Hello, I'm used to mine, but I still decided to ask for an opinion anonymously. We have been married for 10 years, we have been together for 14 years and we are currently 34. My husband has problems with the attitude towards people in general, not only towards me. Even when we were 20 years old, he told me that I had wrinkles. When I went to the pharmacy to ask about creams, they laughed at me and told me to be your age, what kind of wrinkles you have. He once told me that I had hair on my arms, and because his ex-girlfriend had dumped him for insult, he told me if you wanted to dump me, what I told you sounded awful. That's how I am ... Years passed, I gave birth to a child and gained 5 kilos. The insults were constant, that I was fat, that I had lost my body. Sometimes he would tell me after we argued about something. And sometimes, for no reason, he would tell me how big my belly was. I'm not 40 kilos, but I'm not 80. We talked many times, it was getting better temporarily, but over the years it got worse. And I am no longer my first youth. At the same time, he always supports me in my endeavors, he is by my side, he is a good father and he has not stopped sleeping with me - on the contrary, we do it a lot. He is always the initiator, he wants me ... But his insults are childish, sometimes unfounded, I just can't stand them. However, we already have a child and I don't want him to grow up without a father or another man. I love my husband too, but his comments are impudent and disgusting. While I was walking with the child, not many events happened to me, different men around the child talked to me asking how big it was. One day a child's uncle probably thought I was a single mother and asked for my phone and started asking where we lived. Soon I returned to work after motherhood, however, and I had forgotten what it was like to walk around without a child and receive compliments and looks from strangers ... A doctor gave me his personal phone number; once I ate alone at lunch and a man sat next to me, he looked younger than me, he asked if he was free, he gradually spoke to me; sometimes it happens that a man looks at me a lot. These things have rarely happened to me before while I was walking with the child. Sometimes I get compliments. Is it normal for a man at home to insult you and men to watch you on the street ??? Is the job for separation ??? These things have rarely happened to me before while I was walking with the child. Sometimes I get compliments. Is it normal for a man at home to insult you and men to watch you on the street ??? Is the job for separation ??? These things have rarely happened to me before while I was walking with the child. Sometimes I get compliments. Is it normal for a man at home to insult you and men to watch you on the street ??? Is the job for separation ???
1 sweet_nini07 answered
You have married this man, you accept both good and bad. This is not an item to change because you have found a flaw in it or you want a new one.