Friendship Between A Man And A Woman?

   A man and a woman can never be just friends. Maybe only if they are relatives. If a man does not want to sleep with a woman, he would never be friends with her or pay attention to her. Women don't understand that. If a woman reads this, she doesn't believe me, but she has a male friend who is not her boyfriend, let her ask him if he would like to have sex with her. Let him check. If the man does not lie, he will say he wants to. 100% of men who are in the friend zone want to have sex with their "girlfriend". Some are masochists and think that if they are patient enough, they may one day get out of this area. This, of course, will never happen.

   That is the truth, and I think so.

   You are so far behind in your reasoning that I simply have no words. With this oriental thinking you will get nowhere. I, on the other hand, will always believe that there are friendships between a man and a woman, and there is nothing strange or wrong about that. You are just lagging behind in thinking.

   Yes, for primitives who think only of their work, it is really impossible. Fortunately, there are people with higher mental activity, more developed mentality, and gender-independent emotionality. So the question is not whether it is possible or not (in principle), but FOR WHOM it is possible and for whom it is not.

   My opinion is that friendship between a man and a woman is possible. In most cases, however, it grows into something more. Haven't you noticed how infidelity happens mostly at work - it almost always starts with friendship.

   I think your problem is that you wanted to sleep with someone, you pretended to be a friend, she believed you, but in the end you didn't succeed. That's your problem. When you lie to her, that's what happens in the end. You want the woman to tell the man from the beginning that it won't happen. And can't you tell yourself from the beginning what you want. If you are silent, we will do the same.

   If you accept women only as pussies, they will make you a pussy too! someone had said. If you think that "apart from sex, she has nothing more to give you than a man" they will play you until you realize that this is not the case.

   They can be friends if one is the other way around. Otherwise how to do it? I can't understand how men go out with colleagues for coffee, as if they go out with a man to talk. Well it's not the same. One always has an attraction.

   For me, such a friendship may be possible, but in the end it comes down to sex again. It's just that the distance decreases and the urge speaks for itself. The same story is observed in every office - collegiality, collegiality, and in the end usually fuck-no. And with such as № 4 with the rich spirituality and the sublime intellectual interests, the same thing happens again, only much more disgusting than with the primitives. Because those with subtle emotionality also have genitals and think not only with their brain.

   I had a great girlfriend years ago. Really very good friendship. But the woman was quite ugly and I never had sexual desires for her. I just didn't see her as a woman, but as a man.

   Of course, there can be a real friendship between a man and a woman, but first it must go through feelings of love and sex, including. They must have consumed their relationship and if there is anything to connect them after it, they remain true friends.

   I guess it depends on the person. I have some very good male friends that we have known for more than 10 years and there has never been a hint of anything more between us. I grew up with boys, so I don't necessarily treat them as sexual objects. All of my aforementioned friends have had several boyfriends over the years, now they are all married with children, but we try to see each other at least 1-2 times a month. Their wives know me, I'm not friends with them, but I haven't felt any jealousy either. For me, you are either friends with a person and nothing more, or he is a potential partner. If I have friendly feelings for someone, I can't have anything sexual with them in any way, just excluded.

   Maybe if one is less attractive.

   Maybe for most people, I don't know. From my point of view, I tell you I have girlfriends. I would have sex with some of them, not with others, but that separates it as a feeling from everything else. I have a wife and I have only been with her for many years. You have to restrain yourself for everything, otherwise not only can you have sex with people of the opposite sex / girlfriends or not /, you can also kill someone because you don't like it. Just because you like a woman sexually, that even otherwise, doesn't mean you can't be her friend. But most men are interested in stabbing, not who a person is and being friends with him, ie. look at the benefit. Not that women don't either, but in that case, what kind of friendship are we talking about? And they so ...

   Author, plus numbers 1 and 2, are most likely young people whose hormones still don't know what they're doing. True friendship between a man and a woman is entirely possible, and it is much more beautiful than same-sex friendships. I'm 40, I'm married, but I have an infinitely good male friend. I share a lot with him, I laugh a lot, I talk a lot, I help him with everything. He responds to me with exactly the same. I have never been and will never look at it as an object for sex. That's exactly what doesn't appeal to me at all. It's the same with him. He is single and what we often discuss is how much he wants to start a family. And for all this, my husband is absolutely aware. There have even been situations where, if my husband can't be available, he makes me call this person myself. And for me he is an extremely important person.

