To number 10: If you decide to try, start with the ones with a more correct shape without many curves. You need a secluded place and free time to relax. It works best in the evening after a shower in a darkened room. For example, I work when my wife is on a business trip and I am alone for a few days. Get enough lubricant and do not save it - it is very important, apply often and abundantly. Don't expect miracles in the beginning, you need patience and activities while you get to know your body and relax to feel these feelings qualitatively. The prostate is a very specific organ and is not always set to give you a pleasant feeling - sometimes it just does not work, the important thing is not to give up. I proceed as follows: Walking on all kinds of needs, then a hot long shower or bath, with good emphasis on the hygiene of the respective places / washing, hair removal, massage /. Then, completely naked, I close myself in a warm room with a blindfold and ear pads / the goal is to take away part of the senses so that you can sharpen your sensitivity to other signals from your body /. I lubricate the massager with a lot of lubricant, as well as the butt as far as I can get with my finger inserted / the gadget must be washed well before and after use /. All movements must be slow and patient to relax the muscle itself and take the toy inside you without pressure and without pain. Once everything is in place, I lie relaxed for a few minutes and try to adjust the toy only by breathing and very slightly tightening the pelvic muscles. If a spontaneous erection has not occurred, you can secure it with a light touch on or around the member while it is erecting. Once you are aroused you can now experiment with breathing, tightening and relaxing the pelvis, inclination and posture of the body, position and inclination of penetration until you feel the touch of the prostate / you can not mistake the feeling - a heat spills from the inside out all over the lower part of the pelvis and spine /. If you feel this caress - you just try to keep it, repeat, etc. If at some point you feel dry or that the massager does not move freely in your body - you take it out and return it. The goal is for the gadget to move freely and smoothly inside, controlled only by your muscles and breathing so as to caress the prostate. When you get used to it, you will be able to control your pace and pressure without effort, and this will eventually lead to uncontrollable convulsions and prolonged orgasms that you never dreamed of. I did not believe that we could experience multiple dry orgasms, but a fact! In addition to all this, the exercise is useful for prostate health, and also for better control of ejaculation during normal sexual intercourse. I wish you success in your endeavor and I hope I have been useful to you. - From number 1
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I am 35 years old and I have been married for 10 years. I have not had intimate experiences with a man, but I really want to try. Like you, I imagine it as a threesome with my wife, but she is adamant that she would not like it. I have several models of prostate massager, I also tried a vibrator. I'm definitely heterosexual, but I'd love to try it for purely physical interest. Both the passive and the active part of the act. I've been wondering if it's a good idea to hire a transvestite for this purpose.