For The So-called "motivation" And Only I Am Annoyed By Such Opinions

   I think difficulties teach us. You are somewhat right, but not necessarily. It is up to you what you will achieve. Yes ... It is easier for some, but there are also large drones of rich people. And it matters more whether you're from a big city or not than whether you were poor or rich. The environment changes man. Her head is up!

   It's a bit like that joke to me - you looked, you looked, but you didn't see. The advantage of being born into a relatively poor family, in which you still lack nothing basic, is not "motivation". Although some use the deprivations they have endured to motivate themselves. The advantage is usually that you learn that money does not fall from the sky, what are the important things in life and it is that for one reason or another such children have to "mature" earlier and emotionally and physically most often. And no, it doesn't matter what talents you have for whether you succeed or not. Talents in "modern" society develop if you can make money from them. That's why there are almost no writers, artists, etc. as in the Renaissance, for example, with some commercialized exceptions. So in that line of thinking, people who don't have money, they are looking to develop whatever talent they have much more purposefully than someone whose money falls from the "sky" (mom and dad usually). And there is a serious confusion in the beginning - that many people think that talent is enough in itself. No matter what talent and in what field a person has, without constant WORK on maintaining and improving it, nothing happens. And that has nothing to do with money. There is a simple and very true cliché - If you have a desire, you find a way. If you don't, you find an excuse. So no matter what family you were born into, if you want to succeed in life, you will have to break your ass from work and develop and apply the respective talent that you have. Naturally, higher material abilities give more opportunities with less stress. But in the end, the equal start is the illusion of communism, because of which it no longer exists, but that is another matter. With the doctrine and the "bison" the topic is basically the same, but exactly from the opposite point of view. The fact that you have done what is necessary to lay the groundwork for a possible good future in no way guarantees you that future. Just as having money from mom and dad does not guarantee that this money will last a lifetime, nor that everything will be settled for you while you are alive. To succeed, you need to find the right environment and the right way, and sometimes a certain amount of luck, to apply the acquired knowledge and skills. And no one will do it for you. The problem, however, is that apparently you have failed to realize the important things in life in a poor family, nor to do what is necessary to realize your knowledge and skills. If you have ever acquired such that there is often a huge difference between a "bison" and a capable person. Otherwise, generalizations are more likely to be something you missed in math class, obviously like a lot of girls who hate "generalizations." The fact that something happens in 70-80% (certainly over 50%) of the cases gives you the right to generalize that it is more possible in general. And that there is always an exception to every rule is a completely different topic. But it is your job to determine whether you are part of the rule or part of the exceptions. The fact that something happens in 70-80% (certainly over 50%) of the cases gives you the right to generalize that it is more possible in general. And that there is always an exception to every rule is a completely different topic. But it is your job to determine whether you are part of the rule or part of the exceptions. The fact that something happens in 70-80% (certainly over 50%) of the cases gives you the right to generalize that it is more possible in general. And that there is always an exception to every rule is a completely different topic. But it is your job to determine whether you are part of the rule or part of the exceptions.

   After the liberation of Bulgaria and until 1990, generations have grown up in poverty. However, this did not prevent the people of this land from building an independent, united and prosperous Principality by 1908. By 1939 Kingdom with convertible currency. Then the People's Republic until 1990, educated its population to a degree and hitherto unattainable for other countries and our current Republic. Everything that is seen around you is the result of the activity of materially poor people. The only window to the world for such was and remains the BOOK. Only books develop well those without innate talent, not phones, branded clothing and television. Only books can ignite curiosity, curiosity, and reverse “the destiny of man.” There is such a book with such a title, which is why they call it fiction. words and events from all past, present and future times are described in words. The books made Georgi Ivanov the Bulgarian Gagarin. Captain Georgi Georgiev, the Bulgarian Magellan, and many others, including myself, are what we are. Those born after 1990 cannot even read and write normally, so the MATRIX wished. They are in those platforms that profane and debilitate the majority of unread books. Books with exciting and inspiring content. Giving dreams and wings to the poor material but searching person with spirit and soul. One can be poor and shine and very rich and thin. God gives, but does not put in the fold. Follow your thoughts before they become words. Follow your words before they act. Follow your actions before they become habits. Follow your habits before they become your character. Follow your character, before it becomes your destiny. We become what we think. HONOR YOUR PARENTS AND THOSE GRADUATES WITHOUT Google! Thank you for your thoughts, they encouraged me to leave my above thoughts on paper. Only the written word remains for others.

