We have been living together for 3 years. At first in dormitories, student dormitories, but for 1 year now we have been living in his hometown, not in dormitories, and on our own. He likes to invite his / her friend / s, for which we have certain contradictions. I will directly share examples from these days, which are otherwise nothing new. The other day, I was making dinner, it was about 9 pm and he told me that he would invite a friend. I frowned and told him that dinner was for two people, I would have to give up part of my dinner just because he wanted to. And I'm pregnant by the way in the first few weeks, by the way, and I feel almost constantly hungry even after eating sometimes. The other thing that would happen was hanging on the table at least until midnight because of the guest. As it turns out, I don't want to make these compromises, especially since he didn't warn me about it. We have dinner in the room where we sleep, because we only heat this room, so I wouldn't go to another room. Well, he complied, but he threatened me with something like 'You'll see why I didn't call him because of you', and I asked him what he meant - when the time came I would find out. Even if he just said it like that, I didn't feel well, because it happened that out of nowhere he served me a hint. By the way, I told him: invite him tomorrow, I'll just clean up, I won't be in the room to see you in peace - he's not that small, but he plays games and that's their main occupation. The next day they went out, then they came and I did housework all afternoon while they were together. I didn't even go to them at all because I'm not comfortable. I could read a book or stand on the phone if I was in the room. It so happened that I hadn't eaten since morning, I was so hungry that I got nervous. Later I told him that I couldn't sit down to eat quietly from them - it was cold in the kitchen, I wanted it warm and I just told him. It may be a trifle and I'm not entirely right, but he's been picking on me for the second day for what I've said and he's acting bad. Out of anger, I told him that I should be his most important person, not some friend of his, for whom he would insinuate some nonsense to me. I tell him that I have to be calm mainly because of the embryo in me ...
Going to work, he called me an 'idiot' because of the same thing - I told him that it doesn't affect me / actually me, and a lot / - then he repeated the insult, he shows me his middle fingers and scolds me with very harsh words. Other times I always keep going - either I tell him how I felt, or I cry and apologize to him / even if I don't feel guilty! /, or write him a message; I seldom say anything offensive to him, but not seriously. This time, however, I have no desire to contact him, and he is usually the person who ignores me - especially when there is guilt! The opposite happened - he wrote me messages about how slimy I was, he called me. Finally he apologized. But the insult remains. I have told him hundreds of times that insults kill love, that there are other ways, but pass - do not pass, do it again. Either I forgive him or he apologizes to me. But here we are together and he longed to get pregnant, because it took almost a year of trying. I actually realized this these days that I was both happy and at the same time we couldn't believe it was true. I immediately started to be interested in what is the development of the fetus so far, what should I eat more, I also tell him that I have lost more, etc. I've been lying that I'm 'complaining' to him, I've been lying about everything I share with him ... And I'm a serious person, I like to say what I think and feel. I may be petty, but I want everything to be clear. I don't know how to make him think. Today he thought, because for the first time I did not return it in any way. But it costs me more resentment because I keep it to myself. I must admit, however, that I do not like to welcome guests very much, and more often in the late hours I am not very ok, and he loves a lot. So, for the upcoming New Year, I refused to invite people because last New Year, although the atmosphere was pleasant, I could not have dinner from the service. Otherwise, everyone was fed. It is one thing to lose for the sake of your child or relatives, it is another for the sake of strangers. I'm complaining, I've been a liar for everything I share with him ... And I'm a serious person, I like to say what I think and feel. I may be petty, but I want everything to be clear. I don't know how to make him think. Today he thought, because for the first time I did not return it in any way. But it costs me more resentment because I keep it to myself. I must admit, however, that I do not like to welcome guests very much, and more often in the late hours I am not very ok, and he loves a lot. So, for the upcoming New Year, I refused to invite people because last New Year, although the atmosphere was pleasant, I could not have dinner from the service.
Otherwise, everyone was fed. It is one thing to lose for the sake of your child or relatives, it is another for the sake of strangers. I'm complaining, I've been a liar for everything I share with him ... And I'm a serious person, I like to say what I think and feel. I may be petty, but I want everything to be clear. I don't know how to make him think. Today he thought, because for the first time I did not return it in any way. But it costs me more resentment because I keep it to myself. I must admit, however, that I do not like to welcome guests very much, and more often in the late hours I am not very ok, and he loves a lot. So, for the upcoming New Year, I refused to invite people because last New Year, although the atmosphere was pleasant, I could not have dinner from the service. Otherwise, everyone was fed. It is one thing to lose for the sake of your child or relatives, it is another for the sake of strangers. I like to say what I think and feel. I may be petty, but I want everything to be clear. I don't know how to make him think. Today he thought, because for the first time I did not return it in any way. But it costs me more resentment because I keep it to myself. I must admit, however, that I do not like to welcome guests very much, and more often in the late hours I am not very ok, and he loves a lot. So, for the upcoming New Year, I refused to invite people because last New Year, although the atmosphere was pleasant, I could not have dinner from the service. Otherwise, everyone was fed. It is one thing to lose for the sake of your child or relatives, it is another for the sake of strangers.
I like to say what I think and feel. I may be petty, but I want everything to be clear. I don't know how to make him think. Today he thought, because for the first time I did not return it in any way. But it costs me more resentment because I keep it to myself. I must admit, however, that I do not like to welcome guests very much, and more often in the late hours I am not very ok, and he loves a lot. So, for the upcoming New Year, I refused to invite people because last New Year, although the atmosphere was pleasant, I could not have dinner from the service. Otherwise, everyone was fed. It is one thing to lose for the sake of your child or relatives, it is another for the sake of strangers. Today he thought, because for the first time I did not return it in any way. But it costs me more resentment because I keep it to myself. I must admit, however, that I do not like to welcome guests very much, and more often in the late hours I am not very ok, and he loves a lot. So, for the upcoming New Year, I refused to invite people because last New Year, although the atmosphere was pleasant, I could not have dinner from the service. Otherwise, everyone was fed. It is one thing to lose for the sake of your child or relatives, it is another for the sake of strangers. Today he thought, because for the first time I did not return it in any way. But it costs me more resentment because I keep it to myself. I must admit, however, that I do not like to welcome guests very much, and more often in the late hours I am not very ok, and he loves a lot. So, for the upcoming New Year, I refused to invite people because last New Year, although the atmosphere was pleasant, I could not have dinner from the service.
Otherwise, everyone was fed. It is one thing to lose for the sake of your child or relatives, it is another for the sake of strangers. for the coming new year I refused to invite people because last new year, although the atmosphere was pleasant, I could not have dinner from the service. Otherwise, everyone was fed. It is one thing to lose for the sake of your child or relatives, it is another for the sake of strangers. for the coming new year I refused to invite people because last new year, although the atmosphere was pleasant, I could not have dinner from the service. Otherwise, everyone was fed. It is one thing to lose for the sake of your child or relatives, it is another for the sake of strangers.
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Emmy ... that's right. Let me just tell you, honey, that if you have problems now, when the baby shows up, things will get a lot worse. But enough.