For Young Mothers And Their Eternal Requirements

   Different people have different views and different reasoning. Take care of yourself and be well.

   This one ... what are you doing wrong with the people you work with. Egati cheeky women like you. That is given as an example.

   Haha, you don't care so much. I will only tell you that not only young mothers are like that, but in general most women who have become mothers. At least here in bg. Even from my observations, previous generations are far more disgusting. For a lifetime, they play a goat, that they gave birth and motherhood - by doing so, they manipulate anyone, including their husbands, and even their children ahead of time.

   You sound just like a vicious, envious, lonely aunt :)

   Bulgarian women are impudent, arrogant and greedy. They think they are beautiful and very smart. Alas, this is not the case, Bulgarian women are very complex and vicious, this is evident in their attitude between them.

   When you are fired one day after you announce that you are pregnant, you will squeal and shake with bad treatment.

   I wish you to become a mother and tell us exactly what to do with the child while we are at work, and he is sick and how not to really go to the party, which is during working hours and for which the child has been preparing for several months and we are his sewed the suit at night. I want you to tell me exactly how you taught the child to thank you for the fact that the other parents were there and applauded, and you did the work that is more important to you than the child. And it's best to send us a video of you giving birth between two emails or straight to a work meeting without grumbling.

   I am a father and only when you become a mother will you realize how often you have to be absent from work. Even a week in the garden you are not sure that the child will walk healthy. You just have no real idea, for example, to tell you that only since the beginning of this year I have 10 days off to look after the child. In 2017, I was the only one on 15 days off and 20 days on sick leave! Write down what you wrote and read it when you return to work from motherhood.

   When you give birth and have a child, you will sing another song.

   Take out at least one child, raise him and bring him up with the same firmness and firmness with which you are now judging, and then come back to see how much your views will overlap with the current ones.

   Honey, it's obvious you're not a mother. When you become a mother and you have to combine work with looking after a small child, you will understand what it is about. And how, when they call you from the nursery or from the kindergarten that your child has a fever, you will run and you will give up work and colleagues and everything. And then you will be offended when colleagues slander you, that "she is still absent because the child was ill." Let's see if you talk about nasty mothers again. As for student mothers, why don't you try to study for exams while you vomit? To see how much fun it is to feel sick every morning and at the same time be stressed because of a difficult exam.

   The truth is that women lied to you with "Emancipation" and Feminism, and men sold it cheap! A woman should NOT work, but take care of her family! The man must be rewarded for his work so that he can take care of his family. HOW for thousands of years, in slavery, under feudalism, happiness and love could and did exist, now, when supposedly technology, supposedly progress, parents have to work to death, their children go on the assembly line ... AND FOR WHAT ?! And you are making a career, you will remain very happy after the 40s, so if you want a millionaire in the window ... the DUMBAY desert ... :)

   When you become a mother, you will understand that the thirty levs for children that young mothers receive is not enough. And you yourself will wonder which university to enroll in and just take some money. And no .. don't tell me "since they didn't have money why they give birth" .. a person never has enough income when he has a child, let alone two.

   Number 13, nowhere does it say that the woman should be at home, not the man. But you are right that when one is at home (like a man or a woman), family life is much more harmonious and children are calmer. We've played both movies in our family, and we're definitely all better off when only one works. This, of course, will be for a while, when children turn 12 they should already be taught to look after themselves. To start a washing machine, to spread it out, to prepare something easy to eat, etc.

   So, hundreds of parasites, multiplying like cockroaches and sucking a lot of aid from the same country do not bother you as much as future Bulgarian mothers who enroll to study to take one of the few decent amounts they deserve. Do you have any idea how many Bulgarian children do not receive childcare because the income of a family member is exceeded by only a few levs. How do you know ... You don't care that thousands of officials get sick sharply in the days around the national holidays, which is also a state-run, but you see mothers with small children are the absolute evil with their absence from work. And whether it is justified or not, believe me, you can only guess. Not that I want you to experience it, but in case you get not hired because you're with a small child,

   Okay, but you're not an employer or a teacher. What confuses you how these personalities perceive young mothers? Watch your life and don't think about the others. I'm not a mother, but there are a lot of them around me and it's really not easy for them. When they go to the nursery / garden, the children start to get sick very often. They are not used to being in a social environment with more children and their immunity is not strong enough. What is the fault of one mother that another made her sick child in the garden? What is the mother's fault that her teacher called to pick up her child? What is the fault of a mother that there are many emergencies around the child and she should be able to react, even though she has her own job? And in fact, many employers are against hiring mothers. You are a woman and I am a woman, one day we will both be with a baby in our arms. Think about how you will feel, if your boss fires you or asks you to leave because your child has a temperature of 40 degrees and you had to take him to hospitals, so you were absent from work. And I've heard stories like that, I don't think it's cool at all. And for the student mothers, I am very happy for them. Women vomit, move with their big bellies in the corridors, but they continue to learn and develop. Thanks for the strength, I don't know if I would have succeeded, given that even without a baby I get nervous about exams.