   I will express my opinion as a bison who grew up as a poor child and is now in a leading position. You are right that most children cannot be so emotionally mature, although there are children who are more naughty by birth and are designed to motivate problems. But it is true that in most cases the motivation does not come in childhood, but when you see your chance. For me, village life and misery motivated me. I was made to work in the fields as a child, and I realized at a very early age that this was not for me. When I thought about it, I realized that I had to put a lot of emphasis on learning, going to the city, graduating from an elite high school, then higher, because the other alternative was a lifetime of digging tomatoes. Not that there's anything wrong with that, but I definitely didn't feel like my life. And the thought that I might not be able to leave the village terrified me. And this horror, as much as it bothered me, motivated me to leave, no matter how much I was a child. Because when my mother took me to the greenhouse to pick tomatoes, it was 50 degrees and I was bitten by 50 mosquitoes at a time and the bite was terrible. As I stirred the lyutenitsa against the intense fire of the already unbearable summer heat, I dreamed that one day I would do a normal job in a cool, chair with clean clothes. Every second word from my father was that I was useless, too sensitive, and would clean toilets for the rest of my life. My mother was already complaining about how bad people were. And all this, even though I was a child, made me think that I should get out of there in an hour. And I couldn't wait to finish seventh grade, and the rest is history. In my opinion, the motivation is not in poverty or wealth, but in the attitude. Because poverty demotivates some people and motivates others. Wealth motivates some people and demotivates others. But some people are motivated by birth. Poverty motivates them, wealth also motivates them. There are people, on the other hand, who find their wealth demotivating, because they de facto have nothing to strive for, then everything is already provided for them. Of course, both parents and the environment have their role, but in my opinion the main part is innate. Every child is born with its own individuality. But I want to make one clarification. The motivation is not to cling to a desire and make it a fixed idea. For motivation to be useful, you need to be able to release yourself emotionally from your dream. Ie to find the balance in which you both want it and you are not too blocked and fixed by this desire, because otherwise the opposite effect occurs. Instead of moving, you despair about how you have nothing and how difficult it is, and how much you want it. And that's exactly what you're talking about - you're demotivated instead of motivated. You fall into ugly emotional states that are not useful to anyone. That is why I said that it is more a matter of adjustment than of circumstances, without underestimating the latter. Keep in mind that no great success has come served on a baking sheet. Everyone who has achieved something has gone through all sorts of difficulties. It doesn't happen like that - everything is OK for you, you just have to work and make it happen. There are always difficulties in the process of work - whether lack of money, whether poisonous parents, whether injustices, whether something else. I read that the majority of today's billionaires did not inherit their money from their parents, but made it themselves, and many of them were quite poor. I have not become rich, but against the background of the family I came from, I think I have reached a decent level. Many successful writers have toured hundreds of publishers until they can convince someone that their book is worth it. Do you realize what it is like to be rejected by, say, 100 publishers and convinced that you are not worth a writer, and that you are desperate to publish a book? No one splits the basma on anyone or strokes it with a pepper. That is why we must learn to calm ourselves, to appreciate ourselves, to accept ourselves, to brag, to encourage ourselves. Others rarely do it for us. Do you realize what it's like to be rejected by, say, 100 publishers and convinced that you're not worth it as a writer, and you're desperate to publish a book? No one splits the basma on anyone or strokes it with a pepper. That is why we must learn to calm down, to appreciate ourselves, to accept ourselves, to brag, to encourage ourselves. Others rarely do it for us. Do you realize what it is like to be rejected by, say, 100 publishers and convinced that you are not worth a writer, and that you are desperate to publish a book? No one splits the basma on anyone or strokes it with a pepper. That is why we must learn to calm down, to appreciate ourselves, to accept ourselves, to brag, to encourage ourselves. Others rarely do it for us.