   You are so shallow that I just have no words, but literally. In what age do you live, that you have firmly imagined that there can be no friendship between a man and a woman. I am a boy or rather a man almost / 27 years old / and I have several really close girlfriends girls - we have known some of them since we were 10. With others from the student years, our friendships are really going well. And no one thinks of sleeping with the other, out of pure respect and a desire to maintain a stable relationship that has developed over the years.

   There may be friendships, but almost always one will have at least one in mind and if given the opportunity, he will not forgive. Exceptions are cases where the man is homosexual, because if the woman is a lesbian, the man will still hope to fuck her. The desire of man to scatter his seed everywhere is such an ancient instinct that fifty years of emancipation cannot erase millions of years of evolution. For women it is a little different, because there nature encourages you to look for the best, and not everyone you meet and the unacceptable candidates can easily be included in the "friends" column. Guys, don't approach the idea of ​​making friends with someone and then taking her down after she's let you in. So you fuck yourself, show from the beginning that you have bed intentions, so as not to sink into vain hopes. Grandpa Torbalan

   Uffff, of course it's possible! Listen not to the wooden philosophers, but to those more experienced than you! F45

   I do not agree with you, author. It is true that I myself am skeptical of male-female friendship, but I myself do not fit into the conventional. My best friend is a man, we have been friends for almost 15 years, from 13 years old. He doesn't attract me sexually, nor do I attract him. He joked to me several times, "You know you're a man to me." Before anyone thinks he is a hidden gay man, he is not. He is bisexual. We went to discos together and the man there goes crazy, looking at both men and women. She yells at me: look what kind of tits she has, wow, how sexy she is, let me just look for her, uh, I'll go talk to her there ... There are other friends and I know that some of them are hoping for something more. One was even in love with him and the other made open sexual allusions to him, but he didn't like them. Really friendship with them is difficult and over time it gets quite cold. And he continues with me because he doesn't like me as a woman, nor he likes me as a man. He had several female boyfriends, I saw them and his attitude towards them was completely different from his attitude towards me. He dedicated romantic songs and gifts to them, took them here for romantic walks, wrote them messages every day such as "my love, sun, I dreamed of you all night", etc. If he had any interest in me, he would have taken advantage a long time ago. I slept in his apartment several times and he never slept in the same room with me, he went to sleep on the couch. I think the secret is that we have generally non-standard interests that we share. Author, don't think that women are only interested in make-up, magazines and fashion, that you have nothing to talk about with us. When it comes to primitive interests such as clothing and football, it is clear that such a friendship is almost impossible. But if they are both interested in things like science, art, politics, literature ... Well, in that case they can learn a lot from each other. Then they cease to be man and woman and are just two kindred spirits, two human beings. Apparently people can have a prototype for women's interests and a prototype for men's interests and they are based on that when they conclude that as friends they are incompatible. Yes but no. People are different. It is true that an awful lot of men and women have superficial interests and generally think only about eating, drinking and sex. But we are not all like that. Of course, we also think about eating, drinking and sex maybe 90% of the time.

   If they are normal, there is no way :)

   "If a man doesn't want to sleep with a woman, he would never be friends with her or pay attention to her. Women don't understand that." Uhhhh ... Another "burnt out".

   The reason that friendship between a man and a woman does not happen regularly is because true friendship is initially rare. This, combined with the different interests of the two sexes, only increases the barrier. The reason for seeking friendship instead of a relationship with someone is clear - a relationship is an engaging form of relationship that requires compromise. Friendship is not. If two people understand each other, then it is in their common benefit to maintain the status quo so that garbage such as jealousy and the like does not enter between them. If you imagine that everyone unattractive around you is secretly sharpening your saliva or you can't find anything to do with a person of the opposite sex, it's not difficult to understand why you don't have such friends.

   Torbalan again with his nature and libido nonsense.

   There are no more same-sex friendships anymore, you bisexual ones. Even same-sex friendships in the true sense of the word are rare. In general, there are very few people who become friends, and if they are of the opposite sex, there should be no attraction, which is another condition.