   8, Those who do not have children, do we not have celebrations? Or elderly relatives? So some are still gone and others have children? We know this about celebrations and diseases. There is talk of those mothers, and there are a lot of them who are absent like that. Everyone knows that when they have children, they get sick and what not. But if we are absent for something, it becomes a horror, and don't we know that the mothers of the children are sick. We know, as they knew this when they gave birth.

   What if there is no one to look after these children, who will make your pension, have you thought about it? You may not know it, but your contributions go to current retirees. I don't know which mother can afford to be away like that, and she is already wondering which one is next. She might go to a beautician or a hairdresser and risk not letting her go when she really needs to, because she's already on the verge of it. Just a second. Didn't you have a mother, didn't you get sick? There are some people who are born, kindly thank their mother for the effort and ask her how they can be useful to her. They do not get sick and change their diapers themselves, wash their clothes from the age of two and because they are still children and freer, they cancel their mother at home and write petitions to allow them to drive a car from an early age so that they can take it after work. On a plane, they always helpfully ask others if they mind sitting next to children, then fall asleep and wake up after everyone has got off so as not to interfere. Well, you must be one of them.

   19 - We make our pensions with our labor and no one else makes them for us. Retirees do not receive pensions from our salaries, but from their work. My mother is a very responsible person. In our time, children were not so pampered and mothers so demanding.

   And don't you miss motherly care and love, since your mother preferred her job to you? Children are our first responsibility, then everything else. Simply because the other can be fixed without us, and they can't. In 2018, pension expenditures are twice as high as income from social security contributions. This means that your contributions are not enough for the current pensions, let alone something left for your one day. Think again who will replenish the fund in 40 years.

   I know that moms here will tear me apart, but I fully support the author. I'm even surprised that he shares his observations so calmly. I am infuriated by these young hens that have mutilated the precious chicken. Their impudence knows no bounds. I can even tell by the look of a woman whether she has recently given birth or not - in general, the mothers in question radiate a special kind of arrogance, which seems to say: "I popped a baby, burst with anger! It makes me great, raises me above you and all you are obliged to serve me because of my alien feat! "I hate this pose! What do I not witness every day: the kids who step on the seats in the subway with their shoes, and my mother holds them by the hand; snotty boys pee in the middle of the sidewalk under mom's flattering gaze; they always have the upper hand, everyone always has to come to their aid, they are always privileged ... and our dogs ate us because we did not deserve the high honor of raising one child at a time. At work: mothers have the advantage of vacations because "the child has to go to sea", and we push in the heat because "we have no children". If there are layoffs, it is the mothers who get away, of course, because "she has a child" and you - where you have studied and worked three times more than them - find yourself on the street. If I'm late for work, there will be sanctions, while the proud mother may not show up all day arguing that the "child is coughing" and the bosses are closing their eyes. Christmas bonuses are given priority to women with children, as if we do not need a break or to take care of our loved ones, who are not necessarily babies. I feel discriminated against by these women! No, that's pretty soft ... I'm actually mad at these women! The fact that someone has realized a certain instinct cannot engage everyone around her. Whether you breed or not is a personal choice that should not put anyone at a disadvantage in a social situation, as is the case in practice. If it was up to me, I wouldn't pay them a penny as a mother. If he wants a child to provide for his support, why should I spend money on it? !!

   22, I'm not a mother, I'm not even a woman, but I don't know where you've seen them give bonuses to mothers, take them to work as a priority, put them on leave as a priority, and put up with their delays. Strange, but my observations are exactly the opposite - in interviews they always ask if they have children or are planning children, guess why. Because every employer thinks "if she has a child, then she will be ill and she will be absent often, and she will not be able to stay extraordinarily" or "if she plans to have a child, she will go into maternity leave tomorrow and I will just waste my time to train her ". On the contrary, mothers are discriminated against en masse and cannot complain to anyone. In the United States, for example, if one allows oneself to discriminate against one's mother, such a court will find that the world will be overwhelmed. I know of many such cases. That is why mothers / pregnant women are hired en masse there for fear of being judged. So there, if a pregnant woman is looking for a job, I guarantee that she will be hired at the first interview. And there would be a reason for people to grumble, but here definitely not. Here you know that everything is the other way around - the worse the sellers treat the customers, the more customers they have, the same goes for men and women, mothers are discriminated against, the most corrupt politicians are the most elected, buy a background and then one thinks of eating, the simpler you are, the more successful and respectful you are, all the other way around.

