Hi. I'm 15 years old, a boy from a big city. I have a problem, and it's that girls don't like me. I've never had a boyfriend before, and I only know about a girl who certainly liked me, but that was a long time ago. In general, I can see why they don't like me. For starters, I'm nothing big. I don't think I'm ugly and I've basically been told I'm not ugly, there are just some things that can get better and I'll be better. I'm talking about pimples and fat on the face. I'm not fat at all, I just have a little more fat on my face and for a few days I started training to get it off, but in such a short time how to have a result. I also know I can remove them, a friend told me to go to a beautician, but I don't want to because I'm ashamed, and I don't know how much money it will be (if I'm going to go I'm going to have to pay it with my money, and that's a little nasty, because my parents won't give me any other money than pocket money). I'm also short, I'm 165, and we all know girls like tall girls. So far, let's say, from 4/10 I'll be able to be 6/10 in appearance. The other problem is that I'm not super social. I have some friends, and I want to have some friends. To some extent, I'm ashamed to talk to new people. I just feel really weird talking to people I don't know that well. If someone comes and starts talking to me, I'll know that they want to communicate, and I won't be ashamed. Maybe I just think that no one wants to talk to me, and that's why I barely talk to people. So tell me what to do about it? How can I, in general, make people, especially girls, like me? Anything you can think of will be of use to me.
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sara_castellanos answered · June 17, 2020
There's no shame in going to a beautician to clean your face. There are also a lot of men who don't necessarily have to be gay (nothing against them, I just say it). And since you have such a problem, your parents should be understanding and giving you money.
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obstsalat answered · June 17, 2020
And someone cut you off, be a man, you're going to be a man. Self-esteem attracts women/girls!!!
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andrade012 answered · June 17, 2020
Well nice to go to a beautician not only because of the pimples but also will cleanse your skin, but in general it is normal to have acne after all you are at such an age.
Also talk to people more often, don't be ashamed, but don't overdo it - don't chase them and make sure you're being nice in front of the girls and showing them how good, funny and caring you are I don't think you're going to have a problem. Let's not forget that girls enjoy attention and compliments :)
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