's passion for gambling and alcohol. I recently found out that he trades in weed, smokes and sells. Every night he gathers with friends to drink and play mosquito. If not, they race cars. In the summer he had gone to Plovdiv, ostensibly to work, and spent every night at the casinos, finally returning home "seen and thirsty." I have tried many times to talk to him about it, but he refuses to listen to me, claiming that he is old enough to make decisions about his life. His exact words were, "If I can support myself, I can decide for myself what to do! "He is somewhat right, because he supports himself completely, he even gives part of the money for electricity, water, internet, but the path he is taking is not the right one. Gambling, alcohol, drugs ... if he continues like this, it will not end well. His brother also tried to talk to him, reminding him that he had already gone that route and ended up in prison (fortunately he realized his mistake), but this did not affect him in any way.