I am a girl who has a lot ahead ... but what is happening to me torments me, and I want to get advice on how I can stop thinking and love a person. I have been living abroad for a year and a half. When I came I met a boy, he was older than me but I thought I would not fall in love because many times before I had no feelings for people who wanted me, but I did not deceive them .. I told them the truth no matter how painful be it. We started going out..we became boyfriends ..everything was going great..maybe until one day I started to doubt him..and rightly..he exposes me so many times ...
I had gone on 50 pill pills I had become 40 which is not healthy at all for a girl in puberty ... We parted with pain and sadness I managed to recover and continued ... but with the thought that one day I will be with him once again, he left for 2 months, and then when her father died 1 month after he was gone, he realized who thought of him and appreciated him. We started writing to each other and he told me how he was looking forward to fixing all the documents and coming to me. And so it happened, I came back ... we were happy for about 2 months..without arguing about anything..he trusted me he had given me all his passwords from these dating sites ... moved to live to even with me, with my parents ... we got along well, everything was like a fairy tale ... then he wanted to bring his sister and his mother on vacation ... well, they came ... and from that moment he changed .... before the privilege
"I WANT TO PAY YOUR BILL" I'm not for someone to pay me .... it's just a lot of naughty when someone takes you out to treat you on some occasion and you pay ... what else .. . Well, I think that when you say something you have to do it ... not because it's your sister, mother or boyfriend .... to quarrel with someone from a friend's family and hurt a friend in this way I don't think it's correct .. ..a person does not choose his parents and is not able to change them.
That he is not ready to start a family because he has fantasies that he will get rich and do business for his mother to make good money and a future for his sister ... if you are 26 I think you have to think about what you want to do with your life not first to say I CAN'T SUPPORT YOUR LIFE and then to tell someone that he is not ready to live with you because he did not protect you in front of you .... and then in a few days to admit it ..... not to look for the person with whom you were so close and to whom you swore that you would not leave him... Yes, from my point of view, things may seem in favor of the girl (myself) But Hell... What is such a lie for you? "When someone has broken your heart, you're looking for a way to glue it, you're borrowing someone else's ... but do you know how you're wrong?"
That if you break another heart left in your hands, you will not find peace even if you take the insidious heart of the Liar ... '' [censored] I will be glad who can help me by writing me to do something soon [censored]
1 janedoe777 answered
Hello Sweetie; I am 25 years old; Last October I started a new job, a boy came from Sofia and everything was almost at first sight, a month later we knew each other, we were together for 2 years, we were together until February - as friends, I left and went to England, I could not stand without we wrote to him every other day, we were madly in love and after 2 weeks I returned to B's. He was waiting for me with my parents at the airport to give a rose and kissed me for the first time. I cried a lot! A week later, we both knew what we wanted - a family. We started a serious relationship a month later we booked a date for the wedding 8.09 He was too busy with his work and told me you would organize the wedding and I would help you. We were operating on appendicitis, and he came to see me in the hospital only once. I started the organization for the wedding. Invitations, dress, restaurants, gifts for guests, and he hadn't bought a suit yet. We did not place an order for the rings - he said there was time. We went to sea to meet the godparents. We are back from the sea and the end! I was looking and he didn't answer! I wrote messages - no answer! And so a week until he wrote me that there would be no wedding ... I passed with the number that I did not talk to the godparents at sea and with the fact that my father bought us a new car for the wedding. And we had plans for a baby and a family .... He gathered courage and we saw each other after 2 weeks. I realized that he doesn't love me when I told him if I was pregnant and he answered that there are doctors ... It's hard but try to forget it, take me as an example, can you imagine what it's like for my guests to call me for a gift and I tell them that there will be no wedding. Don't look for him, time will pass and the pain will decrease ... If you decide to be with him, in time you will be like me destroyed because I was operated on, I was weak, I lost the baby, which he will not know about, again operated on and abandoned weeks before the wedding ... Try to forget him now and not like me, now for me the loss is very difficult first the baby, and now the man whom i love all this because of a woman 10 years younger than him and one head taller than him. I hope you deal with the pain. Good luck darling!