Hello! I'm in 8th grade and you know, new school, new class… I befriended one who at first glance seemed decent, but over time he began to show his true face… Constantly uses me for homework and so on. n, but when I was sick he did not bother to send me the missed lessons and hid like a mouse. I'm tired of his selfishness. I have to constantly comply with him and his whims, because "he is always right" and I have no right to a personal opinion. Whenever I try to oppose him, he "insults" me as if we were in kindergarten and starts spreading various lies and rumors about me to my other friends and classmates, and the worst thing is that they believe him. And this continues until he "apologizes" to him (even though HE is the one who should do it) and until he takes the blame for everything. Today I was fed up with him, I'm tired of being his servant, in the morning something seemed interesting to me again and he behaved like a complete bird (sorry for the expression) and I think it's high time to end the friendship… The question is that I don't know how to do it without starting to attack me again and talk nonsense about me in front of others. I need advice, thanks in advance ...
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Directly, tell him you don't like the way he behaves. Don't let him manipulate, let him tell others what he wants, he does it, 'because you care, if you didn't care he wouldn't do it.