Hello, gang! I have a girlfriend of about 3 months, and when we talk to her she often mentions that she does not know me and finds it difficult to reveal herself to people. She gives me an example with her colleague with whom she has known for 3 years and only in the last year he got to know her well. It also took time for him to let himself in and, most of all, to start trusting him. In your opinion, apart from questions about how else to get to know her? In what situations should I put it? (Let me just add that we see each other 1-2 times a week due to the fact that we both work) - (until now I didn't have to try so hard for a girl, in principle they like me and they push me, but now it's the opposite and it's a little difficult for me)
1 cocobellaxoxoxo answered
You don't have to question her with countless questions to get to know her. I even get annoyed when someone starts asking me questions non-stop like from a lexicon. Getting to know the person takes place in different situations, with conversations and presenting opinions on different topics. It is not something that happens by force, it just happens over time. Of course, you have to match the two characters and views, otherwise it won't happen.