   22 said it very accurately.

   It's difficult. I worked as a manager of a small shop, there were three of us in total and we took turns. One colleague had just returned from maternity leave and was actually constantly in hospital. We both pushed as if for four (the fourth piece was unoccupied). We were really told the game from work. We showed understanding, there is no way the child can stay sick. I even stood up for my colleague in front of the regional, who had raised her sights. But it was getting harder. I talked to her seriously, explained to her how difficult it was for just the two of us, and asked her to look for a solution. I gently hinted to her that frequent absences would affect the distribution of bonuses. And I must admit that he found a way. She agreed with her husband and mother to take turns in the hospital when necessary. And December, when it was at its peak, left the sick child to the grandmother. There are ways but the woman was really understood. So, I understand the author, it's really hard to work with young mothers. But we are human and we have to help each other. Children are still the future of Bulgaria.

   22, you scored a lot. Well, "izakai" and you 1-2 and your problem is solved. My dear - discriminated, damaged, underestimated ... a "mommy"

   22, don't let that tale of sour grapes turn out to be with you .... Because when I look at how much malice springs from you towards these women, don't let it turn out that you want to be in their place, but there is no one ...

   To 22: I have witnessed how in our company women with children are unwanted employees for exactly the reasons you described. For my department I liked 2 such chicks - super suitable for the positions. When I gave them the profile of my boss, the CEO (the final approval is made by him) told me to hire a young man of 25, because they looked like two. He does not want to hear about a woman with a child (and he is actually a Swede, where women are supposed to be the most emancipated and such behavior is interpreted as discrimination). Otherwise, I am annoyed, but mostly by the gender behavior of such young parents. What will happen if their child does not drive to school, for example, but goes on the flight? I live next to school and such mothers make a huge traffic jam in the morning, not to mention that they are incompetent drivers. I have to get out an hour early to walk down the street before them.

   And who is to blame for you not having children? Raising a child is work that is beneficial for the whole society, that is why the society supports the children and their parents. Otherwise, schools, kindergartens, playgrounds would be only private, there would be no paid maternity and discounts everywhere for children. You just don't understand it yet, so you're upset. But you also benefit from those children you haven't given birth to (just ask a few women to see how super easy it is to carry and give birth) and don't raise (ask about it: how much does it cost in terms of time, energy, money).

   29 - children are just your problem and benefit. I will gain nothing from them. The pension system has not been working for a long time and we will be very lucky to even get social pensions. Your child should pay the most to those from the neighborhood. So no one has to put up with you. Everyone has equal rights and obligations. You are the one who did not understand that children nowadays are a luxury that not everyone can afford. We have not signed a contract to feed "working" mothers.

   Who here claims that babysitting is an easy job? Precisely because it is difficult, not everyone decides to take it as a responsibility. But the choice is personal, as are the birth, the care, the energy, the money, and so on. While some women look after babies, others do other things that are also "useful to the whole society", but do not beat the drum in front of the line and do not expect everyone to trump them. Young mothers behave like laying hens that have just laid an egg, which they have to crack so that the deaf can hear. Even the fact that you have united around the position that a woman who has not given birth is a kind of second-class man and secretly envies God's elect, whose eggs have been properly fertilized, speaks volumes.

   31, get rid of this PERSONAL perception of yourself that you are not worth it. It's like there's some pressure on you, maybe from a cousin, a mother and an older sister, I don't know. Watch your life, HERE surely no one is wrong with you. You transfer something from real life to the virtual. Neither mothers nor children are what you struggle with. Tell the family that you will not have children, get used to it and shut their mouths. Fight your real problems, otherwise you will be stuck in one place.

   Feminism in action

   I think 32 may be right about 31, but 31 is certainly right about everything he says. As well as comment3 is super accurate!

   That's right, mothers get special treatment because they risk their body, their health and their professional development in order for the society and the country in which you live to continue to exist. We as a society recognize that they do not receive enough formal support and we agree to compensate them in informal ways as a token of gratitude. And now a tangent: there will always be more beautiful, better, more learned, sexier, more successful, more attractive, etc., etc. people than you. Instead of wasting mental energy on envy, sorry, you "criticize" each group and individually be proud and shine with some of your personal achievements?