   How sad is it to think of libido and nature as nonsense? Grandpa Torbalan

   I know very well that my heterosexual "friends" men want to fuck me. But I have made it clear to them that nothing beyond friendship will happen between us. If they stand in the hope of ever shining on them, the problem is theirs.

   People, you forget that there are asexual women as well as asexual men. Have you read research on female and male asexuality or do you start on your own? Friendship between asexual men and asexual women is possible. Just think if there can be a friendship between an 80-year-old man and a 75.80-year-old woman. Of course you can. If they are both widowers and want to help each other, why not be friends. But you think from the age of 20 to 45 that friendship cannot or may not have amaaaaa .... Even at this age there are asexual people for one reason or another. Such people can have friendships. Yes, a sexy young man and a sexy young attractive woman cannot just have a friendship because either one / especially the man / or the other will want sexual intimacy and if he does not get it he will be harassed and this puts an end to the friendship. It's so easy to understand.

   26, they are not nonsense, but your efforts to think about them and turn them into your fixed idea. From the sides, it's a pathetic picture, because he looks like a dissatisfied impotent grandfather, feeling nostalgic for his youth, but with claims that he is still good, because he can't accept the fact that he is already impotent. Did you understand exactly what nonsense is? Whoever does it, does it and doesn't talk about it 24/7 on the forums.

   28, of course, there are deviations. If he's an impotent eunuch, and she looks like a crashed bus, the job is different, though I suspect she'll be shivering there, even without hope. Grandpa Torbalan

   Well, I have a very good friend and a nice one. We have known each other for several years and we love to go out together and visit each other. She is married, I am also married now. Like I said, she's very pretty, but I've never had sex fantasies with her. Never. So far, we've been able to fuck 100 times, and we still can. But we have no intention. Otherwise we talked to each other that if we had known each other for a long time we would have been married. Otherwise, although I like my wife very much, I constantly think about other women - colleagues, neighbors, saleswomen, friends' wives and what not. Not that I need or want to cheat, but I think. But not for her, at least not that way. We go out with her regularly, spend hours and drink beer together (she drinks almost as much as I do, and my wife doesn't). Other times it's me, her and her husband, or me, my wife and she, or the four of us, or in a larger company. But she and I are always the initiators of the gathering. My wife and husband are not even jealous when we are alone. It definitely can.

   № 29, There is no point in trying to have a conversation with that screaming stick. Just a quick look at the sodomies he writes on his blog is enough to show you what kind of "person" is behind the comment. Imagine the crazy old man from "Times and Morals", but talking about perversions like fisting and staining under the table.

   to 33, and I'm of the opinion that we should not deal with it. Man obviously has many deficits, which he tries to compensate in every possible way.

   I have a sexual desire for most girls in my social circle, but there are also those for whom I do not have one. It doesn't mean they look bad, they just don't have chemistry sometimes. I communicate with them in a friendly way. So I don't quite agree ...

   There CANNOT be friendship! I read a lot of comments from women who claim that it is possible. These are two possibilities. One type of woman who claims it is possible is unfamiliar with this type of "friendship." It has never happened to her that her "boyfriend" and husband admit their feelings for her. These men are shy and avoid talking about it so as not to make fun of them. They continue to "listen" like a puppy and wait for their girlfriend to take the first step. The other type of women are very familiar with this type of friendship. They know about such relationships and still pretend. They have a trained puppy that when they whistle to him and he runs to take care of them. Either with attention or with financial support. And I don't even talk about the third type. To go to the toilet together, to a manicure and a beautician, it's gender, not a man! Hopefully more guys, men to read your topic and realize who they are. For two fingers of meat is not worth making you a rag! Grandpa Tosho

   Friendship is a word about relationships between men. Increasingly rare already. Woman with woman, maybe in a few months. Man and woman - absurd! One gives an example of how they are just friends, and what does the other think ?! "27. I know very well that my heterosexual" friends "men want to fuck me." - almost no comment. They wanted to fuck her, but they are friends ??? !!! Why do women like to have male friends (and don't mind being screwed at them at all, on the contrary as above)? Because they keep men in the "reserve" and if their boyfriend loses them within a week, they have replaced him. That's how a lot of "walking pussies" feel. And to find "hot water" in general! These examples are millions in friendly families almost always arise other relationships. A married woman will go alone to share with a man and then she was very surprised!

