Do you think there are people who will never find a tolerable girlfriend - people who are initially so unattractive that whatever they do is doomed? I recently had two conversations on the subject with my friends. I don't like the cliché "there are passengers for every train", but I believe that one changes, albeit with difficulty, as long as one desires. And actions lead to results. I recently had two conversations on the subject. The first was with a friend of mine, let's call him Rumen. At 32, Rumen has had only one girlfriend so far. And it's understandable - it looks pretty bad. It is markedly full, with a bald head, hunched over, with crooked teeth. Recently he complained to me that women do not pay attention to him and he will die alone. I didn't want to reassure him in vain, but I also didn't want to give him a life sentence. I told him frankly what I thought - that this with the train and the passengers is a cliché, that attitude is important, but not just with it. And I told him directly that I think there is a way, but it requires a lot of effort.
That they are complex qualities, but the superficial is important. And I advised him to improve his diet, to start exercising hard and to fix his body in a year or two. To cut his hair very short so that he does not show baldness. And fix your teeth. Another thing I advised him was to look for a good job that he liked and brought him a good income. Now he's talking nonsense. I don't know if he will be able to do these things, but I think if he does, there is a chance. Man has complexes, but I must admit - he controls them. I did not notice any rudeness or vulgarity in him. He behaves well with people, he is communicative, smiling. People around him like and appreciate him as a friend. We had a similar conversation with another friend. And so far he has only had one girlfriend. There is a worse situation in some respects. Very skinny, with disheveled sparse hair, he looks like a genius. He is good professionally, but the complexes are very similar to him. He hates everything and everyone. There I gave him similar advice on sports and clothes, but advised him to work on his character and demeanor. I have not spoken to women on the subject.
We know 100-pound girls with mustaches who find it difficult to attract men's attention. But appearance is something that is in our control - sports, clothes, etc. With the character and complexes is more difficult, but they are subject to change. So, in my opinion, if a person is healthy, there is a way to make an effort and be attractive to the opposite sex. No one is inherently repulsive to generation. I don't know, what do you think? Very skinny, with disheveled sparse hair, he looks like a genius. He is good professionally, but the complexes are very similar to him. He hates everything and everyone. There I gave him similar advice on sports and clothes, but advised him to work on his character and demeanor. I have not spoken to women on the subject. We know 100-pound girls with mustaches who find it difficult to attract men's attention. But appearance is something that is in our control - sports, clothes, etc. With the character and complexes is more difficult, but they are subject to change. So, in my opinion, if a person is healthy, there is a way to make an effort and be attractive to the opposite sex. No one is inherently repulsive to generation. I don't know, what do you think? Very skinny, with disheveled sparse hair, he looks like a genius. He is good professionally, but the complexes are very similar to him.
He hates everything and everyone. There I gave him similar advice on sports and clothes but advised him to work on his character and demeanor. I have not spoken to women on the subject. We know 100-pound girls with mustaches who find it difficult to attract men's attention. But appearance is something that is in our control - sports, clothes, etc. With the character and complexes is more difficult, but they are subject to change. So, in my opinion, if a person is healthy, there is a way to make an effort and be attractive to the opposite sex. No one is inherently repulsive to generation. I don't know, what do you think? There I gave him similar advice on sports and clothes but advised him to work on his character and demeanor. I have not spoken to women on the subject. We know 100-pound girls with mustaches who find it difficult to attract men's attention. But appearance is something that is in our control - sports, clothes, etc.
With the character and complexes is more difficult, but they are subject to change. So, in my opinion, if a person is healthy, there is a way to make an effort and be attractive to the opposite sex. No one is inherently repulsive to generation. I don't know, what do you think? There I gave him similar advice on sports and clothes, but advised him to work on his character and demeanor. I have not spoken to women on the subject. We know 100-pound girls with mustaches who find it difficult to attract men's attention. But appearance is something that is in our control - sports, clothes, etc. With the character and complexes is more difficult, but they are subject to change. So, in my opinion, if a person is healthy, there is a way to make an effort and be attractive to the opposite sex.
No one is inherently repulsive to generation. I don't know, what do you think? but they are also subject to change. So, in my opinion, if a person is healthy, there is a way to make an effort and be attractive to the opposite sex. No one is inherently repulsive to generation. I don't know, what do you think? but they are also subject to change. So, in my opinion, if a person is healthy, there is a way to make an effort and be attractive to the opposite sex. No one is inherently repulsive to generation. I don't know, what do you think?
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I am a woman and I think you are absolutely right. Good support and social skills can make you from nothing to top, or at least to an enviable level. I have noticed that people who are not successful in love lack at least one, often both. Unfortunately, they are usually reluctant to work on themselves, they are fixed on their shortcomings and kill them with malice and nagging, which completely destroys their chances.