   At 65 Lady, working SEO, 2 grown children and grandchildren. PhD. Envy of others is a bad feeling, it does not bring positives. I prefer women with children, especially a single mother, with equal other conditions. Much more creative, responsible and able to work. They do not whine, they do not complain, they are used to working under pressure. I don't take old maidens, the character is unsuitable for teamwork, careerist without cover, without a desire to take on responsibilities. And each of them secretly hopes for the prince, etc. Why do you envy pregnant students and mothers? Did your money or positions take up? Children and grandchildren are joy and difficulty, happiness and care. I haven't looked after my grandchildren, I paid a retired teacher for an assistant, but I see a lot of older people helping their grandchildren.

   Madam, it is natural and logical that you will take those who are most vigilant about the salary you offer ;-) Come on, I will not explain why, and surely everyone understands. And we Creatives work for ourselves and / or for / abroad :-)

   36 - there is no such thing as an SEO in retrograde Bulgaria. I guess I'm a communist protégé, without any managerial skills, so let's call you "comrade-overseer" for short. If she were a real SEO, she would at least read the Law on Protection against Discrimination, Art. 4. (1) and to know that discrimination based on marital status is subject to jurisdiction. Since I have been an SOO for 22 years (only abroad, where whether my grandfather had a membership in the Bulgarian Communist Party does not matter at all), I can tell you that it is illegal to even ask in an interview if the person is married and if he has children. Maybe in Bulgaria no one is still claiming their rights and this explains how you manage to "drain" the so-called "old girls". For me personally, it doesn't matter if a person is single, married, divorced, with 1 or a hundred children. It is important to be able to do the job, for which he is hired and to comply with the laws, ethics and internal rules of the company. Up to 35 - the last thing expectant mothers thought about when they tried to conceive was the good of society and the state, so your comment is manipulative. You risked your body for your own selfish reasons and in general - whether you have children should not affect your work responsibilities. The very fact that you expect a special attitude shows that you think that someone owes you. I strongly hope that you do not raise your child in similar "values". You risked your body for your own selfish reasons and in general - whether you have children should not affect your work responsibilities. The very fact that you expect a special attitude shows that you think that someone owes you. I strongly hope that you do not raise your child in similar "values". You risked your body for your own selfish reasons and in general - whether you have children should not affect your work responsibilities. The very fact that you expect a special attitude shows that you think that someone owes you. I strongly hope that you do not raise your child in similar "values".

   Come to think of it, 36 is not a lady at all, but a grandfather who only posts various stupid topics in the family section, posing as different women: Topic for the family - up to everyone over 50-60 years old. Unexpected pregnancy. I am expecting my 3rd child. Why do they have so many children? Should I give birth to a second child? Besides, everyone whines where her number goes, whether she's a mother or not. This is my objective female opinion.

   Because if you are stupid, you have moved to 19, with no prospects for the next 2 decades, then the world owes you. At least that's what moms imagine.

   Basi how much malice gathered in one place .... Does anyone here know very well what is the situation of a mother with a small child / children? Does she have any idea what it is like for her in completely normal everyday situations in public transport, for example, on the street or in the crowd in a hypermarket or mall? Is she aware that only a moment of inattention can cost her child's life. Not to mention dangerous situations in natural disasters such as floods, fires and more. or war. A mother with a small child / children is difficult to move, cannot escape, cannot swim, cannot defend herself or would even find it difficult to hide. Left alone in such a situation, she is completely defenseless and usually chooses to abandon her children or die with them. Therefore, since the dawn of time, it has been the duty of every man to protect women and children - his or those in his community at the cost of his life if it is NECESSARY. There are countless examples, whole armies have fought completely suicidal battles to provide time and a corridor for civilians (mainly women and children) to escape, pilots have crashed their planes into enemy bombers just to keep them from letting go. the bombs over their cities. That is why to this day the attitude of the whole society towards these mothers with small children is such, no matter how incomprehensible to you the "modern people of the 21st century" are, who think that everything begins and ends with your precious priceless buttocks. We understand that you do not want children because of your "philosophical views", but you continue to impose your distorted understandings on us,

   41 - we do not impose our understandings. However, we expect everyone to be treated equally in terms of workplace requirements. I don't care what mothers risk every day. We did not make you give birth, it is your decision and we are not obliged to take the risks. You are spoiled and impudent. Our great-grandmothers once not only looked after several babies and small children, but also worked on an equal footing with the men, that the whole house weighed on their hands. Now, you see, it's very dangerous for mothers to even travel on public transport or go to the mall because they can be trampled by the crowd, and because they take such big risks, we have to do their job in the office, and they just to look after their children and take money. Logically.