   Up to 31 You spend hours with your girlfriend and your wife? Think about being away from your wife when you're at work, when you're with friends, when you're resting. It is very indicative of who we want to spend time with. In my opinion, there must first be a friendship between two people and then a family. Families based on falling in love are falling apart. Friendship is equivalent to love, and when you love you give a person, you understand him, you accept him as he is and you respect him, you take care of him, even if falling in love (sexual attraction) is over.

   There is no chance of having a friendship between a man and a woman at a younger age if they are both attractive. Mostly on the part of the man, it is difficult to endure. There will always be back thoughts, it is impossible not to want anything more, not to look at the girl's ass when getting out of his car, if she is sexy and has no back thoughts. If he doesn't want to lose her, as a friend, he will just watch and wait for a convenient moment to attack her or he will always keep her close and wait for her to like him, if he likes her more and is more primal he will turn their communication to sexual subject, but not always the woman will catch a signal that this is an incentive to something more, because women have a lot of interest from many men and they are the ones who choose, while a man when he has 1,2,3 girlfriends he looks at them, wants them and so on. A friendship between a woman and a man can only exist if when the man does not like the girl, I have one, two such cases in which I have not thought of anything else, but in no other case is impossible. If she is attractive in the face, and not so much in the body, you still have thoughts about how she will give blowjobs, if the body is cool, how you will hear it, if it is complete, you will want it for more than once, twice. Nature ... that's how men are created. Women just have a lot of choice a lot of interest and think that everything that flies is eaten, but it is not. Everyone wants something more :)) and some men do not choose thick, thin, ugly all this, the important thing is to paw well. We can't be friends with women! ONLY small small small exceptions. Like I said, I have a few, but they're still chubby, in the face, in the legs, in the ass, and I generally feel like sisters, not a sexual object,

   According to women, it can, according to men, only if it is ugly! :) But even then there are men who still have this, the important thing is to be able to swallow it whole :) roughly, but right in the heart.

   It is possible if one is the opposite, that is, the man. Otherwise I don't think so. Especially if they were boyfriends, or even kissed, but decided to be friends. So how does it work? How do you ignore attraction, and look at the other as a friend, something asexual? That's why I run at 300 km per hour, if someone only offers me friendship. One will always have back motives. I have tried such a friendship, and no one wanted to remain just my friend. There is always experience for something more, even if only for one sex.

   The topic, most of the comments and their efforts to force people not to have a friendship between a man and a woman speaks volumes about how bad we live. We are not in the 21st century, but maybe in the 16th or 17th, which is deplorable. I am almost convinced that only in Bulgaria to be good is considered a bad quality, to be friends with a person of the opposite sex is crazy and strange, and at the same time mockery, malice and impudence are tolerated. It's a pity and don't be surprised why you don't like any Western European country.

   It is very funny here how the male half spit, that if with them and the twenty or so acquaintances around them such a thing is impossible, then it is impossible at all. Finally get out of your pants and you will find that there are different people with different understandings from yours. You are funny and petrified. Then you want to be taken seriously.

   to 44 and 45 I am a man and I completely agree that such a friendship is really not possible for Ganyovets. But for a normal person it is possible. I quote the statement of the leader of the Ganyovs, thinking only with his lower head, also known as Grandpa Torbalan: "The desire of a man to scatter his seed everywhere is such an ancient instinct that fifty years of emancipation cannot erase millions of years of evolution." A typical ugly Neanderthal statement from the 15th millennium BC. and even the fact that he lives in Norway doesn't help him much at all. If you start explaining to him that evolution does not mean constantly thinking with your lower head, he will begin to explain to you how this is nature and it is normal to think with your lower head and this is out of control. Yes, it is nature, but nature does not preclude the use of the right head from time to time, and it is not said that the instinct must control you 100%. But go explain it to cavers.

