For Smart People Dating Idiots We Like ...

   Such are the women brother. If you are a good and decent boy, it is very difficult to find a chick. There are decent and cool girls, but it's hard. And they like the bad Batkovs because it's interesting with them. They are not shy and narrow among people and are very communicative. It's normal ... Open up a little more and you won't have a problem. And there's nothing wrong with not wanting you. Different taste. Start training something and you will relax in communication with women.

   and those bastards have a cool body and face. here is the key. and remember that the path to a woman's heart goes through her work - something that Batkovites know very well

   Man, you're too young to talk like that. You are only 18, you have yet to live, to meet new people, boys and girls. Your impressions so far are about the people from the environment in which you move, school and acquaintances from the neighborhood. Good, but the world is big and it doesn't end with these people. Now let me answer you more specifically about the issue with the girls. Well, very simply, you do not attract them from a sexual point of view. You can be a very cool person, smart, honest, hardworking, and even handsome. But if there is no sexual chemistry between you and a girl, all these qualities remain in the background. This does not mean that these qualities are not important and are not valued, but still in a couple there must be sexual attraction, so we are arranged by nature. Otherwise, what kind of boyfriends will you be? If you don't have sex together, but you value yourself as people and personalities, then you're friends, acquaintances ... Why do these girls like idiots? Well, then the spark of attraction has ignited between the girl and the idiot. Of course, the girl realizes that you are a cool person, that you have many qualities and therefore she would like the idiot to have the same qualities, but alas. Haven't you heard the saying that Cupid always slaps things? We often fall in love with the wrong people and as a result, we suffer. Don't feel sorry for yourself and imagine that you will be left alone for a while. If you really think so, it will happen. You better think about what exactly you need to do to be more attractive. You don't have to be handsome to attract women. There are beauties who are not attractive at all. Rather, it is a matter of behavior and confidence. Here's what I like about myself as a woman: a man who takes care of his appearance without being obsessed with it. Nice to see a person who takes some time to look good. A person with ambitions for prosperity in the professional sphere. A person with hobbies, be it sports, literature, cinema, photography ... it is obvious that he has some interests besides gambling. Confident man. That is, a person who likes himself without being arrogant or impudent. To behave with respect to the woman without being fooled. And there must be a sense of humor. These are more or less the things that attract me to a man and the things that a man can work on. The rest now remains in the hands of nature. Now, to calm down, I will tell you that I know several cases of cool, smart and beautiful boys who go out with a girl who is the complete opposite, ugly and stupid and without any interests in life. I never understood what they had seen of these girls.

   Ha, this M18 finally explains everything :) Teenage drama, my life is ruined, I will be alone forever, etc. Your experience with women (actually girls) so far means absolutely nothing. At the moment, as your age and maturity, you are at the first level and you can attract the most. Watch your teachings, mature and higher levels will open up to you with much more interesting and serious women. And if you're still alone after 30, there's a late train of freshly divorced sets, so you're not stuck at all.

   You are still very young, things will certainly change. Haven't you listened to interviews with the undisputed sex symbol Julia Roberts, the actress from "Pretty Woman"? She says that when she was a teenager she was an absolutely unpopular girl - all the boys were making fun of her for being skinny, tall as a pond, red. From the ugly duckling grew a beautiful swan, as often happens in life. I told you about her because she is popular, everyone knows such women personally in life. Your time will come. And these muffins, which are preferred by idiots and bad boys after living in a fight and infidelity, finally reconsider their preferences. I wish you success

   See, just because you like them doesn't mean they have to come back with their feelings. Have you thought that maybe you don't have any common interests that she might be interested in? Or that maybe you're not her type? Or that you like women, much more beautiful or successful than you, a kind of lowering your criteria a bit? No woman likes a womanizer because he is a womanizer or because he is terrible, but because 1. He has self-confidence that he knows how to handle - and as a woman's inner instinct she sees him as the strongest man in the group, ie he he will be the best man, because he will provide the most 2. These men, from what I have seen from the side, always pretend to be very sensitive and very good, and it is as if the woman will hardly change them. I don't know how they believe them, but for some it works. This is probably the 30th such topic of a man complaining that women don't want him. Emmy, should we get such a pot? Just go on with your life and think about whether you really want this type of woman, or it's just for fun to have a chick! Because I can guarantee that half of these men, if they get such a woman, their self-esteem rises by 300 and they start treating them like garbage, and I've seen that MANY times. And women who have already made this mistake know that there is no point in "lowering" their criteria again if they can catch a better potential man. If you talk to women in this way, no wonder they don't want you, you make them feel sorry for you like a puppy and for being nice to you, but they don't want you. My women's advice - grow! In the right environment you will find the right person. It's a cliché, but it's a fact that you're obviously looking for these women in the wrong environment.