   Ok, honey, we stop giving birth, we don't need such criticism and we will save it. And now tell me, in 2069, when your heart catches you, who will drive the ambulance or the taxi to the hospital? Maybe other grandmothers like you? Because if we don't give birth (why bother to watch them, even if they spit on us at work), you will remain grandmothers and some grandfather here and there. And even if you teleport to the intensive care unit, who will receive you there? Some old sister, maybe. Who will bake your bread? Alone? Who will plow your fields, who will milk your cows, who will make your prostheses? You must be right that you have no use for OUR children.

   n.42, why did you decide that I was a woman? I also work and pay taxes, which I prefer to go to support young mothers than to various gypsies, unemployed sloths and the like. In my opinion, assistance in giving birth to a first child should be not only for mothers-students, but also for all women who have completed at least secondary education. Now let's say you're right, it's stupid to have children, it doesn't make sense and so on. Everyone comes to this conclusion and let's assume that after your only and unique appearance in this world, no one wants to have more children. What's next - in 20-30 years when today's young children will be active workers there will simply be no one to work. Your precious priceless and unique asses will be torn irretrievably, even if you have all the money in the world, there will be nothing to buy and no one to work against them. After another 10-20 years, you will be left with only desolate and smelly old men, dripping without anyone to look at you. You can see a scale model of such a society in any declining village in the far corners of the country. So, dear geniuses, it is your job to have or not to have children, but at least learn to respect those for whom society will continue to function, because you will also benefit from not even realizing it at the moment. of 41 but at least learn to respect those for whom society will continue to function, because you will also benefit from not even realizing it at the moment. of 41 but at least learn to respect those for whom society will continue to function, because you will also benefit from not even realizing it at the moment. of 41

   43 - by 2069 everything will be robotic and neither the ambulance driver nor the doctor will be human. You don't worry about me. 49 - don't put words in my mouth. I personally have nothing against children. Who wants to give birth to them. But I don't see why I should take off my mother's hat for satisfying one of my instincts. They don't care about society at all, the decision to have children comes mostly from family pressure or fear of loneliness (helplessness). Hypocrisy to the neck.

   Well, then I will raise my children to say "we did not sign to support useless old people" and to want what they have done, and not to deduct them for pensions and health care, which the old people enjoy the most. You are much more dear to the taxpayer than any working parent and any learning parent. Compared to them, for us you are an investment with no return. I just don't know who will invent, design and implement these robots. But I'm sure that their claims will irritate you too :)

   And at one time they were the same mothers, not to justify themselves to me with time. I will not forget the big queues for bananas that I was waiting for, and in front of the great mothers they passed ONE AND THE SAME BOY to each other and lined up and took them. They didn't even hide, they could go around the corner and transfer the boy there, at least for those of us waiting not to see. But no no, why will they hide, they are MOTHERS. Mothers were people, the ground split beneath them as they walked, hey, this is no joke.

   50, well, this "robotic" people do it. :) 42, the fact that they do not treat you properly at work is not the fault of young (and not so young) mothers with small children. Why are you angry with them? In general, in Bulgaria the labor legislation (as well as many others) is not the most observed. The employer is looking to hire 5 people, to do 50 jobs for him, and you blame the mothers! Logic-0. There are companies and they do not give leave to their employees and are the mothers to blame for that ... Not to mention bigger abuses, the gray economy, illegal dismissals, increased working hours (illegal, of course), etc. As it started, tomorrow I expect a topic for workers with disability rates ... because in some respects they also benefit from the law (IF COMPLIED) And if you miss "one time" - give birth on the borders,

   Until №38 №35 here, I did not try to conceive, nor did I risk my body for the simple reason that I am a man. So, I do not expect a special attitude, but I GIVE it. №41 rightly pointed out the evolutionary advantage of protecting women and children in the tribe at all costs, one man is enough to restore the population. And you keep fighting for the Darwin Prize.

   "and when I become a mother I will try not to be part of my mentality." - selfishness overtook you early on, young mothers must be taken care of, otherwise Bulgaria will not have it! And this care must be from the state, everything must be provided to them so that they and their children are calm. There is no money for mothers, and billions will be poured for useless flying cans !? Who will they protect with these planes when there are no people left in Bulgaria? Instead of the state making free kindergartens, they spend money on tin cans, so young people are running away!

   №20, and who will work to create living conditions for you? Apparently you are still green and do not know the social security system. There must be exactly working young people in order to have pensions over time. Such cannot be explained, because you are still underdeveloped!