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   If you don't do something with it, don't do it! He is not the only man left in the world. And when you tell him that you will not be pleased, he will hardly insist. Unless she is a sadist ... There is hardly a normal man who would like to force his boyfriend to do things that do not give her pleasure ...

   God, what torments. You asked him first (he could keep "respect" and not ask the question soon), and you don't mind, but will you cut him off because he didn't want others to? OMG

   There is a dose of truth. If a man loves a woman very much, does not want anal sex and French love - she to him. I notice it in many couples. We are not talking about "any feelings". I'm talking about love, respect and affection for women. Few people will understand. Especially if the woman doesn't want to, he doesn't insist if he loves her. If they both want it, that's different. In your case, he does not respect you and follows the urge. Do what you want, no matter how he feels. This is your body.

   He may be tired of being an "obedient puppy" and wanting to do what he wants to do. It doesn't matter if it's you or someone else. I mean, even if he was with another woman and not you, he would still react like that, he would still want what he didn't get before. I don't see anything wrong, the man has realized. He wants anal, he wants any - great. Better late than never :)

   I am a man of 38 and I can tell you that if a man does not get what he wants from you, he will find someone to give it to him. Don't accept my comment that you have to agree is just such a reality.

   Didn't you ask him? Dude answered you. If he is already forcing you to do it, it is different, but given that you have taken the initiative yourself, what do you expect? And it's stupid to say "obedient as a puppy" because the guy respected the desire of the women he was with when you don't want to do it, you don't do it. "I'm thinking of refusing" meaning he didn't offer you a job? Sex is done for pleasure and not out of obligation. And my girl, what he wants, believe me, is far from perverted. But it is understandable that you are still quite green in time you will learn.

   You're wrong, maybe she was smelly or incompetent anal or her ass doesn't arouse and unlike your tight cool shaped ass, you have nothing to think about if he wants a full program with you then he really wants you very much and wants you very much , rejoice in such a man and not in someone who only thinks for a month or two that he wants you to do it once and only in a retirement position.

   There is nothing perverted about oral sex. In the anal (for me personally) there is very little "perversion", which with proper hygiene can be removed. Obviously you have prejudices on the subject and instead of appreciating that your boyfriend is open and did not lie to you, you insult and irritate him. Do you want your husband to be an obedient puppy or a normal man? You may like the anal, you may not. If you don't like it, just tell him that you don't like it that much (try 1-2 more times at most). If he pushes again, then I think it would be a problem.

   At least I don't see disrespect - on the contrary. At least for me, I would only do anything with a woman I really respect. Otherwise I will certainly have reservations. More important is the question of whether (and what) you like and whether he pays attention to it. If YES, then there is no reason to interfere with the issue of respect. If NOT, you're obviously wrong, but the symptoms are definitely not that he wants a variety of sex.

   I'm not convinced he's telling you the truth. He wants to convince you to let me go behind. ж28

   There was a saying - "Woman and car - good luck, man and dog - as you teach them!": D So. You only do what you like, even though there is no place for "selfishness" in sex, and everything must be mutual! Good luck and hope you fit in! ;) M. 31g.

   I'm a man and I'll tell you - my girlfriend doesn't want to have anal sex, and that's why I go to prostitutes when I feel like it. I'm tired of winding her up, when she doesn't want to, she doesn't want to, I won't drive her by force, her. But I don't see why I should give up because of her prejudices. So, women, if you don't want your husbands to look elsewhere, let them go from time to time, and they'll be alone with you, and they'll be grateful.

   If you don't want to, don't do it, there are other men. I've never done it and no one has driven me by force, I don't like the idea and I don't see why I should do it. With all this porn and sex opportunities, normal sex is no longer interesting.

   To H 13. Come on, you don't need to give us advice, at least as far as our asses are concerned, with an apology. When it comes only to your ass - you can give it to whoever you want, to do whatever you want with him. I do not want to use my anus in a way other than its normal purpose. If he is given money to my husband for anal sex and prostitutes, give. But before that he has to make them, and when he makes them, he is not given exactly that. But to push myself, with an apology, because someone had anal sex, this will not happen.

   Until №15 Darling, you don't know us men! I am also deprived of a lot of things and I find them in prostitutes, massages or non-professionals (women who are looking for sponsorship but do not work in the industry). You know, I lose alcohol, expensive vacations and clothes, but I spend money on these things and I'm fine, I love sex and I know it won't last forever! From a married man, with an excellent education, punctual to people, etc.

   Number 17, and I tell everyone that if my boyfriend wants anal sex, I won't give it to him, but he can go to a prostitute. I will try to say it delicately. My ass is mine, my friend won't let me push something in the back like I won't give him the same, so I want understanding. If he plays a lot in the back line, let him play with others. In fact ... if he agrees to be passive in anal sex, then I would agree, but that won't happen because you're all big heterosexual men, right? The woman is much more than three openings, I am a woman, I decide what I will allow and what I will not. As a matter of fact, I have oral sex, but I wouldn't give it to a man who constantly pushes my head down. You want to have a variety of sex, but it will be even better if you know how to ask for it. The author, you asked a question and got an answer. You may not like the answer, but at least it's honest. Ask this friend of yours if he will show understanding to you as he did to his ex. He told you what he wanted in bed, and did he tell you that he wanted it at all costs and he would convince you? Honestly, he certainly wanted these things in his previous relationship, he just didn't get them and he didn't force them. I think you're exaggerating a bit, you need a more serious conversation in which you can both listen, not just talk. he simply did not receive them and did not rape them. I think you're exaggerating a bit, you need a more serious conversation in which you can both listen, not just talk. he simply did not receive them and did not rape them. I think you're exaggerating a bit, you need a more serious conversation in which you can both listen, not just talk.

   From №17 to №18 Hello, I do not mean that women are obliged for anal sex, but when you refuse normal sex and French love, in the absence of any obstacles and negative factors, you just get bored, do not care and prefer to lie down and to dig in the phone (I'm talking specifically about my wife). I do not insist or force, just by not giving me normal sex, which is normal for a couple, I look elsewhere. Please explain to me how to request normal sex and anal?

   I have a split girlfriend, and she's shy. It is divided between traditional sex and anal. We do both, but he never wants to discuss it. He says he is dying of shame, even just thinking about his desires. In my opinion, someone before me tried to develop her ass.

   Eh, girls, at my age I'm dying for an excited foal to ask me the question, front or back. I'm not worried about being split. I will let him split me again and again. ж53

   There is nothing wrong with oral love as long as it is a pleasure for both !!!! About the anal ...! I had a Turkish girlfriend, they are known to practice this type of sex, but she never wanted to, and I did not insist. But everything else we did we did with passion. He really wanted me to get circumcised, but I never decided. This is the only thing she asked of me and I didn't do it .... and I'm sorry !!!

   My wife and I didn't ask who wanted what, but things changed over time. We both don't like oral caresses. We hardly do. But we often make anal love. My wife likes her and gets very aroused.

   The girl he showed "respect" to is no longer with him, is he? You made the conclusion. She refused him and he finally left. There is a saying: "From a woman who knows how to have sex - no man has escaped" Several men wrote "When I don't get it at home - I find it outside." And of course it is. However, then there are rumors "you men are nasty pigs, you cheat, you are all the same ..." I don't know what kind of development you women expect. Your work is a little done - I will not eat you, but I will not give you. Of course, you don't have to do that, but go and tell him "Look, we don't fit in bed and I suggest we don't torment ourselves, but separate, so that everyone can look for another partner with whom they can be fine." But to limit it and think,