Flirting - Something More Or Everything Is Just In My Head ???

Hello! I am a 24-year-old woman. I will tell my story in the shortest possible way. We are interested in the opinion of both men and women on the subject, because I myself can not judge exactly what situation I find myself in, this is something new for me. In November I had to hold a working meeting with a man. We met, we met, we went to the office and sat down to talk, whereupon this man was looking at me and smiling at me, but I'm quite shy and I kept looking at him, now I looked away. We even argued over a case, and even when I was angry, he smiled and looked at me strangely, as if his eyes were laughing. He is generally quite a sociable man and quite liked, he has the reputation of a stripper, but as far as I know at the moment he is alone. At a later stage of our meeting there was silence, I took notes. He asked me if you recorded? I answered yes and continued to write down the two lines I had left and he smiled again in the same way .. Then I caught him staring at me and immediately looked away and I was quite worried but said nothing. After a while we talked about some research and suddenly he leaned towards me, more precisely he tilted his head towards me, ran his fingers through his hair and bit his lower lip ...: x whereupon I blushed (as I said earlier I am shy ha-ha-ha) and my legs literally sagged ... it lasted about a minute .. I blushed and he smiled. Then he got up and took the laptop and we continued the conversation and at one point he got up and moved his chair next to me and moved his laptop while I was still sitting in the starting position, as the recent incident had shocked me a lot and I still could not react and did not move, and after about 5-6 minutes he became abrupt and moved back to the starting position and told me so much from me if I can be useful to you with say something if you remember and I said okay no problem Thanks for the time and everything seemed to be fine, but I felt that he did it on purpose, because his initial behavior was kinder, he obviously did not like the fact that I did not sit next to him and him I looked in amazement (without any muffin glances, muzzles, etc ....) and he said to me: I just don't feel sick! Whereupon I turned to him and told him not to hurry ...

And he said to me: Well, I hope so, and I tell you again if you need help, turn to me and I said well, thank you and said to me: And please send me the cards we talked about and I said well when I'm ready I give them to you immediately and he again: But really please send them to me I want to see them. And I said again, of course, when they're ready. And he said to me: Do not give up! Every beginning is difficult and I was like you some time ago and I understand you, but please don't give up! And I replied: When something is worth it, one would not give up and I think the project is worth it! And I left. After 3 days I wrote him an email that everything was ready and he replied that he liked it a lot and whether I did not want to develop my work. I had to refuse him because I was so busy and overwhelmed with piles of exams and I went to work and he stumbled and said: Well, I don't see how I can be of any use to you anymore! Accordingly, I was angry, for I had not given him a reason for this type of behavior on his part and I disputed his words, in which a week later I received another email from him that he wants me to do something that is beyond my competence and I will not go into details only I will say that he wanted to work for something for which I have no experience or qualification. And no one had warned me that I should do such a thing, I contacted the person who sent me to the man in question and asked if I should do it at all.

This man said you shouldn't! And I, as a woman with a well-developed intuition, told myself that something was not quite right and I wanted and was determined to find out what was happening. I called him on my cell phone and of course, I had to trick him into finding out the truth and whether I was imagining something. I called him, picked up the phone and asked him about the task in question, which he assigned to me he hurried to answer me that it was because some people around him including the person I was talking to and told me that there was no such thing would have followed together with the work of me and a few other people and that this person he had told him that I would be ready for the whole project in two weeks, and I was furious and told him:

Look what I am studying, working and no one has informed me about such a thing and I told him that I will try to do it, but I will not be in the time he wants, I assumed that they may have missed to say that there is such a thing, because in my environment and the environment in which I find we are all very busy and it is normal to make mistakes and forget things . I forgot to mention that he wrote me emails in which he kept telling me I can't wait to see them several times. He told me well when you can then. I told him not to have high expectations, but I will do such a thing for the first time and I will just try and he said to understand, when there was time then do not worry. We got along and that was it. Then we last heard from each other in December before Christmas. Everything was going his way. In January, I sent him my "creation" and he replied bluntly that he had already arranged a position for someone and that he thanked me for trying to cope.

I wrote to him For nothing success! About a week or two passed and this man who sent me to him inserted in a conversation between colleagues that some girls were very interested in what we were doing and wanted to follow our work, but I know that they are subordinate to the gentleman in question. for I know them but have kept my silence; that he purposefully rejected proposals from them several times, because the moment is not right and we do not have free time. I forgot to mention that the person I work with one day in his office asked me what happened to the person in question and I said that he would hardly look for me again, and he asked me the question:

Don't you cut him off? I said yes! I don't have free time to do things that are not within my competence ... this person laughed and that was ... Anyway, almost three months have passed and since I didn't have information, why the hell did I need all this tension to accomplish this task, which I accomplished because I had already given my word! And three days ago I asked the person I work with why I had to do this at all and that I had to question him instead of the one who assigned me this because of his rude treatment. And guess what he told me that basically what I do is personal to me, they do every single research activity, but otherwise this person was curious about my project for some reason (work-related)

And when I said that I thought he was angry, he replied that there were no offenders, on the contrary! :) (literally so he wrote it with a smile and an exclamation mark). And I think I'll see this man again. After our conversation 3 hours passed and a number called me, I couldn't call (0:31 h) at the moment a little later I started to call, but the subscriber's phone was turned off, I wrote an SMS. I did not answer the phone turned on after a day. When I called I didn't get up again, I made acquaintances call, they said that he picked up a man, but he didn't pick me up and he called me: D and I took the initiative again and called from another number to pick up and he was a man but I'm not sure if this is the man, I think it was him I don't know maybe I'm wrong .... So what do you think it was the whole thing I explained a lot in short, so as not to get into boring soaps ... I want to know what your opinion is on the subject and what you would advise me, because I think I will probably have to see this person again and I want to be prepared for how to proceed with him. Thank you for your time and patience to read my post and I will gladly wait for the opinions of as many people as possible and especially from men ha ha ha ha I want to know what your opinion is on the subject and what you would advise me because I think I will have to see this person again and I want to be prepared how to proceed with him.

Thank you for your time and patience to read my post and I will gladly wait for the opinions of as many people as possible and especially from men ha ha ha ha I want to know what your opinion is on the subject and what you would advise me because I think I will have to see this person again and I want to be prepared how to proceed with him. Thank you for your time and patience to read my post and I will gladly wait for the opinions of as many people as possible and especially from men ha ha ha ha