   # 38, I didn't accidentally use quotes. Our relationship is friendly in terms of the fact that we have some common interests, activities and see each other, often at some common meetings. I saw their eyes, some told me directly. I cut them all at one time or another. Of course, there were men who didn't understand a word and I ended the relationship with them. That's why I say that I have no illusions that the men in my circle of friends have no sexual desires for me. But once I've told them directly where they stand, it's not my problem if they try to use "friendship" to cover up some secret aspirations. I don't keep them on a leash, I don't use them for anything, I don't deceive them. I believe that every man is responsible if he finds himself in such a position. The same goes for women who run around like a puppy.

   Here they try a lot to make themselves morally elevated, and how a woman is just a friend to them. Well, in order for someone to become your friend, he always attracted you with something, didn't he? Be it an overall look, a sense of humor, charm, kindness, or even appearance. That is, this person is nice to you with something. You can't have ever thought about what it would be like to be boyfriends, or even to sleep once. Would you make a good couple? But if the other person is not interested, you do not insist and prefer to keep him as a friend and secretly hope to take the first step, or realize that you are better than other men or women. Because you are close. Often behind the words We are just friends, there is a desire of one to be something more.

   I don't know what life experience you have, but I will disappoint you. Such a friendship is possible! Yes, it is not common, because as you say, in most cases one wants and dreams of something more, but it rarely happens. I have such a friend. We've known each other since we were teenagers, we go out, we talk for a long time, I give him advice when he has a problem with his girlfriend, he gives me advice when I have a problem with my boyfriend and so on. And we look at each other as brother and sister rather than as husband and wife. I can't even imagine having an intimate relationship with him. I will have the feeling that I am sleeping with my brother. Maybe it also makes sense that we've known each other for a long time. It's one thing to be friends with someone of the opposite sex at 25-30, it's another to meet at 12-13 and grow up together. Well, that's the case with us. For me, he will always be the boy we climbed the trees with! Not that it's been about 20 years since then. So don't be so categorical that it's completely impossible. Rarely, yes, but not impossible.

   It should start from the fact that there is a difference in the understanding of the concept of "friendship" between men and women.