   This is modern nonsense. To say you come from a "poor, humble but good family" is the new black. It's kind of an attempt to show that you're more because you started with less. If Ivan has a salary of BGN 3,000, then Pesho wants to show that he is better than Ivan, because you see - Ivan grew up in a two-storey house in a big one, they had two cars, when he was at the university he didn't have to work, and Pesho , in a small town, in a small house or apartment, had no money for a PlayStation, he had to work while studying. His tragic origins made his life so difficult that he made much more effort to reach Ivan's level. Ie - Pesho is more motivated, you can and in general he is a better human being, unlike Ivan, who is far from people, lazy and bad. And some people just overdo it. Now every second person was harassed, beaten, raped, even sexually assaulted people got drunk. It is fashionable to be a victim. As a victim, you almost have an excuse for all your problems. He didn't know that - because he was a victim and didn't have time. He had a file - he sold weed to feed his little sister, but these are already hepatic distorted cases. And with every modern thing, we have to promote it and highlight its good sides. The poor are more motivated, more human, more deserving, more knowledgeable, more aware ... That is, when you don't have much to be more, you always show your tragic origin. Like everything today, the important thing is to be modest and to succeed in the face of others, in a modest way. You are rich, drone, ungrateful - I am poor, hardworking, able, a better human being! Two tips - Don't be a victim! Circumstances turn you into a victim, but your choice and will decide whether you will remain a victim. And don't fight in your chest for doing more than others. It's a pity. Don't apologize! I was depressed, I worked in 3 places, I didn't have time for anything, I had health problems, but I tightened my ass and managed my wasteful life. It was all an excuse not to do anything more. I hated the things around me, I told myself that because of various tragedies everything is like that. Um, yes, but at some point you either tighten up and correct your mistakes, or you're stuck where you are, but you say it's good because it was much harder for you. It is! Everyone has problems. Someone's problems are far more severe. Some people find it easier. Life is not a race. It's good to play your watch against others, but it's not good to be an arrogant narcissist who is just looking for a new angle to show off as something more. Good day! that you have done more than others. It's a pity. Don't apologize! I was depressed, I worked in 3 places, I didn't have time for anything, I had health problems, but I tightened my ass and managed my wasteful life. It was all an excuse not to do anything more. I hated the things around me, I told myself that because of various tragedies everything is like that. Um, yes, but at some point you either tighten up and correct your mistakes, or you're stuck where you are, but you say it's good because it was much harder for you. It is! Everyone has problems. Someone's problems are far more severe. Some people find it easier. Life is not a race. It's good to play your watch against others, but it's not good to be an arrogant narcissist who is just looking for a new angle to show off as something more. Good day! that you have done more than others. It's a pity. Don't apologize! I was depressed, I worked in 3 places, I didn't have time for anything, I had health problems, but I tightened my ass and managed my wasteful life. It was all an excuse not to do anything more. I hated the things around me, I said to myself that because of various tragedies everything is like that. Um, yes, but at some point you either tighten up and correct your mistakes, or you're stuck where you are, but you say it's good because it was much harder for you. It is! Everyone has problems. Someone's problems are far more severe. Some people find it easier. Life is not a race. It's good to play your watch against others, but it's not good to be an arrogant narcissist who is just looking for a new angle to show off as something more. Good day! I worked in 3 places, I didn't have time for anything, I had health problems, but I tightened my ass and managed my wasteful life. It was all an excuse not to do anything more. I hated the things around me, I told myself that because of various tragedies everything is like that. Um, of course, yes, but at some point you either tighten up and correct your mistakes, or you're stuck where you are, but you say it's okay because it's been a lot harder for you. It is! Everyone has problems. Someone's problems are far more severe. Some people find it easier. Life is not a race. It's good to play your watch against others, but it's not good to be an arrogant narcissist who is just looking for a new angle to show off as something more. Good day! I worked in 3 places, I didn't have time for anything, I had health