Girls and immature women.
A real woman won't fall for a man like that, and she's going to like someone who's straight.
But, of course, such women are rare.
And at your age, don't expect women to be particularly mature, they're still in the transition between a girl and a woman, most of them don't know what world they're in...
It's not about the direct approach. That's what I like, and that's the kind of guy that's the way things have happened to me. I think you should be looking for a reason to be turned down somewhere else.
I like the direct approach, but you still have to be polite and tactful, not a jerk.
There's nothing wrong with direct edding, I personally prefer it.
But to answer your question... it's more interesting, there's some mystery and so on.. But again, there's nothing wrong with directness. I don't think she's the reason you're being cut.
It depends on how you serve your directness. No one likes rudeness and arrogance.
I have always preferred direct men, because from the beginning I am aware of the answers to all possible questions. I don't have time for go-go games; I want you-I don't want you." But, saying that, I can imagine drinking my coffee, and there's some guy coming up telling me directly that he wants to sleep with me or go out with me tonight, some stranger. It's okay to be direct, but that's true of a stage where you've had a little chat with the woman, and it's clear that there's at least minimal interest between you. The line between directness and arrogance is not very thick, and one should be careful with his words and actions.
I'm a man, and I'm going to try to give you a sense of it. Number 6 has given a pretty accurate answer about how women accept directness.
For the psyche, a woman just doesn't understand to come out of nowhere and tell her you want to have sex. It's a kind of aggression for them, and it's not attractive if you're going to be Brad Pitt. In order to be successful in direct, she must have experienced some kind of attraction to you first, even if it was the result of a few minutes of conversation in which you managed something to impress and interest you.
The ultra-direct approach tactic, which seems so logical and cleared from the "bibs" of a man, in my opinion can be successful in no more than 10% of cases, because women are just differently arranged. To raise the success rate with it you have to be propped up with very serious "crutches" such as a display of wealth, an impressive car and any other attributes of external status... But here it is questioning the quality of the women you will attract in this way, and whether you can afford it.
My advice is to work on your approach. Over time, you'll realize that this "right-wing eye-popping "muffle of me (or i'm ashamed) of stomping" isn't exactly the Mother of Seduction Tactics.
To be direct one, to cut the flirtation another. Some women are more playful and they care about it.
From the author hello I read the comments I meant a direct approach after you already know the woman in question and you know what you want from your relationship. Not just hello I'm Pesso please you want to have sex softly stupid is tonight, the other is that at my age, no matter how much you're a boy with a future if you're going to avoid the golden boy they're avoiding looking for something that's holding me today, I'm gone and it annoys people like me who know what they want literally from every aspect of life.
G, 19
I'm enjoying it more. But not those who are a jerk, but those who are male.
My opinion is that you shouldn't pay any attention to the women who answer you here. First of all, proceed from the fact that your experience in practice is catastrophic for you. It's the only unmistakable finding, and what the ladies here do, it doesn't matter at all. And from that fact, we're already looking for an explanation. The direct approach of the man (you are no longer a boy at 21) disarms him, a kind, from the beginning, and gives the psychological advantage of the woman (babe)... That's what explains the feedback here that they preferred direct explanations... They like them, but they're going to keep cutting you off on a general basis, even though you're brushing their egos and giving them a self-esteem without moving their little finger to deserve it... It's like tipping them before they run out of favors. It's like firing your bullets at the beginning, when you don't know the target itself and your outlines are lost. They make fun of you and make fun of you at the same time. Among other things, a direct approach is not consistent with the nature and psyche of the woman - she, in order to dods, to curl up, to be, to be, must be predisposed, to feel attracted to you. Well, if you're not Cristiano Ronaldo, it's hard to do that with a direct approach, very small probability. This is done with some small steps to trigger the mechanism of attraction, and it's not as simple as going and looking at it: Well, you're very cool, well, you're the best, let's do something! Like I said, you tickle and flatter her, but the formula of success is to seduce her, not to directly admit that you're the seduced. That's the explanation that they're cutting you. You disarm yourself, from the very beginning, you go before her with the white flag: I am defeated! ... Have mercy on me and give me something, because I'm so tanned for caresses... Well, that's not going to happen, because the chicks are swamped with such requests by burnt-out lads craving caresses, and that bores them. She doesn't see that you're tanned and you need her, she's watching to see if she's going to feel the need for you, your offer. And with a direct approach, your offer is like dozens of uniform rains, it's not interesting. She, in order to let someone go, has to define him as different from the others. Think about these things. The rapprochement with each other must be as bipartisan as you are. When you find out you're up for it, and she didn't do anything about it, she can get you around the way she likes it.
I'm sure you're even hitting a not beam, but you always beat a lot in the out...
Tell me, my friend, "I'm here today, three i'm gone"))), will you be interested in reading a crime in person, which says, who is the killer, or a love novel in which from the beginning it is clear what is going on in the finale? No one's interested in reading the book. That's your direct approach. Don't reveal yourself too much.
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