Let me explain to you now. Flash is not something ugly and disgusting. On the contrary. I also have a flash - 12. I had a fight with ours, but I still decided to reach 15 and stop. That's right. If you are going to buy an expander, you better start with something smaller (thick needles, earplugs or toothpicks). Of course, after you clean them thoroughly. It all depends on how big a flash you want. Personally, I don't like the little ones because they are threaded and it is not obvious at all what their size is. If you take a 5 mm dilator, it will be hellishly difficult to put it in your ear. I know it from personal experience, its tip is barely visible. It doesn't work .... Otherwise, once you can safely hold the dilator in your ear, push it every day. Either way, it can't be without hurting you at least a little. And here is the evolution of my flash. First I started with a crochet hook, then with a better one, I reached for a chemical refill, then an even bigger hook, and managed to put on a piece of balloon tube. Then it was a straw, finally I was happy to buy a real flash - 8mm. Two days ago I put on a 10mm pen and now I have a 12mm pen. I will soon buy an expander 15. Good luck
1 Katie_Foxy answered
Hello friend; d. So I'm not an expert, but first of all, putting flashbacks doesn't make you gay. I adore guys with flashbacks, but I don't see many of them. The pain is bearable, because the ear hole expands gradually and is not very painful, calm down! Um, which ear to put on? Well, what you choose. Just my opinion - it will be super goth if you put on both. You decide, Good luck! . M. P. :)