problems, but I tightened my ass and managed my wasteful life. It was all an excuse not to do anything more. I hated the things around me, I told myself that because of various tragedies everything is like that. Um, yes, but at some point you either tighten up and correct your mistakes, or you're stuck where you are, but you say it's good because it was much harder for you. It is! Everyone has problems. Someone's problems are far more severe. Some people find it easier. Life is not a race. It's good to play your watch against others, but it's not good to be an arrogant narcissist who is just looking for a new angle to show off as something more. Good day! so as not to do anything more. I hated the things around me, I said to myself that because of various tragedies everything is like that. Um, yes, but at some point you either tighten up and correct your mistakes, or you're stuck where you are, but you say it's good because it was much harder for you. It is! Everyone has problems. Someone's problems are far more severe. Some people find it easier. Life is not a race. It's good to play your watch against others, but it's not good to be an arrogant narcissist who is just looking for a new angle to show off as something more. Good day! so as not to do anything more. I hated the things around me, I said to myself that because of various tragedies everything is like that. Um, yes, but at some point you either tighten up and correct your mistakes, or you're stuck where you are, but you say it's good because it was much harder for you. It is! Everyone has problems. Someone's problems are far more severe. Some people find it easier. Life is not a race. It's good to play your watch against others, but it's not good to be an arrogant narcissist who is just looking for a new angle to show off as something more. Good day! Some people find it easier. Life is not a race. It's good to play your watch against others, but it's not good to be an arrogant narcissist who is just looking for a new angle to show off as something more. Good day! Some people find it easier. Life is not a race. It's good to play your watch against others, but it's not good to be an arrogant narcissist who is just looking for a new angle to show off as something more. Good day!

   I don't think that children born into poor families have free motivation. Motivation is something that comes from a person, it appears with the presence of dreams, it is an inner feeling and does not depend so much on external factors. My family was not rich. Did that motivate me, no, not at all. However, I have always loved to paint. We didn't have money for materials, so I painted with a ballpoint pen. I have a lot of sketches made with chemicals on crumpled sheets, the back of which is an old work schedule. My pencils were so hard that I would say they were H, not even HB. I also have a lot of sketches made with inappropriate pencils. Once, I was small and not proud, but I argued with my mother that she neither enrolled me in drawing lessons nor bought me materials. I'm really not proud, I'm very angry that I didn't have the consciousness of an adult then, to keep my tongue behind my teeth and not hurt my mother that way. She answered me, told me that I was ungrateful, that nothing came for free, and that if I thought I had talent, I would manage one way or another. The same day I watched tutorial videos on YouTube. Then I drew my first realistic eye. For the next few weeks, I painted only my eyes. Every break I drew on the back of my notebook. I was so obsessed with it ... I started researching different materials, prices and so on on my own. I collected from my own pockets, but realized that this was not an offer. That's why I studied so much that I was entitled to a scholarship. And without that, my classmates told me that I was a bison, so at least there would be some plus for me. I stopped caring that they were insulting me. After a while I bought the first charcoal pencil, they are not so expensive, but in the eyes of a child they were not cheap, because these are a few snacks. There is no such joy! I guarantee you, if there was a way, I would fly. So I started saving and buying materials. I used libraries to read books or borrow from friends. Then I started downloading books online. I have participated in various Erasmus projects, I have participated in Olympiads and competitions from school and more. Why? Because I liked the subject, because I wanted to receive a prize, because I wanted to travel, because I was offered participation. I don't know for sure, but it gave me some pleasure. So I met a lot of children who look a bit like me, I did extracurricular activities for them. My motivation was not that my parents did not have the financial means. My motivation just always existed somewhere under my skin, something always made me want more and more of myself. My parents didn't have the money to pave the way - money for private lessons, for courses, for this or that that would be helpful. They