Hello, I am a 15-year-old girl, I will be in the ninth grade this year. So as soon as the first day of school comes, I decided to tell my story. I am from an ordinary, I would even say slightly poor family, I live with only one parent. From first to fifth grade, I was bullied by everyone, allowing others to crush me, insult me, and make fun of me. Because I was very anxious, modest, and maybe too good with everyone, and others took advantage of that. When I entered puberty, I changed dramatically, maybe because I was bullied, I missed it and started dating companies that were definitely not in my style. Just when I changed, everyone started treating me differently, expressing my opinion and standing behind me. After a while I stopped smoking and I was like before, only I grew up with a lot of friends, connections and people behind you. I have experienced this harassment for years and maybe today I am left with something like a trauma and I do not fully believe in myself. I would give advice to all who experience it, not to be offended by the words of others, not to be silent, but to show who they are, although in the beginning they will be ashamed or maybe rather ashamed. And even if you are different in appearance, don't be ashamed of who you are. For example, if you are fatter and everyone teases and insults you, you motivate yourself and show what you can do in spite of others, not to demotivate yourself. Or, for example, if you are told how stupid you are and have low grades, sit down and learn to show that this is not the case. Never be influenced by people and what they think, because no matter what you do, you will be constantly in their mouths. I was super silent and hated people and the fact that I was around them, but now, years later, I adore new acquaintances and people. So those who make fun of you and are "famous" at school, in years to come will live with their parents and wonder why they did not study at the time and absolutely no one will remember them. Don't let others crush you and never be guided by what the "cool" ones do at school, because in time you will regret it. You have a lot more potential than you think and use it properly. As a child I was quite harassed, now I am very sociable, with people behind me and I no longer allow myself to be insulted and trampled. It's just that things change over time, and in years to come nothing will be the same. So live your life and don't let others fix it. And the greatest support you can have in this life is yourself. I decided to share this story after reading a lot of harassment stories and decided to share something myself. Sorry for the spelling mistakes and I hope I've been helpful to someone.
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Take a pair of tights, put some soap inside and go to the park to train over a tree. When someone bothered you another time, they just reached into their pockets and they took their faces.