I am 26 years old. The story is about my member. Here's a brief: I've had a girlfriend for almost 4 years, but so far I've NEVER ended up with her in any way. Hundreds of times French without a condom, over 1000 times sex without a condom, several times anal without a condom and NOTHING! Before her I had sex with companions about 10 times naturally with a condom and again no pleasure. Since I was 13 I have been addicted to porn and literally every day 365 days a year, for years I have masturbated and cummed 3-4-5 times even a day. When I tried sex for the first time I was disappointed, I said to myself if this is such a good thing, nothing ... Then I met my girlfriend, but there is no change except manual, otherwise I can not get to the end, sometimes with difficulty .. At first she wondered why it was so, what was happening to me and it was wrong, but then she shivered and got used to it, and I explained to her that the problem was in me, not in her. Until a year ago, I was proud of myself for enduring an hour or two in sex, but now I have thought about it and I feel sorry. How can I not last 2 hours and deliver numerous orgasms to her, as I do not feel or feel anything as if I am doing it through my pants .... Let me have fun to finish. Sometimes I feel pleasure, but let's say 3-4 times a month in certain poses, moods and circumstances and it is still not complete happiness and I get to 50% too far to finish. When she tells me arousing stories, I feel a rush of pleasure while I have sex, if she falls silent, it's as if I'm doing push-ups for her pleasure ... However, today I seem to have found out what one of the problems is. I put my penis under the cold water of the tap, in winter I do it with ice water from the tap and let the jet run on the head. Well, I don't feel anything, as if it was tucked into my pants. When the ice stream goes down it, I immediately react to the cold and pull away. So I can't make children in a natural way ... Someone like me
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Here is a living example of the tragic, destructive, irreparable consequences of porn! Well, it is very clear why - porn and your right hand offer you a very fast, very easily achievable and accessible pleasure - without a condom, without complications, without having to deal with someone without thinking about their pleasure. However, sex is something very different, not to say the exact opposite of what you are used to - it is above all communication, thinking about the other, exchanging energies, EXPRESSIVE MEANS OF LOVE for him ... And what did you do ? You have separated the award from the work! It's like taking a salary without working! So how would you love working in such a case? It's just pointless shaking according to you and your body ... For most normal people, the greatest pleasure in sex is not their own orgasm, and to see and feel their partner writhe with pleasure, to see the gratitude and love in his eyes, and only then do they explode with terrible force! This is not a double, but a thousandfold pleasure! And not only sexually, but also spiritually. Where is all this with you? I don't know what to advise you ... Good psychologist, sexologist and work, work, work! You have to completely destroy your current reflexes and habits, and rebuild new ones that include a partner ... You have to stop all porn and all checks! you have to teach your spoiled organism that pleasure can only be obtained as a result of a job well done. No satisfied partner - no orgasm for you! and a thousandfold pleasure! And not only sexually, but also spiritually. Where is all this with you? I don't know what to advise you ... Good psychologist, sexologist and work, work, work! You have to completely destroy your current reflexes and habits, and rebuild new ones that include a partner ... You have to stop all porn and all checks! you have to teach your spoiled organism that pleasure can only be obtained as a result of a job well done. No satisfied partner - no orgasm for you! and a thousandfold pleasure! And not only sexually, but also spiritually. Where is all this with you? I don't know what to advise you ... Good psychologist, sexologist and work, work, work! You have to completely destroy your current reflexes and habits, and rebuild new ones that include a partner ... You have to stop all porn and all checks! you have to teach your spoiled organism that pleasure can only be obtained as a result of a job well done. No satisfied partner - no orgasm for you! you have to teach your spoiled organism that pleasure can only be obtained as a result of a job well done. No satisfied partner - no orgasm for you! you have to teach your spoiled organism that pleasure can only be obtained as a result of a job well done. No satisfied partner - no orgasm for you!