just stood next to me and explained to me that if I wanted something, I had to do it in spite of everything, not with help from somewhere. I was told that they believed in me. It was a huge thing in my eyes, because I myself rarely believed in myself. I was motivated, that's all. I knew that in order to get good grades at the prom, I had to do it on my own. I didn't take lessons, but I got higher grades than some of my classmates who took lessons. How? I learned each lesson on time, and finally took a week to negotiate everything. I had a lot of notes, nothing is too difficult if you make the right effort when you have to, not at the last minute. I haven't moved mountains and I haven't done anything impossible, I just had dreams and there was no option to give them up. Today I am nothing more than my former classmates, some of whom harassed me for my clothes and appearance. Around 11-12 grade I made friends with most of them. Whether they gave me a chance or I stopped thinking negatively about them is uncertain. I am not their boss to date and I will probably never be. I entered a specialty that is not easy, but I wanted to study. If they have achieved more, great. If they have achieved less, it is still not bad, because they have time to overtake me. I am not interested in other people's lives to such an extent, I am only interested in following a path that I have chosen myself and I like. I stopped hating, I started to forgive, I learned not to compare myself with anyone and to work with what is available. That's how life is. If a man swallows his ego,

   I come from a rich family. And in high school I was a squirrel. Ah, how I want to realize what I have before I finish school. Now I study at the university and work. I always had what I wanted. I broke phones in a row, I changed 11 in 6 months (while I was in high school). Before my 14th year, however, almost nothing was taken from me. After that, things became casual. Why was I squatting? Out of over-satisfaction. I had no motivation for anything, I got enough grades to have something there. I slept all day, I went out. Somewhere when I turned 15, my pockets became BGN 10 a day. And there were 10 because I was already a smoker. And what can my dear mother do, of course, that she will reconcile with her disobedient daughter and give her money for cigarettes. I watched my girlfriends manage to get cigarettes, food, and something to drink at 2, 50 a day, and I wondered. However, when I fell into the drug trap, because of bad company, I learned how they did it. I didn't eat for days to save money. Thank God, I got away with it, but saving it has remained a habit to this day. I would very much like to go back in time. My family was perfect for a child. Every day hot food, and quality, warm blankets, clean, calm. 2 parents who love each other. I just had to study. But no, I was depressed because I had everything, I had no motivation, and because I thought everything was on my plate, I went to "conquer new heights", and my mother just wanted to make me human, not to live as poor as she used to. I've explained to her millions of times how sorry I am. Now they offer me money for the unit, but I do not accept it. They left me property and all sorts of things. I don't care anymore, I want to build my own life. I'm staying in my hometown, although I have nowhere to go. Not everyone is like me, most kids would appreciate what they have on time, I guess. I didn't do it, and now I'm starting over. Therefore, neither the rich family nor the poor determine whether you will be motivated to be something in the future or not. They just pushed me to go to university because I didn't want to then, and like a magic wand, things changed. I realized many things, I had the motivation to study, to study, to study, to have a good profession, to build my future. I already appreciate my family and I am infinitely grateful to my parents for not leaving me without anything, neither hungry, nor thirsty, nor freezing, and even something more. determines whether you will have the motivation to be something in the future or not. They just pushed me to go to university because I didn't want to then, and like a magic wand, things changed. I realized many things, I had the motivation to study, to study, to study, to have a good profession, to build my future. I already appreciate my family and I am infinitely grateful to my parents for not leaving me without anything, neither hungry, nor thirsty, nor freezing, and even something more. determines whether you will have the motivation to be something in the future or not. They just pushed me to go to university because I didn't want to then, and like a magic wand, things changed. I realized many things, I had the motivation to study, to study, to study, to have a good profession, to build my future. I already appreciate my family and I am infinitely grateful to my parents for not leaving me without anything, neither hungry, nor thirsty, nor freezing, and even something more.