After reading a lot on the subject, I decided to get involved with my story. I am a mature woman, I am not infallible, but I am brave enough to endure all the consequences of my actions - where painful, where not so fundamental. provoked, so I decided that I would share my experience. I start with the fact that my conscious choice is not to maintain any contact with people from my past, they want this from me. No one appears on social networks, Skype, I have deleted phones in the moment I realized that things would not work out. At the same time, people have supposedly built relationships and everything is ok with them, but my environment is such that we see each other ... And performances begin. Some performances are like "neither ate onions, nor merisal onions" - pretends to be hit, as if nothing ever happened, at the same time, the eyes shine with brilliance. I definitely show that I have neither interest nor affinity. The other performances are intrigues of the type "I demonstratively show that I can whisper to others about you", respectively such people come to direct provocations, in your pathetic attempt to pay attention to them. What is the conclusion, dear readers Certainly quite a few of you have encountered these two if I may say so categorizations of ex-halves. You want them not to bother you and they bother you, and when you have suffered and experienced them, there were none or they were hanging out with you. or the convenience of all "but what's wrong with you" And so until the next time in which again these people violate my privacy in an attempt to contact, so supposedly "accidentally" Everyone easily gives a mind "do not pay attention" -well, but this once, twice, but when for two hours in a restaurant where we met with the former, he leaned 5 times on the table where we sat with my friends for supposed toasts, that finally to gain attention soil screams, will not strain your nerves dear readers? This happened to me a few days ago - my ex is leaning on my table and for a cover he starts screaming at me at the end ... It's good not to pay attention to him. Or from the other type - hanging out, squatting, grabbing a friend and seeing me rubbed directly in the face, or stand up so listen to what I'm talking to friends Tolerate and be tolerant dear readers is up to date and I'm sure you all agree with this I'm interested in your point of view on exes, who for some reason decided that again should to get involved in your life, especially when everything is finalized for you How do you deal with such provocations? I hope the moderators publish my story
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Hi, I also wrote on this topic here, because my relationship was on the edge, due to the fact that my wife is how to say very polite and always makes sure everyone is well. When one day I raised the issue that I don't like people to pull up a chair and even sit down, she made a commitment and it really has an effect, she got amnesia, so to speak, they came, but she most demonstratively stated that I don't remember getting to know the man in question and even one when he said angrily was how I was your first, she looked at him and told him, obviously you are wrong woman sir. So after a few attempts they started to stay away from her and we can drink our wine undisturbed by immature people.