   Off, when I read what some people write, I feel bad. Are you so desperately looking for someone to mate with that you are unable to see in the other person anything more than an ass / tits or a penis? Too bad, really too bad if so. I really wonder how there are people who are ready to sleep with literally everyone for the simple reason that almost every second attracts them sexually. I have noticed such a phenomenon in men and women, it is more common in men. Everyone is good for sex, as long as they are of the opposite sex. An example of absolutely primitive thinking. It is clear that we are animals, we are sexual beings, biology speaks for itself, but it does not seem normal to me that people think mainly with what is between their legs. However, we are supposed to be superior to animals, we have reason, and our lives do not revolve solely around our most primitive needs. It is not necessary for a person to be asexual or homosexual at all in order to have a normal and healthy friendship with a person of the opposite sex. - Number 48, to think what it would be like to fuck my best friend and for me it would be like having sex with my brother, that is, perverted and abnormal. As good longtime friends, we had talked about this topic a long time ago on my own initiative, preventively. It is clear to both him and me that we are good as friends and that we are not a couple. Of course, in order to have a friendship with a person, you must like that person. I will skip it because of my appearance because no decent person would choose a friend according to his appearance. True friendship is based on moral values ​​and common interests, not on any subjective beauty. - Number 43, the fact that your "friends" always had back and dark intentions does not mean that all men are like that. Maybe you weren't interested in anything else. Or maybe they were primitive and didn't have any interests to share with you, and the only thing that was possible between you was sex. I have not kissed with my friends and such a thought has never crossed my mind. But if there are people who, after a kiss or a relationship, have started a friendship without side goals, I am happy for them. What attraction are you talking about? Are you all sexually attracted to them? Did you know that sexual attraction is often up to date? That's why there are people among whom as teenagers there was some attraction, but then it faded away. It often happens with your ex, you used to like him, but after you break up and some time passes, you wonder how he took your mind. I am sexually attracted to 5% of men and 0% of women. If I don't find someone attractive since we met, I can't start liking him over time. He may be handsome, smart, charming, good ... but if I don't like him as a man, I will never see him as a potential partner. But if I meet a man who immediately seemed attractive to me, I will not be able to be friends with him precisely because I will not be able to overcome the attraction. But in my case such a thing is rare. "Number 40, by your logic only the ugly can have true friendship." If there are common interests (rarity) and sexual attraction on the one hand, a choice must be made. Either you will have sex with the person in question at the risk of getting into trouble such as jealousy, mistrust and the like and ruining your friendship, or you will choose to keep the friendship, and for sex to find another partner. Of course, this is strictly individual. I always think that a sex partner is much easier to find, a friend is not. -Number 38, I'm sad for you. Either you don't understand friendship and women at all, or you've had very bad luck in life. I wonder where he made up so much nonsense. If a woman has such behavior, then she is a complex with low self-esteem, who, on top of everything, does not know how to stand without a boyfriend and without male attention. No intelligent and self-confident woman would do that. How will you catch up with your friend a week after you end the relationship? I'm sorry, but it's ridiculous, especially if you really loved your boyfriend. Those who do so are either complexes or people who have "befriended" a person of the opposite sex while they were in a relationship. And such things happen when things are lame in a relationship and one of the two seeks attention elsewhere. Such a thing cannot be called friendship because from the very beginning friendship has been driven by other goals. - Number 37, there can be no definite friendship with you. How could you not understand that not all women are only interested in make-up, hairdressers and manicures ?! You are obviously moving in a toxic environment where women are widely used by men, they are drivers and servants, but let me explain to you that such relationships are purely exploitative and have nothing to do with friendship. I've never, ever used a male friend that way. I haven't used a boyfriend like that, let alone a friend. It would not occur to me to call a friend to accompany me to a manicure, this is a betrayal of man. I don't even call my girlfriends for such things at all, I go alone. I love makeup, manicure, clothes, hairstyles ... But there is a suitable company for everything, and if you know that you will be late, you better not waste people's time. It's cool to share a hobby with a male friend that they both like. Sports, video games, cinema, eating, dancing ... Or just go out to talk or ask for advice. People, the world is not as small as your field of vision. I am left with the impression that many of those who write here obviously as children have not played with children of the opposite sex and therefore any relationship with people of the opposite sex is limited to mating. If women as children played only with girls and dolls, it is clear that they can not understand men's interests. If men as children only got together with boys, it is normal to think that women are only interested in their appearance. Yes, Friendship between people of the opposite sex and heterosexuals is not common, but it is not impossible. And those who are lucky enough to have such a friendship know how useful, complete and irreplaceable it is. Honestly, I'm even bored with most of the girls I know, maybe my interests are more boyish and non-standard. As a kid, I played with boys, climbed trees, jumped fences, rode a bike at breakneck speed, and was a big bandit. The girls in my class made fun of me for not flirting and not playing princesses. Well, these games have never been interesting to me. And now I still do not fit into the generally accepted women's standards. Not that I'm masculine or asexual, on the contrary, I'm very feminine and when I like a man I die for him. But many of my interests diverge from those of my female friends. I have only one girlfriend who shares some of my interests. Like me, she has one or two male friends and has no sexual intentions between them.

   It's stupid to be a woman - men don't want to be your friends because they only see you as an opportunity for sex, and society is turning other women against you. So, women obviously deserve loneliness and fake relationships ... We live in a nasty world. Otherwise, author, do not forget that it is quite possible that a male friend of yours has similar back thoughts about you. Over the years, you, as young women, will find that not all "friends" want to be exactly your friends.

   №46, the comparison is ridiculous. At least as they wrote, Neanderthals painted hunting scenes in caves. It is a cultural heritage, no matter how small. Look at what that sodomite anointed, probably with his finger dipped in his soaked diaper. "All boats are huge, that's how they choose them," Kate said instructively. "Are they huge everywhere?" . And he gives reason in human relations. Imagine how many times he ate his sausage while writing about his imaginary boyfriend Tom. Of course, he can't have a friendly relationship with a woman, it won't be 5 minutes before he tastes the hot spray.

   48 - My best friend attracts me with a lot of things, but I just can't imagine sleeping with him at all. There is absolutely no sexual attraction. I can't speak for him, but I don't think I'm attracted to him either. He himself is married to a very beautiful woman. Otherwise we have many common views on life, the same interests, we help each other, we listen to each other. But I would not choose such a person as a partner - we will get bored too quickly. My boyfriend and I have great sex, we don't talk so much, we have differences of opinion, but I'm interested in him and I wouldn't replace him with another.